The first step is' gender identity', which depends on the harmonious and natural androgynous environment and androgynous influence: parents support each other and can show their respective gender advantages. Children living in such an environment can naturally and smoothly identify with their own gender.
Because many parents know little about gender education, let alone gender education for their children. When faced with more and more provocative girls and more delicate and sensitive boys, they often feel helpless.
Gender role consciousness plays an important role in children's growth, but the influence of social environment and media on children can not be ignored. Although today's society pursues equality between men and women, this equality is an equal development under the premise of respecting natural gender characteristics, and it is an equality that shapes personality, not an equality without gender differences. Both boys and girls should pay attention to learning from the opposite sex on the basis of giving full play to their "gender" advantages, overcome their weaknesses in personality, and promote the all-round development of body and mind and the perfection of personality. For example, boys learn more from girls' carefulness, expressiveness and understanding, while girls learn more from boys' fortitude, firmness and cheerfulness.