The Education of Love is the work of Italian writer Armitage. The interesting thing about this book is that the author tells short stories in the form of a diary in the name of a primary school student, and then integrates "love education" into these stories to cultivate the thoughts and sentiments of the younger generation.

Enrico, the protagonist in the book, is a little boy in the fourth grade of primary school. He was born in a family full of love and trust. He is an optimistic and enterprising boy with pure nature and keen observation. His healthy growth is closely related to the sincere and generous interpersonal love described in the book. Love education has no boring preaching, no grandiloquence, no vigorous heroic deeds. It only describes ordinary kind people, such as charcoal sellers, masons, blacksmiths' sons, teenage drummers, teachers who attend classes in spite of illness … and their ordinary daily lives. It is these seemingly ordinary but authentic narratives that bring readers into a world of love and let us be educated in love.

Lombardy's Little Sentinel is a story that the teacher reads in class. It tells the story of a wandering boy who works as a sentry in a cavalry class. In order to see the enemy clearly, he bravely climbed to the top of the tree regardless of the danger, and finally gave his life for his motherland. The story preaches the love of ordinary people for the motherland. From the story, I feel brave and loyal, and I feel the childlike innocence of boxing. Patriotism is an article my father wrote to Enrico. After listening to a patriotic story in Enrico, my father used the content of this story to educate and inspire Enrico.

In the education of love, love is compared to many things, which is true and not just these. "What is love?" I don't think there is a clear answer, but I know that "love" is infinite, ranging from friendly conversation between classmates to encouragement from teachers to meticulous care from parents to children, even a smile from people who meet by chance ... volunteering to donate blood to help Project Hope ... Although love is like air, it can sometimes be "polluted", "distorted" and even.

A few years ago, I read this passage: "I got the Japanese translation of this book four years ago. I remember crying for three days and three nights after reading it." Even later, when I was translating or reading casually, I was deeply excited and my eyes were wet. This is not a sad tear, but a tear of shame and gratitude. " I have always wanted to read this book, and the education of love has moved Mr. Xia Yingzun. This winter vacation has finally come true.

I finished the Education of Love in one breath. Although there are no tears, I have to admit that this is a book that washes the soul. It seems that what attracts me is not how high its literary value is, but the almost perfect love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends and the love of home and country reflected in the ordinary and delicate brushwork ... This novel full of love is really great. The education of love tells us that the noble love of human nature is the most sincere education, thus making love sublimate. Although everyone's life experience is different, you will experience similar emotions that you have experienced from the education of love.

The topic "Education of Love" has aroused my thinking. What is love in this pluralistic world? With this in mind, I trudged with this Italian pupil to find an unknown answer. A diary written by a fourth-grade pupil for ten months in a school year contains the love between classmates, brothers and sisters, children and parents, teachers and students. The love for the motherland makes people read as if they were growing up in the arms of love.

Love, like air, is around us every day. Because we can't see it, we often ignore it, but we can't live without it. In fact, its meaning has been integrated into life. Just like parents' love, Enrico kept a diary that he read and wrote with his parents, and now many students still have a small lock on it. The simplest things are also the most easily overlooked, just like the deep parent-child love in this broad love, many people can't feel it. Love is great because it is not only for individuals, but also for the dignity and emotion of the whole nation. The book Education of Love describes a group of energetic, positive and sunny teenagers. Some of them are poor, some are disabled, and of course some are happy. They are different from birth to personality, but they all have one thing in common-their love for Italy and their sincere feelings for their relatives and friends. What can't be ignored is the "spiritual speech" that the teacher reads to this group of teenagers every month. These short stories not only edify the characters in the book, but also shock me as a foreign reader with the strong feelings reflected in them. Love should be the source of educational strength and the foundation of educational success. In his translation of Education of Love, Mr. Xia Yingzun said: "Education has no emotion and no love, just like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond, without love, there is no education. " Love is a never-ending journey. It will be easy to walk and watch along the way, and every day will be enriched by understanding and learning new things. So, I just want to keep going, even devote myself to it, no matter how long it will last. At this point, this feeling has been sublimated into a kind of love, a kind of love for life. After reading The Education of Love, I walked into Enrico's life and witnessed how they studied, lived and fell in love. Moved, I found that love contains the pursuit of a better life.

"Education of Love" said-when I was at school, I saw you standing on the bookshelf of the school; After work, I saw you on the bookshelf of the unit; When I was visiting the bookstore, I saw you on the bookshelf in the bookstore. I don't know how many times I was indifferent, and I can't tell you how many times I passed you by. Today, I can only say regret. What would my heart be like if I walked into your world the first time I saw you? If/kloc-caught you 0/2 years ago, I wouldn't be so confused after I joined the work. If I don't miss you in the future, how many potholes and twists and turns will my steps be reduced? I want to say nothing but regret. Luckily, I caught you today. Accidental luck made me catch you deeply and truly, which brought luck and happiness to all of us. I was surprised because I didn't intend to read the book carefully. Just because there is a text "Italian Patriotic Teenager" in the first volume of the third grade Chinese of Beijing Normal University Edition, the annotation says "Excerpt from Amicus's Education of Love", when I study the text, I just recommend "students can find this book to read after class" as usual, so I don't take it to heart. Fortunately, I passed Xinhua Bookstore one day, walked into Xinhua Bookstore, and came across this book again. I just flipped through it at random. What really attracted me to go in was a letter from Amrico's father to his son. In the letter, the father told his son seriously why and how to respect his mother. I have read many books on this subject and also read Fu Lei's letter, but this simple letter makes me feel reunited after a long separation, and I want to read it to my students. Because they are about the same age as Amrico, sometimes they are much more serious about their parents than Amrico. Some even quarrel with their parents at a young age, some are dissatisfied with their parents' remarks and even look down on their mothers. Some even let their mothers hold them up and tremble with cold in the cold wind in late autumn, but the son said to his mother, "It's freezing! "I bought different versions of" Education of Love "to reward several students who love reading, read this letter in class, call individual students to my office to read it to him alone, then communicate with him and get in touch with parents. His mother told me about the change of the child herself. At first, I thought this book was to educate children to have love, learn to love their parents and others. I find it too superficial to continue reading, because I feel from Amway's parents' practice that the root of all children's problems is because sometimes we adults don't know who lacks true love first and need to be educated in love. Some parents openly tell their teachers about their children's shortcomings in front of their children, even in front of their children or guests. At that time, they really felt how weak and helpless children are sometimes, and how unfair some practices are to them. Or when parents ask their children, "How many times have I told you, why did you forget to bring it?" What did I tell you? Why can't you write well? I'm not asking you to check it carefully. Why did you make a mistake? Why can't you write well? How many times have I told you? Why don't you remember? Why don't you use your brain? "In the words of the children themselves in their diaries," I'm going to explode with nagging. "Have we adults calmly asked ourselves," Why do children have these problems? "Where is the root cause? Children in grade three have shortcomings, and it is normal to encounter difficulties in learning. We adults have given this young source of spiritual strength and patient help, and children are inferior to others. Is it because he doesn't want to? He can't do it. Apart from the normal differences between people, are there any adult roots? Let's take the signature of a parent as an example. Some parents read a child's immature composition, carefully analyzed the reasons with their children, helped them correct their shortcomings, encouraged their children to work hard, and signed a full number of works. Parents pay more attention, but what do children get? Gaining strength, methods, new goals, successful experience from failure, and truly delicate love from parents can be described as endless benefits. However, some parents only wrote two words "read". "This is a man who cherishes ink like gold;" Critics are "writing too little", "not serious", "unimaginable", "poor imagination" and "unable to write". There are also "read more, write more", "use more brains" and "imagine more", which can also be regarded as a corrector. Let's compare it calmly. How big is the gap brought by this signing? I'm afraid there will be more in other aspects, so there are many puzzles about children's love, what is true love, how to love it, and when children need your true love most. We can find ready-made answers in the education of love, and we can also get more enlightenment from deep thinking. Therefore, I feel that more contents in this book need to be read to every parent, so I ask every parent and child in our class to read Education of Love together and accept the baptism of love together. Mom, dad and children have to write reviews. Second, reflection on the Education of Love This time, many parents and children have benefited a lot. What makes me cry is not only the Education of Love, but also the feelings of parents who are full of true love after reading it, and the happiness and joy of children who are really bathed in the sunshine of true love. Slowly, all of us are changing, which makes the faces of children and adults in front of us full of heartfelt smiles. This book makes many parents try to change themselves and find their own role models in attitude, tone and methods. Li Yining wrote after reading: After reading Education of Love, I gained a lot, and I know what a noble person is. If I were Amway, I would take Jianing Yang Dandelot West and Wang Mian as teachers or teachers, and we would study together. This book changed my attitude to study and do things, and also changed my life. It taught me a lot about being a man. Amrico is a good boy, and my ideal is to be like him. I sincerely wrote down my ideal on the gas card and decided to become a famous writer. Amrico is already my role model. He is not perfect, but he can constantly correct his shortcomings with the help of his parents. Jianing Yang wrote: After reading The Education of Love, I feel that I really lag far behind Amrico in the book. For example, he loves his parents very much, but sometimes I can't. Now, our life is getting richer and richer, but we don't know much about loving our parents, as if there are some things they should do for us. The more love mom and dad give us, the farther our love flows like a stream. Do we only know to love ourselves? This book has quietly changed my parents and me, making us all truly caring and happy people. Let's warm the world with love! Wang Yanan wrote in his diary: After reading The Education of Love, I changed my attitude towards my classmates. For example, I have never helped my classmates or lent anything to others before. Now I am not so stingy, because you are good to others and others are good to you. Feng Xiangyu wrote: The education of love includes good children and bad children. They are like two mirrors, reflecting my strengths and weaknesses and telling me how to be a person, how to study and how to get along with others. I've learned that people who learn from others' strengths and make up for their own shortcomings will become excellent people. Yang Xinhai said: I have changed a lot after reading The Education of Love. For example, when I was eating, I used to watch my mother bring steaming food one after another. I'm very different now. Now my mother cooks, I set the spoon and chopsticks, my mother cooks, I pass the dishes to my mother, and then I bring them to the table for dinner. Wang Yilin said: After watching Caron's performance, I feel far from it, and I am always a little timid. I am determined to learn from him and be a brave boy who knows right from wrong and dares to say and do it. Li Haizhou said: "After reading Education of Love, I feel that I don't have the sense of justice like Caron, respect my parents like Borax, study as well as Delossi, and have no courage to compare with them. So I am trying to learn their advantages and be a good boy. After reading this book, my parents have changed, and they often appreciate me. Encourage me and praise me as soon as I make progress. I will try my best to build a loving home with my parents. Zhou Yuxing said that after reading this book, we are all very moved. My parents treat me better than before. My mother used to ask me this and that, and sometimes I was bored to death, but I was afraid to say it. Now my mother seems to be a different person. When she is angry, she just stays in her heart and doesn't criticize me. She often discusses and communicates with me, and I can recognize my mistakes. I am much happier every day than before. I really appreciate that this book has brought me more happiness. Wang said that when the bell rang, the students swarmed and crowded at the door, just like a group of lions competing for a delicious piece of meat. I wanted to get in quickly. Now think about it carefully, if you crowd like this, everyone will get hurt easily. Every time I remind my classmates like Caron. At home, I don't talk back to my parents now. If I have any ideas, I will communicate with my parents calmly. Zhao Jiaxi said, I used to do something wrong and always lied for fear of criticism from my parents. I changed after reading this book, because everyone in the book never lied from beginning to end, not even the worst Brandi. I don't think he told a lie when he was fired. I haven't reached his level yet. With the help of teachers and parents, I have tried my best to improve. I'm really happy. Liu Peize said that now when I go to my classmate's house, I will ring the doorbell politely. Tell your mother where to play, lest she worry. But eating and dressing by yourself is not good enough. I will try to change it. Parents' feelings are also deep. Liu Min, Zhao Jiaxi's mother, wrote that reading Education of Love with her children was very touching. It's shameful to reflect on the way you treat your children! Without patience, you can't feel a childlike innocence in the details. Impetuous, acting like a parent, has the potential to make children obey unconditionally, but many children's sparks of wisdom have quietly disappeared in our reprimand and arbitrariness. I don't know how many innocent, lively, positive and loving hearts we have lost! Wang, his father, wrote that he read The Education of Love according to his son's request and was deeply moved. I often talk to you about how to educate children well, but I always have no rules, saying more and doing less. The word "education of love" is easy to say, but how difficult it is to do! Therefore, in Amway's life, parents and teachers teach their children how to love with such delicate movements, which makes people deeply moved. In the past, children bought whatever books they wanted, just for satisfaction and lack of communication with children. If the teacher pays a lot to each child in school's study and life, and the children return home, the parents can't set a good example for the children, and the effect will be quite small only by the teacher's efforts. My son read this book, and it had a great response. We communicated four times together, which made him feel that "books have their own golden houses" and changed his habit of watching cartoons on weekends and sundays. Zhan Shuping, Zhou Yuxing's mother, wrote in an article that there are many things in the world. When you give them to others, you often get less and less, but there is one thing that you often get more and more. What is this? That is love. Yes, love is not just taking, but giving, giving and sharing. Only when a person has the ability to love can he truly appreciate the beauty of life. The touching beauty in The Education of Love touched me and my children. Once, when reading the article "Caron's Mom", the child actually hid under the covers and cried. I thought again about what made my son so emotional. My son seems to have grown up a lot after reading this book. Let children learn to love when they are loved, and who will pull you up to comfort you when you fall; Who applauds you when you get good grades? Who brought your beloved toy to share with you? Who encouraged you to say you can do it before the game? You are a classmate, a friend and many children. Can you feel this love? I hope that children can grow up in love and sublimate love into love for the motherland and society, thus generating a sense of responsibility. Trying to be a good student is a kind of love for teachers; Understand parents; Can see the advantages of classmates to correct their own shortcomings; Take the initiative to help students in need; Wait a minute. Let children grow up in the act of love, thus generating motivation, using their own abilities to better repay those who love you and give to those who need your love. Liu Peize's father, Liu Huan, wrote after reading it: "After reading the book" Education of Love ",I began to reflect on my education for children. Come to think of it, I am still too strict with my children and don't communicate much with my son. Sometimes I can't even bear to blow my beard and stare my temper. This is not right. My son is going to be 9 years old. He grew up day by day and slowly began to have his own thoughts. I hope I can be a good father to my son, but I also want to be a friend of my son, a good friend who talks about everything. As for my son, I think he still likes learning and can learn well. Although I am a little too playful now, I don't blame him too much, because playful is a child's nature. I didn't ask him too much, just told him to do two things: first, listen carefully in class, and second, finish his homework carefully. I hope my son can do it. Bai Chunjie, the father of Bai Zunying, wrote: I admire Amway's parents by reading some contents. Whenever a child does something wrong in life and study, he can communicate with the child in time through letters, so that the child can realize what he has done badly and guide the child to correct it in his later life. Reflect on yourself. When children behave badly, in many cases, they are just reprimanded. They can't set an example first, nor can they put themselves in others' shoes. They should look at the problem from the perspective of children and continue to learn and improve in the future. The cultivation of children's good character requires the diligent cultivation and watering of teachers and parents. Reading a good book can inspire people a lot. Read more books and read good books in the future, so as to grow up with children. Li Mingzhen's mother, Zhang Yan, wrote that through reading, I realized that being kind to others means being kind to myself, and treating children sincerely will win their sincerity. Looking back on the attitude towards children in the past nine years: children will scold if they are naughty; Indifference to him when he is disobedient; Beat and scold him if he can't do his homework; Laugh at him when his grades are bad. I deeply regret and blame myself. I have always neglected communication with my children, especially after they go to school. I don't know what the children are thinking and doing. I always feel that you have gone to school, grown up and should be sensible. Children are often required by the standards of adults. When children fail to meet the requirements, they think that they have not taken this matter seriously and have not done it with their heart, and then criticize or even beat and scold them, instead of looking for reasons and solutions from themselves. Reading Education of Love made me realize that a child is a child, but he is not an adult. We should treat him as a child, love him, respect him and treat him as a "person", not your personal property. I believe that on the long road of life, I will not treat my children as before. I will treat him as a friend, strengthen communication with my children, understand their inner world, and let them treat me as a friend instead of just scolding his mother. When he is naughty, I will reason with him calmly; When he can't do his homework, I will patiently explain it to him and remind him to listen carefully in class; When he doesn't do well in the exam, I will encourage him to continue to work hard; When he is in trouble, I will give him strength and help him solve it. Just like Amrico's parents and teachers in the education of love, I will educate him to love the motherland, love the people, consciously abide by social morality, respect teachers, be kind to the elderly, and not ignore the little things in life, because those little things will contribute to a person's future conduct. Li Mingzhen's father Li Zhenjie wrote: When we read this book, we can think about some things slowly, which will make us deeply understand the education of love. The education of love is not an easy task. When parents can grasp this degree, the education of love will play its due role. If the education of love is not properly used, this kind of love will become spoiled, blind and counterproductive. Reflecting on the love for children in the past, it is often what the child wants, and quickly buy it for him. If there is anything delicious at home, give it to him first. If there is anything interesting, give it to him first. No matter what we do, we are child-centered, and the whole family revolves around children, thus forming a bad habit of children taking "me" as the center, and I can do whatever I want. In such a doting environment, children live a life of reaching for food with clothes, rarely helping their parents do some housework, occasionally doing some work, and sometimes asking, is there a reward? Let parents laugh and cry. Everyone can love their children, but not every parent can do what is true love for their children and how to make them grow up healthily. Through reading The Education of Love, I deeply realized that to love children, we should start from every little thing around us, be honest, upright and confident, and use our own practical actions to influence children and tell them what is true, good and beautiful, and what is false, evil and ugly. We should learn to love ourselves and others. Li Yining's mother, Zhang, wrote that she was deeply moved by the "I" in the article "My Determination" in Education for Love. He is just an ordinary child, but he is a caring child in life. By observing some very ordinary things that happened in life, he felt the care that adults gave him in his busy life, so he stopped complaining and knew how to do it with heart. With the improvement of living standards, parents and relatives give their children too much care, and many children gradually develop the habit of only taking it back. Therefore, it is necessary to guide children to receive love education, so that love can take root in children's hearts and become a useful person to society. Yang Xinhai's parents, Lu Xiacong, chose some meaningful sentences to encourage their children and used educational methods. Jianing Yang's mother, Zhang, wrote that after reading this book, I was deeply moved by the deep love between the lines, and also deeply reflected on my own lack of education for children. I used to blame the love that children didn't understand. It's selfish. I never thought deeply about why. I am impatient with the child, and the child made a mistake. I didn't calm down and think about the reasons and tell the children how to avoid it in the future, but shouted loudly and the children talked back. This problem has not been solved, but has intensified contradictions. Over time, children get used to talking back. Although we gave our children a lot, even everything, in material life, we didn't really go to their hearts and become their real friends. How can a child's love for us not be discounted? Once, my child said to me, "at school, I think I am very capable and great, but at home, I don't think I am so good." I asked, "Why?" The child said, "You only criticize me". My requirement for children is that the fewer shortcomings, the better. My eyes are always fixed on shortcomings, and I criticize children's shortcomings every day. How can children be confident at home? Amway's parents are just the opposite. Amway's care for teachers, classmates and parents will be affirmed by parents in time, and at the same time, it will point out its own hopes and how to step into the goal. Cui Dongmei, Tian Xiaoyu's mother, wrote that after reading Education of Love, she felt that her education for her children was too simple and her requirements for herself were too low. She always asks children to do this and that, but whether she can really do it or do it better has never been seriously considered. Parents are teachers in their children's lives, and their words and deeds living together have a great influence on their children. Parents inadvertently revealed that they might give it to them. It may even be deeply misleading, so in the future, parents should be strict with themselves and give their children more convincing education with their own practical actions. In terms of children's learning, we will never relax, and we will try to use some methods. More importantly, we must be patient, treat children with a peaceful attitude and help them more. Children have strong self-esteem. I remember one time when we were chatting, he told me that when the teacher was talking about who was a bad boy. He is very nervous and afraid of being called a bad boy, which shows that he wants to be a good boy, but his self-control is almost the same. But this child's hope is precious. We will communicate with him more and more in the future, point out his shortcomings in time and give him correct guidance. Children don't need to be reprimanded, accused and scolded. What they need is recognition, support and encouragement of their own abilities, which we parents will try our best to do. Wang, his father, wrote that he read The Education of Love according to his son's request and was deeply moved. I often talk to you about how to educate children well, but I always have no rules, saying more and doing less. The word "education of love" is easy to say, but how difficult it is to do! Therefore, in Amway's life, parents and teachers teach their children how to love with such delicate movements, which makes people deeply moved. In the past, children bought whatever books they wanted, just for satisfaction and lack of communication with children. If the teacher pays a lot to each child in school's study and life, and the children return home, the parents can't set a good example for the children, and the effect will be quite small only by the teacher's efforts. My son read this book, and it had a great response. We communicated four times together, which made him feel that "books have their own golden houses" and changed his habit of watching cartoons on weekends and sundays. However, it is far from simple to turn everyone's knowledge into behavior. Some children really pay attention to giving their love, but sometimes the third-grade children are influenced by her age, knowledge, experience and other cognitive levels, and will not analyze and distinguish them in detail. For example, once a student made small moves in other subjects and the teacher criticized and corrected me, he talked back to the teacher. So when I entered the classroom, almost all the students gathered around to tell him about it. I heard that he was really wrong and criticized him, but the state at that time was beyond my expectation, and he talked back to me excitedly. At noon that day, he realized his mistake and sincerely apologized to me. We talked for a long time. But this matter has always been in my heart. Why is he so excited? On second thought, I called her mother. Chatted and learned that he was in a particularly bad mood for various reasons. It should be said that he needed the comfort of love at that time, or it should be normal for her to be absent-minded in class at that time. It is normal for teachers to criticize and correct me, and it is normal for students to complain. I criticized and educated him to respect teachers in all subjects and did nothing wrong. But what is the problem? That night, after analysis and empathy, I felt absent-minded and outspoken when I was in a bad mood. His mental state at that time can be imagined. So I think the next day, I need to handle it further. I asked my classmates at that time, if you accidentally made a mistake, would you like all your classmates to report you? The students all said they didn't want to. I then asked, if you were this classmate yesterday, how would you feel? The students all realized the inappropriateness of this way and discussed the appropriate way. Later, I concluded that we really should dedicate our love to those in need. We should start from small things, from empathy, and learn to understand, forgive and tolerate.