I still remember that there was a whole chapter in the biology class of grade one in junior high school, which introduced the human body structure and the physiological knowledge of men and women. The teacher who taught biology first talked about the girl part, kicked all the boys out of the classroom and stood outside for a class. The winter in the north is 65438+ February. When we should know the opposite sex best and establish mutual respect between the opposite sex, we were artificially isolated, and later the resistance to the opposite sex in adolescence was related to this. This part of sex education in school ended in nothing. The cognition of oneself and the opposite sex stays in the most primitive ignorant state and attitude. Without a scientific guidance, self-exploration has developed into erotic novels in bed and the role of bursting breasts in online games. Even at that time, a male chauvinist teacher said in front of the whole class that "girls don't need to study hard, they can earn money by stretching their legs." At that time, I was ignorant and only knew that I was insulted. It's really outrageous to think maliciously today. It turns out that not all teachers have the ability to be a "moral teacher, behave in a social way".
The boys transferred from the sixth grade primary school class are two or three years older than us. One day, he stole his parents' condoms from home and showed them to boys in turn. Later, he just heard the boy say that it blew like a light balloon. According to him, he had sex with her girlfriend three times. At that time, I thought it was just two people sleeping together, cuddling and kissing at most. This is really a picture of Tucson. Her girlfriend comes from a broken family and her parents are divorced. According to her, her affectionate mother and different men are not very jealous of her. Later, I thought, that teenage child, who had quietly witnessed his mother's affair with all kinds of men, should have such distortions, anxieties and fears, as well as unspeakable desires. When her fragile organs were not mature, she hurriedly handed over her body. Is it revenge on her mother or revenge on men with different faces? It's not the first time she's had it. She didn't have it before she touched people. Her mother and her men raped her. But when we talked about her after class, I never thought about it like this.
In our long-term abstinence, we deeply abide by the fuzzy law. School education and family education say nothing about sex. So far, I haven't seen any parents who can tell their children where they are from. Nine times out of ten, the answers they gave were vague. Some people's hymen is born out of consciousness, that is, I only love your spiritual will, and it has nothing to do with the body. And I firmly believe that when I love you, I firmly believe that you are my last person. I have been with you from the beginning, including my soul and body. In the eternal belief, it is natural to love you and have sex. Sex is a part of our life. Just like eating and sleeping, making love is as essential as sleeping and turning over. It shouldn't be horrible and dirty. Sex education should be as important as all educational sciences. Many tragedies have been avoided when we scientifically guide each generation's sexual concept. From the time when our parents frankly explained where we came from, and from a unisex physical education class in our school, I hope all adolescent girls of school age can put on appropriate underwear and treat their maturity calmly, and I also hope that those sunny teenagers can stay in the classroom and finish a biology class.