It is said that parents are a mirror of children. To accompany children to develop the good habit of being polite, parents should first be civilized and polite people. At home, when I get up in the morning, my father and I will habitually say to our elders: good morning, dad, good morning, mom. Say to the child: good morning, son; Before going out to work, tell mom and dad that we are at work; When you come home from work at night, you should say hello to your parents first, and then say to your children: son, mom is back, dad is back, and so on. In the community, people who meet neighbors, aunts who clean in the corridor, security guards on doorposts, or other people they know will take the initiative to say hello. When you go to the company, you will say good morning when you meet your colleagues in the morning.
Influenced by us, children will also take the initiative to greet adults at home. When you meet an acquaintance when you go out, you will take the initiative to say hello and occasionally forget it. Under the reminder of adults, you will say yes immediately. Every morning when I send my children to school, I will see them take the initiative to say hello to the guard uncle and the teachers and classmates on duty, and they will also take the initiative to say goodbye to the teachers and classmates when they come home from school.
Second, cultivate children's social morality.
Teach children to care for public property, observe public order, don't throw rubbish casually, and give seats to the elderly and pregnant women on the bus.
When the child goes to kindergarten, we take him by bus, and we will give up our seats when we meet the elderly and pregnant women. After children go to primary school, they go to school by bus with grandpa every day. If they have seats, they will be allowed to sit first, and they will also take the initiative to find the elderly who need to give up their seats and offer them to others.
Every time we go out to play, we will prepare garbage bags in advance, take them away and throw them into the trash can. Children will also take the initiative to classify and throw garbage. Don't pick flowers or trample the lawn in the park. Seeing the uncivilized behavior of tourists, we will guide the children and ask them if they do that.
Third, guide children to learn the polite habits of hospitality.
Before going out to be a guest, we will set rules for our children, explain the precautions and ask them if they can abide by them. If they can, we will go, if not, we will cancel. For example: go to a friend's house, 1, go in and change shoes; 2. People who meet the host family should take the initiative to say hello; 3. Don't speak loudly and make no noise; 4. Don't interrupt when adults are talking; 5. Don't touch other people's things casually; 6. Get toys that others are allowed to play with and return to your place when you leave; 7. Say goodbye when you leave; 8. Close the door gently. Because the rules were set for the children in advance, the children followed them well. Afterwards, the performance of the child as a guest will be summarized, and the child will be praised and affirmed in time to abide by the agreement.
If there are guests at home, guide the children to take the initiative to greet the guests and play safety games with the little guests.
Fourth, cultivate children's etiquette habits in daily life and attach importance to gfd.
Children learn to dress when they are young, and they are told to straighten their clothes, straighten their socks and straighten their pants. Some time ago, my son didn't meet these requirements, so I said to him, "son, when my mother was working outside yesterday, I saw an uncle." Gaozi is very tall and handsome, wearing a brand-name dress, but his pants are not straight and the seams are crooked. " Son, do you think that uncle will be handsome? "The son smiled and said," How can you be handsome without straightening your pants? "Slowly, the child's pants can be straightened.
5. Respect and tolerate each other.
At home, children should be respected and treated equally, and major events and small feelings should be known to children and discussed with them. Always put yourself in others' shoes, and learn to forgive and tolerate others. We live with grandparents, and sometimes children will call me if they have problems with grandparents. I will comfort the children first and analyze with them whether grandparents did something wrong, but grandparents are still taking care of us at such a big age, buying food and cooking for us and sending him to school, and everyone will make mistakes; Mother forgave you when Zixuan did something wrong. Zi Xuan also forgave his mother who had done something wrong. Also ask him to forgive his grandparents. When a family is together, they should tolerate and care for each other.