Is this actually your way? You shouldn't push your children to boarding schools and the army, but another problem is that you don't have time. So I have a few suggestions to enlighten and help your confusion. Now you don't have to go to college. Many people give up exams, but you can achieve the effect of going to college in another way. The difference between going to college and not going to college is quality training. You can cultivate from children's interests, and self-study online is also a good choice, or the network department can rest assured that the library is also a good choice. Secondly, it is a series of abilities such as moral education team consciousness, competition consciousness and communication. You can send him to a better school (mainly because the students here are of higher quality), but you don't need a resident, you can have a holiday or be free. When working and exercising, you must hone your skills. Depending on which piece your child is missing, you should mainly improve the ability of that piece and get twice the result with half the effort. My greatest hope is not to hand him over to the army. The army is the last choice for those who don't like learning and can't learn well. The quality of the people inside can be imagined. I'm glad to know if what I said is of any help to you. O(∩_∩)O~