Someone once said that discipline without love is a kind of disability, between teachers and students? Love? It
Someone once said that discipline without love is a kind of disability, between teachers and students? Love? It is the bond to maintain education. A pair of eyes can't see dozens of students, but a love can hold dozens of hearts. When I approached the children in my class with love, I found that my heart warmed up.
Haohao, sports committee member, excellent grades, class? Star of civilization? . It was a complete coincidence to go to his house.
That day, I visited a student's house in my class. After that, I walked to the entrance of the village and happened to bump into Haohao.
? Hello, teacher! ? He greeted me politely.
? What a coincidence. Do you live here too? Then can you show me around your house? I did it on impulse.
? All right! ? He hesitated, but agreed.
We walked door to door, almost walking through the village, and finally, we stopped in front of a one-story simple house. Their home is actually in a simple group rental house! Judging from his usual clothes and school supplies, I thought their home conditions were not bad.
I walked in with him, and the whole room of more than ten square meters was full of things: two beds, a TV set, a small table and a chest of drawers? There are many things, but they are not messy.
Haohao's mother happened to be at home. I learned that Haohao's father bought a van with all his family's money in order to go out for transportation. Now his father runs long distances outside every day and seldom goes home. In order to take care of him conveniently, Haohao's mother found a job nearby, but there will inevitably be night shifts, so Haohao can only go home to cook, wash clothes, do homework and sleep by herself.
Hearing this, I can't help but give a thumbs-up to Haohao: such a small child, with such strong independence, can not only keep the house in order, but also handle his own study.
In view of Haohao's school situation, I made a simple statement to her mother: he thinks seriously in class, gestures actively, and is meticulous in his homework; As a sports committee member, he cares about the collective, works conscientiously and responsibly, is a good helper for teachers and an example for students to learn.
On the other hand, Haohao frowned, perhaps because he didn't want the teacher to know his family. So, I shared with my parents my childhood experience of living in a fish pond: it was also a room with two beds. There was no running water at that time, and animals like snakes often came? As a guest, Hao Hao listened, and his eyebrows gradually stretched out. I encourage Haohao to continue to be confident, take every step in a down-to-earth manner, and keep forging ahead towards the goals in his heart in order to repay his mother and father for taking care of him hard.
The ancients said:? Know his heart and save his loss? . Approaching children and their families, I learned a lot of unimaginable practical problems, which helped me to better help them get out of the temporary predicament, and also helped me to improve class management methods and improve class management level to a certain extent.
When I severely criticized Wen Wen and received his greeting card the next day, I knew I had entered his heart. When we sang "True Hero" at the school culture and art festival, at last, the whole class held high the lyrics and read them together. Seize every minute of life, go all out to the dream in our hearts, how to see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain, no one can succeed casually. ? I know our hearts are connected. Whenever I receive handmade greeting cards, red refills, eggs and mints from students on holidays, I know that I am the happiest person.
And the children's dribs and drabs will always touch me, warm me and make me feel the children's love for the teacher. Love is an important factor in education, a heartfelt enthusiasm, a prerequisite for teachers to educate people, and also a teaching art and ability of teachers. This love is as precious as the warm sunshine in winter.
Give children more love, let the sunshine of love warm their hearts, and let the rain and dew of love nourish their growth!
Author: Yu
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