What are the reasons for puppy love?
First, lack of family care.
For example, single parents, remarried families, or one or both parents working in other places, or parents seldom care about their daughters' growth because of their poor educational level, or family discord, which makes them feel lonely and lost, pinning their spirit on their families and indulging in "puppy love".
Second, the physiological causes of adolescence.
14- 18-year-old students' secondary sexual characteristics have just formed, and physiological changes have caused subtle changes in sexual psychology. In the process of this change, they hope to associate with the opposite sex of the same age.
During this period, parents should strengthen the education and guidance of children's psychological and adolescent physical health knowledge.
Third, the influence of external environment.
The external environment will directly affect children's mental health. Nowadays, with the rapid development of the Internet, a large number of children are addicted to online games and online videos, including some naked pictures, which will greatly stimulate children's body and mind, cause psychological imbalance and emotional impulse, and easily fall into the misunderstanding of "puppy love".
Fourthly, the parents' education and the pressure from the school have stimulated students' rebellious psychology of puppy love.
Due to the high voice against puppy love in society, many parents are afraid that their children will delay their studies because of puppy love and take restrictive measures against their children's heterosexual contacts. Families often don't allow children to have normal heterosexual contacts, which leads to some children's rebellious psychology.
However, teachers in some schools are afraid that students will make mistakes in puppy love, regard puppy love as a scourge, and are indifferent to the communication between boys and girls. Therefore, parents and teachers have jointly adopted educational countermeasures of suppression and restriction. Adolescent students have a strong sense of independence and resistance, and they have their own philosophy. Under the high-pressure policy, they will show all kinds of resistance.
How do parents educate their children about puppy love?
First, control your emotions.
Parents must calm down and think about what to do when they find their children in puppy love. To understand why children fall in love early? Is it because you are not interested in learning? Or are boys attractive? Only when parents find the reason can they solve the problem in a targeted way.
Second, pay more attention to children.
Although the child has grown up, he still feels insecure in his heart. Only parents can give him a sense of security. The education and guidance of parents is the foundation of his healthy growth. Parents should learn to care more about their children and let them feel their parents' love and care, so that children will have a beautiful heart and full of beautiful expectations for their own lives.
Third, help children establish a correct view of marriage and love.
When children enter adolescence, the impulse to the opposite sex is inevitable. At this time, parents need to guide their children to establish a correct concept of marriage and help them become better themselves.
The problem of puppy love is not terrible, but it will have a far-reaching impact on children's body and mind. Parents need to attach great importance to this problem and find a suitable solution.