No matter when you start, it's never too late for a stupid bird to fly first. This is a big idea and many people will feel anxious about it. But gifted children, they may start early, because they are good at accepting. Children who accept slowly are relatively slow. The way they learn is to lay a good foundation first and then study further. Therefore, parents should help their children develop according to their acceptance and interest in learning. Even compared with children of the same age, they start late, but as long as the education methods are proper, they are not afraid to start late, because learning itself is a never-ending thing, and it is never too late to learn.
Second, don't always compare your children with others. Parents are easily worried because they often compare their children with others. If the child is growing up as an individual and does not compare with others, how can the stupid bird fly first or be smart and stupid? Therefore, when educating children, especially in the early stage of education, we must try to avoid comparing children with others. This will make parents feel anxious, afraid that their children can't catch up with others' progress and blindly speed up, which will lead to children losing interest in learning and even not loving learning, which will eventually backfire.
The root cause of this phenomenon is that parents are too anxious and worried, so we should proceed from reality and educate our children as individuals, instead of comparing them with their peers. This kind of contrasting education will only make parents feel anxious and even out of step.
Third, the learning rhythm in line with children's tonality Parents' education started late, and parents are also helping their children find a learning rhythm in line with children's tonality. For children, no matter when they start, they can start earlier or later, as long as they follow their learning rhythm. If the child's ability to accept is weak, starting learning too early may make him lose interest and dislike learning, which is not in line with the child's learning rhythm. Those with strong receptivity will start early, and those with weak receptivity will start later. Parents should pay attention to the different situations of their children.
The learning method of stupid birds flying first is not suitable for everyone, and this statement will probably bring anxiety to parents. Therefore, when educating, we should proceed from our own reality instead of flaunting other people's goals. This can alleviate anxiety to a certain extent, and also enable children to better find a learning rhythm suitable for their tonality.