I'm in the same situation as you. My partner and I are also two places, but not too far away, 1 hour. Our parents didn't agree at first, but my boyfriend insisted, and then his parents didn't object. The main thing is that the man should tell his parents calmly, explain the interest relationship, don't let their parents worry and solve their doubts. . . They're not worried. Don't worry. It's easier for you However, parents are good for their children. You should understand his parents and don't contradict them. He thinks that parents are important, that is, filial piety, and he is afraid that his parents will be sad. You should also understand him and see how you choose your job. If you are willing to work with him in the same city, ask him if your parents will object. Where is your home? It's too far away, you should calmly consider your future life! So during college, what love can you talk about from so far away! ! Also consider real life to avoid injury! ! In a word, think carefully, keep calm, don't be impatient, fidgety and anxious, and make mistakes easily. Be sure to keep a calm attitude to deal with this matter. If you can't, accept it.

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In fact, feelings cannot be forced. Don't be too emotional. There is a principle: "Everything goes with the flow". Be happy anyway, so that you are a smart person and won't get hurt. . Everything happens for a reason. . . This is also a matter of fate. Fate is together, but after it, it will be scattered. This is God's law. The laws of nature. This has nothing to do with us. . You can't even push it off. It sticks to you, not yours. You cling to others and others don't want you. So everything looks bleak. Ha ha laugh. . No big deal. In fact, the feelings between people are also. They are all selfish, and few are selfless for others. Actually, that's all. The key is to see if people are responsible. Irresponsible! ! ! If you have sex with your boyfriend, he seems a little irresponsible to you, and it's not worth crying for. Never have sex with a man again! ! Therefore, girls should never have sex with men before they get married! Otherwise, only you will get hurt! Although men and women are very casual in today's society, you can see what happened after them. Many relationships are not smooth and they get married and divorced! ! In the past, our grandparents' generation was relatively conservative than ours, but the divorce rate was not as high as it is now! ! Too casual, the ending will be miserable! ! It's a fact! ! So don't be casual! ! It is very important for women to study! ! Don't let anyone touch it! ! You are really expensive! ! Can also be respected by men! ! Bad men can't take advantage of you! ! Good men cherish you more! ! ! So be sure to stay in shape! ! I said it from the bottom of my heart! ! If you are interested, you can join this group to study. There are some lectures on premarital education, and you will understand that they are all free, just to help people. QQ group: 6 123 168. If you have any questions, you can ask in the group, ask the group owner or administrator, and there will be good people in the group to help you. Don't worry about anything. Anxiety leads to anger, and anger leads to illness. . Ha ha. . Take your time, there won't be any problems. If you get angry in a hurry, you will do everything wrong. . Ha ha. . Come on! ! Life is a test! It is tempering! You will become strong through tempering! !

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Besides, feelings are hard to say. All feelings and things in the world are impermanent, not unchangeable.

Any relationship will change. We can only adapt to social changes by mentality. Both women and men should rely on themselves, not others. Self-reliance, self-improvement, not afraid to go anywhere. Even if there are changes, learn to accept and bear wherever you go. This is life.

In addition, both men and women should be virtuous. The same is true for finding a partner. Take kindness, filial piety and moral standards as your own, so that your family will be very stable and harmonious. The most precious things in the world are not gold, silver and jewels, houses and cars, they will all pass away. They are not brought by life or death. They are not eternal, nor the source of happiness, but virtue will always be with you and enjoyed forever. With virtue, you are not afraid to go anywhere. Learn more disciples' rules, practice life according to the etiquette and morality of disciples' rules, understand others and think for others, and you will surely live a carefree and happy life! ! ! We should constantly discover our own shortcomings, correct and overcome them, so that life can be smooth and satisfactory. Instead of being self-centered, learn to look at any problems and people with gratitude.

We can only give you advice, but we decided to get it ourselves. I hope I can give you some inspiration. I recommend you to watch the following video. I've seen it all. After reading them, I realized that a happy life will be won. Good luck, sister! ! !

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