Many parents are always easy to solve their children's problems unilaterally, but for children, they are independent individuals and need to be respected and understood, so this time shows the importance of communication. Only good communication can make children and parents walk barrier-free. Heart-to-heart dialogue can make parents less stumbling blocks and obstacles in the process of educating their children, so as to achieve the goal of optimal education for their children.
First of all, parents should respect their children and treat them as an independent individual, not their own accessories. Although parents are elders, children are individuals first and then parents' children. When you understand this, parents will be more calm when facing their children, and they will be able to look at the problem in a correct way and angle, so as to be equal and friendly in the process of communicating with their children.
Secondly, there should be the most basic respect for children. Children have strong self-esteem and are prone to rebellious emotions in the process of growing up. At this time, if parents show extra respect for themselves and let him feel their parents' concern from the depths of his soul, children will be willing to communicate with their parents more. Otherwise, no matter how many demands parents make, it is equivalent to casting pearls before swine, which will not play any role.
Finally, get along with children as peacefully and easily as possible, and don't try to treat children in a repressive and violent way to force them to submit. Children are emotional animals. When they feel tenderness and care from their parents, they will return the same love. Therefore, we use love to influence children, and we are also using love. Love builds this bridge of communication, which makes children feel at ease with their parents and feel safe in the process of communication. Parents are the trees that children rely on and the objects to talk to. As long as they use the right method, they can communicate well with their children.