I believe that many parents find one thing when educating their children, that is, after their children grow up, parents already feel that they can't control their children. What should they do in this case? I think there are mainly several ways. First of all, parents must adjust their mentality. Parents should leave their children alone, educate their children and keep a correct attitude. Secondly, older children really yearn for freedom more. Don't interfere too much in their lives. For them, pursuing their own life is the most important thing.

I believe many parents want to educate their children and make them become excellent people. So they always discipline their children unconsciously when they grow up. Then, when the child grows up, parents find that they can't discipline him and don't listen to their parents. What should they do in this case?

I think the first and most important thing is that parents must have a correct attitude. What is the role of parents for their children? Not to discipline children, but to educate them. One of the biggest differences between educating children and disciplining them is to leave them alone.

Many parents always like to control their children and let them go their own way when educating them. They always hope that children can listen to themselves in both study and life, but this idea is wrong. Children have their own lives to go. Therefore, most things should be done by their own children and decided by themselves. Parents should be in the role of guidance and companionship.

Secondly, the older a child is, the more he yearns for free space. If parents want to interfere with their children's lives too much at this time, they will only win their disgust and resistance.

Therefore, when parents feel that they can't control their children, don't want to go too much. If they want to control their children, the most important thing is to let them explore the world independently, and parents only need to guide and accompany them. If the child does something wrong, parents can stop him. If the child does something right, parents should praise her, not take care of the child.

In fact, what many children hate most is not their parents' company, but their parents' discipline. They think that their parents always want to control and interfere in their lives, so they have a great sense of rebellion and are unwilling to listen to their parents. But if their parents don't care about teaching their children, they will accompany them, so of course the children will listen.

I hope everyone will accompany and guide children more, not control them.