Author Zhou Gongdan (about 1 100 BC), surnamed Ji Mingdan, no.

According to legend, the system of rites and music established a system of laws and regulations and was honored as the founder of Confucianism.

After Zhou Chengwang came to power, he gave the land of Lu to Bo Qin, the son of Duke Zhou.

Therefore, there is no Dali in the old age, don't abandon it, don't prepare one person.

A gentleman is as strong as an ox and does not argue with the ox; Walk like a horse, don't compete with it; Wisdom is like a scholar, don't compete with a scholar for wisdom.

Respect those who are broad-minded and respectful; Smart and wise, watching fools, benefit a lot.

Translation:

Don't abandon a relative or old friend until he makes a serious mistake.

Don't blame someone for perfection.

Even if a virtuous person is as strong as an ox, he will not compete with the ox; Even if it flies like a horse, it will not compete with the horse for speed; Even if the wisdom is like a scholar, it will not compete with the scholar for wisdom.

People with great virtue will be honored if they treat themselves with humility; If you are smart and foolish, you will benefit a lot.

Appreciate:

The Commandment of Birds is about the virtues of modesty and prudence.

Even if you are the son of heaven, you are rich in the world because you follow these virtues.

Failure to be humble leads to death and national mourning. Jay is such an example.

How could you be careless? "

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Second, Confucius' family precepts

If you don't learn poetry, there is nothing to say; If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it

Translation:

The meaning of this sentence is clear.

One day, when Confucius was standing in the courtyard, his son Kong Li "hurried across the courtyard", that is to say, he walked very fast and took little steps.

Walking in front of the superiors, you should "rush", keep your head down and walk quickly. This is called "trend".

So Kong Li saw his father Confucius standing in the yard, so he bowed his head and left in a hurry. Confucius said, "Come on, how about learning poetry?" "No.

"How can you talk without learning poetry"-How can you talk without learning poetry?

Another day passed, Confucius stood in the courtyard again, and Kong Li "hurried through the courtyard". Confucius said, "Come on, how about learning etiquette?" Not yet.

"Why don't you learn manners?" How to be a man without learning etiquette?

Appreciate:

This story is called "court language", also called "court training".

Later, according to this story, the father's education for his son was called "court training" in ancient times.

Learning poetry and etiquette are about reading and doing things, which are two very important issues in life.

Third, Liu Bang's "Handing over Prince Wen"

I'm in troubled times, Qin banned school, and I'm complacent, saying that reading is useless.

Since you start practicing, you should save books and let people know what the author means.

It is not enough to remember what you have done in the past.

Yao and Shun don't care about the world or the children, but they don't care about the world, but the children are not neutral.

People have good cattle and horses, but they still cherish them. What about this world? I think you are a son, and I have made up my mind long ago. My ministers call you four friends, which I can't do, but I can do great things for you.

I hereby make you my heir.

I don't read, but I know my ears by reading and asking questions.

So it's not a big job, but it speaks for itself.

At present, your book is not as good as mine. You can study hard, learn from your own books every time, and don't let others.

Appreciate:

Handing the Prince Wen is a suicide note written by Liu Bang at his deathbed (BC 195, March of the 12th year of Emperor Gaozu) to make his eldest son Liu Ying the heir to the throne, and earnestly exhort and entrust him.

In this suicide note, Liu Bang deeply regretted his frivolous behavior in his early years, and told his son the importance of learning through his appearance.

In April of the same year, Liu Bang died, and in May, Liu Ying succeeded to the throne at the age of sixteen.

Fourth, Sima Tan's "The Life of a Child"

Author Sima Tan (? -BC 1 10), a native of xia yang (Hancheng, Shaanxi) in the Western Han Dynasty, his son Sima Qian.

Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was a Taishiling.

Filial piety, however, began with pro-service, middle service and finally established.

It is the greatest filial piety to leave your name for your parents in future generations.

Appreciate:

Sima Tan is knowledgeable, so he later made the Taishi Order of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, commonly known as Taishi Gong, who was in charge of the weather ephemeris and was also responsible for recording, collecting and preserving ancient books and documents.

When Sima Tan died, he took his son Sima Qian by the hand and told him in tears. This is Sima Tan's Music of Life.

Sima Tan hoped that Sima Qian would inherit his career after his death, not to mention writing history books.

Sima Qian lived up to his father's entrustment and finally wrote Records of the Historian, which is known as "a historian's swan song, leaving Sao without rhyme" and is famous in history.

Some people say that without Sima Qian's The Art of War, there would be no Sima Qian's Historical Records.

Verbs (abbreviation for verb) Ten Commandments and Ten Commandments for My Nephew.

The Book of Commandments and the Book of Nephews written by Zhuge Liang (18 1-234) are famous works in ancient family instruction, which expounded the principles of self-cultivation, scholarship and being a man, which made people think.

Quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality.

If you don't stay in the garden, you will be unclear, restless and not far away.

(exhortation)

Translation:

Improve your self-cultivation with tranquility and cultivate your moral character with thrift.

You can't be clear about your ambitions without being quiet, and you can't achieve your lofty goals without excluding external interference.

The husband should aim high, worship sages, abandon lust and stagnate, so that the ambition of ordinary people can be revealed and felt; Endure flexion and extension, remove details, ask questions widely, and get rid of meanness.

(nephew's commandment book)

Translation:

A person should set up lofty ideals, admire sages, control lust, get rid of vulgar thoughts that are stagnant in his chest, and let the lofty aspirations that are close to sages be clearly reflected in you, so that your heart will shake and you will get messages.

We should be able to adapt to the test of different situations such as smooth twists and turns, get rid of trivial matters and emotional entanglements, consult people extensively, and eradicate our feelings of complaining about others.

Appreciate:

Zhuge Liang got his son Zhuge Zhan at the age of 46.

He likes this son very much and hopes that his son will become a pillar of the country in the future.

Zhuge Liang has two sisters, and the son of the second sister is Pang Huan, who is deeply loved by Zhuge Liang.

Zhuge Liang fought all the year round and was entangled in government affairs, but he still did not forget to educate his children.

The two letters he wrote to Zhuge Zhan and Pang Huan were called "Commanding Book" and "Commanding Nephew Book".

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