1, trust and respect children. Parents will think that their children are young and doubt their honesty, which will lead to bad psychological reactions, ranging from grievances and complaints to unconvinced and revenge. Some children deliberately show their resistance by playing with their temper and getting angry. This kind of rebellious psychology will aggravate the mutual distrust between parents and children, but create an environment for children to lie.

2. Enrich children's knowledge. Children have narrow knowledge and love fantasy. They often confuse imaginary things with real things and can't tell the truth from the false. In fact, this is just an imagination, an illusion of lying. Parents should make good use of this kind of boasting, first of all, encourage and praise their children's creative imagination, seize the opportunity, let their children acquire correct knowledge through some short stories, objective things around them, or through books, television and other channels, so that children can look at things more correctly, fairly and objectively from an early age, and can't take everything for granted.

3. Be good at orderly temptation and don't attack blindly. When children are found to be lying, parents should keep a cool head and blindly beat and scold, which can only push children to the opposite side of expectations. Don't listen to your child's words. Believe what your child says and do some investigation and verification when necessary. Many children lie because they have done something wrong, but they are afraid of being scolded by their parents. If parents continue to beat and scold, it will be counterproductive. They should rationally analyze the cause and effect, find and correct their mistakes in time, so as to avoid the spread of lies. They should be lured to point out the harm of lying to children, so that children can know their mistakes in guilt and correct them in encouragement.

4. Teach children the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Although the child is young, he is also vain and competitive. Because they don't have moral evaluation ability and social values, they will inevitably turn curiosity into vanity, which will lead to lying. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's correct and healthy concept of competition from an early age. By example, telling stories, etc. At ordinary times, strict requirements are put forward for some trivial matters, so that children can know what is wrong, what can't be done and what needs to be done, and what bad consequences will be caused to others if they are wrong, so that children can distinguish right from wrong and know that honesty is a virtue, and knowing that they are wrong is a good boy.