Deng Chao plays a father who can't understand his son's situation on the spaceship, shining a flashlight into the sky in the middle of the night, expecting his son's return.

People are always like this. When manpower is not timely, it is inevitable to expect the protection of the gods and the emergence of miracles. This is a feeling. Looking Up is a movie with feelings, but education can't just have such feelings.

There are many sensational words in the movie. If we believe it, I'm afraid these words will really turn into poisoned chicken soup.

This sentence appeared twice in the movie, once when Ma Haowen just went to prison to see his son, Ma Haowen said it to his son; On one occasion, Ma Haowen lived with his son after he was released from prison and carved this on the door panel.

When I first heard the news, Ma Fei was still a child in a large kindergarten class. This can encourage children to think more. When I heard the news for the second time, Ma Fei was already a junior high school student. This is tantamount to encouraging children to be "dreamers".

I was shocked when I heard this. Just thinking, how can you do everything? Still have to "do", you have to take practical actions to do things well.

However, the spirit of this sentence runs through the film, and it is really just an idea of what Ma and his son did.

Ma Haowen confidently made a bet with the dean, and he believed that Ma Fei could become the top ten in his grade. Then, Ma Haowen created his own galaxy cram school. Ma Fei doesn't need homework, just preview and review properly. Before the final exam, he also went to the air show, experienced life and death, and came back to get into the top ten of the grade appropriately.

Is it so easy to get into the top ten in this middle school that has won the first prize repeatedly? Are those students who do their homework on time every day and preview and review their lessons not in the top ten?

It was just a movie, so don't take it for granted. But in recent days, I brushed Weibo and my circle of friends. I do have letters from my parents-they emphasize the power of faith.

Ma Haowen repeatedly used steamed bread to compare daily homework and review. What's wrong with learning to say this? Without deliberate practice, it is impossible to master knowledge firmly. Parents who believe in Ma Haowen's practice are advised to read Deliberate Practice.

Or watch another movie "Spice Girls at the Bottom" to see how hard it takes to really counterattack.

Is it meaningless to draw a bow without an arrow target?

Bowing exercises muscles, strengthens physique and may even strengthen will.

When there is no target, you should also open your bow every day, and opportunities will always be given to those who are prepared.

When Jay Chou was able to release movies and shoot MV for the first time, the company arranged for the goddess Bidai Syulan to attend. He couldn't believe it. Until Bidai Syulan tells him, can you teach her to play the piano? Jay Chou regretted that it was right to learn the piano, but fortunately she listened to her mother.

Jay Chou didn't say that he had any dreams in his speech "Let's Speak". At first, he had only one expectation for himself, that is, he hoped his family would live a good life and earn money. Under such a small expectation, he gradually owned and realized his dream-becoming a singer, winning prizes and making movies.

Dreams do not appear out of thin air, but in daily actions.

This problem is too big for a child of 12 or 13 years old, okay? Ma Haowen in the movie didn't get the answer to this question either. What he emphasized was never giving up.

Whether you win or lose, it happens between people. If the relationship between people is only winning or losing, then it is too narrow to live just for competition. We all want to live a meaningful life, but the meaning should never be just winning or losing.

In the final analysis, this movie has not escaped the shackles of parents-it can't accept that children are born ordinary. There are few champions, few astronauts and few top ten students. That is the reality. However, if the child is already a dragon and phoenix among people, how does Ma Haowen evaluate his education?

Ma Haowen believes that his children are the best. In the end, the children are really great. It can be said that he has completely achieved his educational goal. However, when Ma Fei asked him to give up his grievances, Ma Haowen said that my education for you was a failure. What is his educational goal?

This is the contradiction in the film. I think it is also the inner contradiction of many parents.

Revealing this contradiction may be the greatest contribution of this film.

How to face this contradiction and solve it? There are many places to think and work hard, but we can't just rely on feelings.

How to educate children who love drama?

A good book to help you raise your children.

I hope you can fish, not just fish.

What kind of parents do you want to be?