Understand why children cry.
Parents need to take appropriate measures to educate their children about setbacks on the basis of understanding the reasons why their children cry.
Don't deliberately embarrass the children.
Don't deliberately embarrass children: create "setbacks" for children. On the basis of understanding children's abilities and interests, proceed from reality and gradually improve them, so that children can find their own shortcomings in setbacks and enhance their adaptability.
Help children correctly understand setbacks.
Help children correctly understand setbacks: help children correctly understand setbacks and let them understand that setbacks are common and inevitable in life. Let children face setbacks without fear and face them bravely.
Encourage children to overcome difficulties
Encourage children to overcome difficulties: when children encounter setbacks, parents should encourage them to overcome difficulties and let them know that crying can't solve the problem, and only facing it bravely is correct.
Guide children to evaluate themselves correctly.
Correctly guide children to conduct self-evaluation: guide children to conduct self-evaluation, help children find their own advantages and disadvantages, let children grow up in setbacks and improve their self-adjustment ability.