Mom and dad give their children a letter.
Dear baby, mom and dad want to say to you:
? Son, I ask you to study hard, not to make you compare your grades with others, but to hope that you have the right to choose a meaningful and time-consuming job in the future, instead of being forced to make a living.
When your work is meaningful in your mind, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your job gives you time and doesn't deprive you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity give you happiness. Bless my children, self-confidence, progress, health, happiness and peace! ?
Maybe you don't know this at the age of six, so I will tell you the same thing at the beginning of each semester. When you really understand, you grow up.
This is mom and dad's blessing for your attitude towards life all your life. Careful baby, please keep these words in your heart and take them out every year, and you will see the love of your parents!
Love your mom and dad forever.
Mom and dad give their children a letter.
Every family:
Hello, dear child!
Time flies, and it is gratifying for your parents to watch you grow up day by day. You have reached the age of 14, and you are in the foundation stage of your ideal life. As a parent, you are both happy and very scared.
From an early age, you have shown a naive and positive character for things, and at the same time, you have also shown outstanding performance in interacting with people among children of the same age. Parents, grandparents and other family members are often proud of you. Before you started school to the third grade, you had such a high enthusiasm for reading, but in recent years, we have carefully observed that your interest in reading has declined and your performance has become more prominent. For example, the homework assigned by the teacher is only to complete the task!
Son, I hope you attach great importance to this problem. Today is a knowledge-based society. If you want to make a difference in society, you must cultivate your enthusiasm for reading and learning, and at the same time cultivate your spirit of concentration, so that you will certainly become a person who can make a difference!
Secondly, we are constantly observing and discovering your other hobbies, and cultivating your second specialty-finding that you are very interested in computers will make you take extracurricular computer courses, but you should know that computers are a tool for our study, communication and information communication, and you can't immerse yourself in the network.
Son, you hate that we stop you from surfing the Internet because we are worried that you can't control yourself and can't tell good from bad and true, good and beautiful. We are worried that you will be stubborn, and we don't want to see your painful regret when you wake up, because we can't replace you! Children, you should be sensible, I am still the same sentence, don't follow your personality, let alone be so rude to your parents. When I get home, I will watch less cartoons such as Happy and Big Big Wolf, stay less by the TV, accompany me to play games, think more, be more serious, practice more, squeeze out time, review well, make time, remember well, leave some space, ask questions to the teacher, learn eugenics, think more before going to bed every day, and learn what I have done today. As long as you persist, as long as you have determination, perseverance and perseverance, we believe in you, we support you, you will succeed, and you will have hope! Children, let us study hard with a grateful heart; Be a useful person to society.
It's the eighth grade now. It's time to study hard.
We are writing to you today to let you know that after all, we are your parents and have the right to protect and educate you. Son, when you grow up, your parents will set you free and let you fly. Now you have parents and teachers to guide you, so that you can gain knowledge and ability on the road of growth. You should know that more knowledge is the result of a long-term accumulation process, so don't rush for success. Pursuit is more important than persistence.
Children, parents sometimes don't handle problems properly, such as complaining about your poor academic performance and sometimes abusing you rudely, but you must make sure that your parents love you and you are our baby.
Learning is your present, future and even your life's work. Because of this, parents have a deeper understanding. Good study, good health and good moral character will benefit you for life. To this end, parents may be more strict, but you should also stand in the position of parents and understand them more.
Remember, my child, learning is your current task and responsibility. Take out your strength and courage to realize your dream-Qing Yu Middle School, be a good student with excellent academic performance, and be determined to realize your dream and become a senior officer in the future.
Work hard, son, come on! ! !
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Mom and dad give their children a letter.
Hello, kid!
In a blink of an eye, you will graduate from primary school and become a middle school student soon. Talking to you, I feel like I'm communicating with a friend or an adult. Suddenly feel very lost. It seems that you were born only yesterday. Why did you suddenly grow into a big child? I didn't savor your growth process in my busy life. Today, I opened your accumulated composition, carefully read one composition and one story, and brought me back to every day when you grew up. Let me re-examine your growth trajectory and feel the ups and downs of your growth. I can't help feeling mixed. Life is so wonderful. A young life, after winter and summer, is getting stronger and stronger, but mentally.
I was not a good mother in your education. When I was trying to be a good mother, I suddenly found that you had grown up, and I suddenly fell into deep confusion. I held your hand when you were ignorant, and now you have begun to have your own thoughts. Will you complain about the way I once held your hand? Looking back on your education, we have always adopted the so-called quality education. Besides school education, we still insist on playing the violin, playing table tennis, learning Olympic Mathematics and learning spoken English in our spare time. A historical story before dinner, an ancient poem, an Analects of Confucius before bed and a university, but there are not many certificates with high gold content. I can't help but think of a quarrel between you and me when I didn't want to verify it in the first grade. I remember that time. Articles ". In retrospect, I should admit that you don't have much evidence. It is a fact that I am a mother. But my mother thinks study is a marathon. One must have a goal, and the other is persistence. As long as you keep studying bit by bit every day, I believe there will be a bright future. Do you remember? The history of China is extensive and profound. It was so boring at first, but you only read the history of China once during the meal, and you are still reading it again and again. Ancient Chinese is so boring, but after three years of reading 10 minutes before going to bed, I also finished reading and reciting the Analects of Confucius, Daxue and The Doctrine of the Mean, which are familiar to everyone. Now reading ancient Chinese is also catchy. When chatting with me, was it Confucius? I remember how much you admired the poems of the Tang and Song Dynasties and the writers who spoke with poems, but did you not blurt out when you saw Lushan Waterfall? The spring water fell into the world because of its ascension? That poem? Although I don't have that much time, I don't insist on practicing the piano every day, and I easily get the five-level certificate of the Central Conservatory of Music. Although you didn't take part in all kinds of olympiad competitions, you didn't give up studying olympiad. In learning, you really don't have as many certificates to be proud of as other children of the same age, but mom knows that you have been working hard and persisting in learning. If you are more serious, my mother believes that you will achieve gratifying results.
Mom thanks you, son, because you are an honest boy. No matter what happens at school, good or bad, criticized by the teacher, or unsatisfactory grades, I will come back and tell my mother. Sometimes you know you will be scolded, but you should tell your mother seriously. Sometimes the teacher misjudges the paper and gives you more marks, so you will definitely ask the teacher to lower the marks. Do you know how happy mom is that you are honest and trustworthy? Because we can communicate normally, your honesty makes mom believe that you will be an upright person.
Thank you, mom. You are a persistent child. No matter how others hit you, you can stick to the goal you set. This is not easy for a child. The children on the bus go to buy snacks after school. If you feel unhealthy, don't buy them. What about yours? Alternative? How much criticism, even ridicule, even isolation, you can face it calmly. You have such a mentality, I don't think you will become a parrot even if you go to society.
My child, mother thanks you. During your 12 years of growth, you also gave her a chance to grow up again. Seeing your stumbling growth, her mind became more peaceful and her thoughts gradually matured. Without you, my mother will never understand the true meaning of growth, life and even life.
Son, you are going to bid farewell to your primary school career, teachers and classmates and start a new journey today. As a mother, I still have some heartfelt words to tell you:
Son, you should learn to be responsible for yourself. From primary school to middle school is an important turning point in life. If you have ever walked hand in hand with your parents, the future depends on you. Even if you stumble, your parents should be brave enough to let you walk independently, because the life you want must be obtained by yourself, and your parents can't give you the life you want. No matter whether flowers or thorns greet you in the future, you should remember that it is your own choice. What you usually do, or work hard or play around, will definitely determine your character and destiny. At most, mom and dad will cheer for you or feel sorry for you. Besides, there is nothing we can do.
Son, you should cultivate the courage to overcome difficulties. Not just you, everyone's life is a problem with another problem, solving one problem and meeting the next one unexpectedly. Solving every problem in life happily is your only choice. Instead of complaining and worrying, it is better to face up to the problem and solve it happily. The meaning of life is to overcome one challenge after another and enjoy happiness from it. What mom wants to tell you is that the biggest problem in your life is yourself. If you keep beating yourself, you will have the courage and confidence to overcome all difficulties.
Son, you should learn to treat failure correctly. The greatest glory of a person's life lies not in never failing, but in bravely getting up every time he falls. Everyone grows up in the process of constantly denying themselves. Even parents, we have to admit that some principles we set for ourselves are often inadvertently destroyed by ourselves. In the face of this situation, we are sure to suffer and doubt. However, children, don't be afraid. Perhaps in the process of affirmation, denial, pain and doubt, you will gradually mature and become heavy!
Son, you have to stick to it. As long as it is something you look for, you must stick to it, don't hesitate, maybe five years, maybe ten years, twenty years or even thirty years. As long as you persist, you will have the opportunity to accumulate wealth.
Son, you have to believe that mom and dad's nagging is harmless. When you grow up, you will soon enter a period when you can't wait and stumble to prove your value to the society. Although my mother knows that this is inevitable for you to grow up, seeing you stumbling forward, as long as I am a mother, I instinctively want to reach out and help. Because of this, we will definitely disagree and even argue sometimes. Mom wants to tell you here that you can not accept our views, but you must never doubt the love of mom and dad, and never close the door of communication with mom and dad. What mom wants to tell you is that the love between mother and son often breaks through reason, which explains the story of youth rebellion from generation to generation. Although my mother can foresee it, she has no confidence to avoid it because she is just an ordinary mother. My mother is really worried that you are too top-notch in all aspects, but she is also worried that you are not motivated. She is afraid that too much preaching, too many rules and regulations will destroy your creativity and make you an inflexible person, but she is afraid that if she doesn't make rules for you, she will become maverick, not accepted by society, and even more afraid that you will do whatever you want.
Son, mother also wants you to be a tolerant person. Mark Twain once said? Violet left its fragrance there and squashed its ankle. This is tolerance. ? People living in this world are bound to deal with all kinds of people. People are complex and diverse, and they are bound to be unhappy. And if you want to live a happy life, you must have a tolerant heart. Because true happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less. Try to give your smile to those who have hurt you and misunderstood you. I believe your heart must be bright. If you hate, I think your heart is gloomy. Keeping a tolerant heart and being a tolerant person will make you feel endless fun.
Son, life is a long marathon. Mom and Dad want you to be healthy, diligent, optimistic, progressive, practical, and together with others, running through every step of your life. I want to say a lot, and no matter how I write, I can't express my parents' love for you. No matter what your future is, we will send you a message: as long as you persist, you can win. What you do now will definitely determine your future life! ?
Love your mom and Dad
Letters written by parents to their children
Dear son:
Hello!
Although you will soon be 18 years old, no matter how old you are, you will always be our child and the biggest concern in our hearts.
In the past 18 years, from babbling to toddler, from kindergarten to primary school, junior high school, senior high school, from family to school society, from little boy to adult, every bit of your growth is engraved in our minds. You have brought us happiness, happiness and touch, and we are also happy because of your happiness, sad because of your sadness, and angry because of your anger. Son, our hearts are interlinked!
Son, we are proud of you! You can come to this world through natural channels, and that kind of effort is the greatest achievement and victory in your life. Have you learned to talk, walk, read and write? .. whatever you learn, you bring us pride and pride. When I was two years old, I recited more than 20 poems in one breath and told stories to the whole class in kindergarten. When you were in the fourth grade, you were ambitious? What if I'm the mayor? In the sixth grade, you stood out from the 2000 candidates in the province and were admitted to No.1 Middle School (a newly established junior high school). You won the second prize in the city computer competition as soon as you entered the first day of No.57 Middle School. When you entered the second grade, you fell madly in love with physics and decided to engage in scientific research when you grew up. In your spare time, you took part in robotics classes, won the first prize of Henan Youth robot contest in cooperation with others, and won the third prize in the National Youth robot contest. Son, whether you admit it or not, all this is an indelible success and victory in your life. We are extremely proud of you!
Son, we are moved for you! Your optimism, your efforts, your kindness, your perseverance and your sense of collective responsibility? .., these excellent qualities are your most precious spiritual wealth, and have also brought us countless touches. When you were one year old and two months old, you just woke up with a high fever and diarrhea and showed a lovely, happy and joyful smile. Your mother was crying. You actively strive for honor for the class in preschool, and we are worried about you when we see that you are anxious about other people's mistakes; At the age of six, after unremitting practice, I finally learned the cartwheel movement in Wushu. A small figure practiced again and again under the light of the Youth Palace, and finally made us happy and moved by your success and confidence in doing a good job. When I first entered junior high school, I felt that my math scores were not good. Every night you do math exercises until midnight 12, sometimes you sleep at night and get up at 4 am to do your homework. We are moved by your diligence. In junior high school, you began to teach yourself high school courses. In high school, you said that college would be busier, and we were moved by your lofty aspirations and goals. There was something wrong with my body in the first semester of senior one, but I never told my mother. You said you were afraid your mother would worry. Good boy, if you don't feel well, be sure to say so. Over time, it will become a big problem. We are distressed and moved.
Son, we grew up with you. In the process of your growth, there are successes and joys, as well as failures and pains. In the third year of junior high school, you suffered setbacks. The head teacher's unhealthy psychology and wrong methods have really brought you great harm. Now mom and dad blame themselves. At that time, we were not keenly aware of it and did not help you in time. Maybe you didn't know it was the teacher's fault. You just think the teacher is looking for you. But in recent years, your mind has been maturing, you already know where the teacher is wrong, and you have begun to forgive this teacher. Son, to forgive others is to forgive yourself, so that you can look at and recognize from a new height, so that you can grow up, and past setbacks and injuries will become your life wealth. Children, we grew up with you. Let's look forward together, advance together, accept and cherish what we already have in our lives: health, family, friendship, study and career, face all the unpredictable difficulties and setbacks in our future life, and enjoy the joy and happiness we have gained in our struggle and progress together.
Son, every time we see that you can't tolerate your mistakes and failures and can't control your emotions, we feel heartache. Your personality is peaceful and sunny, broad-minded, never haggle over every ounce, but you can't accept a moment's mistake. ? No one is perfect, and all gold is barefoot? Everyone will make mistakes in this life, and no one is a ever-victorious general. Does mom often tell you? People grow up without making mistakes? A person grows up by constantly making mistakes and correcting them. A person's success is also achieved on the basis of constantly summing up the lessons of failure. To achieve great success, we must constantly sum up the experience of small successes. Son, mistakes and failures are a process that you must go through in your life, which is related to your knowledge and ability. Don't be at a loss when you encounter mistakes and failures. As long as your mind and energy are still there, those mistakes and failures are nothing You can try your best to solve those problems. The process of solving problems, correcting mistakes and overcoming failures is the process of improving one's knowledge and ability, and the ultimate goal of improving one's knowledge and ability is to realize oneself. Just like when you climb a mountain, your goal is the highest peak. When you walk halfway up the mountain, the front is blocked by a small peak. At this time, you can't vent your strength. You must concentrate all your energy and wisdom to climb it, so that you can hope to reach the highest peak. Look at it when you reach the highest peak. What's that little peak? It's too low! Life is like this. Mistakes, failures, and setbacks are all small peaks that you must pass to achieve your lofty aspirations and goals. Accumulate experience and learn lessons in the process of climbing, and the goal is the highest peak behind. As long as you keep your mind and spirit strong, and be good at summing up the lessons of failure and successful experiences, you will certainly achieve your lofty aspirations and goals.
Son, scientific living habits and study habits are the foundation of success. Scientific living habits include a scientific diet, a regular life, a combination of work and rest, observing the schedule of work and rest, respecting the rhythm of life, forming good habits and living a scientific life, so that you can have a healthy body and realize your lofty aspirations and goals. How to develop scientific study habits? I believe you have explored and accumulated experience in your years of study and life. Listen to the teacher praise you. Your study is very organized? But don't stand still, you must pay attention to learning the good methods taught by the teacher. At the same time, learning must pay attention to science, such as reading aloud in the morning is not suitable for doing exercises in the morning; Evening is a time of active thinking, and you can do exercises in mathematics and physics. No matter what you do or how you do it, you must persist every day in order to gain something. Never fish for three days and dry the net for two days.
Son, always remember that you are the master of your own destiny. In the process of striving for the goal of life, in addition to the difficulties brought by the academic career itself, there must be interference from various personnel. Is this what you often say in junior high school? Interpersonal relationship? Question son, as long as you insist on doing things that conform to social rules and do what you should do, interpersonal relationship? This problem can be completely ignored. If someone is still pointing fingers at the good and right things you have done, remember the words of Italian poet Dante (author of Divine Comedy): Go your own way and let others speak! ? .
Son, we always believe that you are an excellent talent, and no difficulties or setbacks can scare you.
Son, please always believe that there is a solution to any problem, and the solution is found through continuous exploration.
wish you
Healthy and happy