Settings. Introducing etiquette education into the classroom, changing educational concepts, giving full play to the advantages of the network and creating a good campus atmosphere are the ways to strengthen etiquette education for college students.
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[Keywords:] college students; Etiquette education; path
China has always been a "state of etiquette". Etiquette is not only an important part of ideology and morality, but also an important form of spiritual civilization construction. ceremony
Instrument not only reflects a person's mental outlook, but also reflects the moral fashion of a unit, a region and even the whole society. With the increasingly frequent communication between people and countries, as well as the exchange and collision between eastern and western cultures, etiquette and customs around the world have been continuously integrated and developed. Colleges and universities should bring the etiquette education of college students into the training process.
First, the necessity of strengthening etiquette education
(1) College students adapt to the needs of modern information society. The rapid development of communication technology and means in modern information society is changing people's traditional communication concepts and behaviors. In particular, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication, and from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and mode of human social communication.
(2) It is the need for college students to improve their ideological and political quality. A student who knows little about books and whose knowledge level and moral level are seriously out of harmony cannot become an excellent talent. At present, there is a phenomenon in many colleges and universities: students have received high-level education, but their actual behavior can't even reach the basic moral level, and a considerable part of it is related to the lack of necessary etiquette education. Etiquette is a kind of non-legal social norms (social norms include legal norms and non-legal norms), mainly including moral norms, religious norms, customs and habits, common life norms and so on. And it is the basic norm to adjust the behavior of social members. Systematic etiquette education for college students, so that they can master the basic code of conduct, can not only enrich their own etiquette knowledge, master the etiquette norms that meet the requirements of socialist morality, know how to express their behavior according to the etiquette norms in real life, but also organically unify their internal moral quality and external etiquette forms, and become a veritable modern civilized person with high moral literacy.
(3) It is the need for college students to establish good interpersonal relationships. Whether they can establish good interpersonal relationships with others during their college years has a very important influence on the growth and study of college students. Psychologist John gotman's research shows that children who know how to solve the problems around them and deal with the troubles in life in an appropriate way are healthier physically and mentally, more concerned about others, more compassionate, more friends and better academic performance. Dale Carnegie's Road to Success and Jimmy Donan's Strategy to Success both derive the same formula: personal success = 15% professional skills +85% interpersonal and social skills. Therefore, it is an urgent need for college students to adapt to the new living environment, develop from "dependent" people to "independent" people, establish good interpersonal relationships and successfully move towards society. If college students can master basic etiquette norms and knowledge, basic communication skills, and follow the principles of mutual respect, sincerity, moderation in words and deeds, equality and friendship, they can quickly establish a harmonious and good interpersonal relationship with their communication partners.
(4) It is the need to strengthen the civilized behavior of college students and promote the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. Etiquette education is the most basic content in the socialist spiritual civilization education system. Civilized manners are the most concrete embodiment of people's spiritual civilization. A person's speech, manners, appearance and clothes can reflect his ideological cultivation, civilized quality education, agricultural education level and mental outlook in China, which not only relates to his personal image, but also affects the mental outlook of his school and even the whole society. Through etiquette education, we can further improve college students' etiquette literacy, cultivate their communicative ability to deal with rewards, develop good etiquette habits and carry out basic civilization education. If everyone speaks etiquette, the flowers of civilization will blossom everywhere and the society will be full of harmony and warmth. The fundamental goal of etiquette education is to educate and guide all citizens to consciously follow the socialist etiquette and moral norms and corresponding etiquette forms, improve people's awareness of civilization, develop good civilized behavior habits, form good social customs, achieve a high degree of harmony and order between people and society, and thus promote the improvement of spiritual civilization of the whole society.
Second, ways to strengthen etiquette education
(A) etiquette education into the classroom
First of all, the content of etiquette education should be included in the ideological and moral cultivation course for college students or the legal basis and ideological and moral cultivation being piloted, or a special etiquette cultivation course should be set up to educate college students systematically on the basic theory and specific norms of etiquette. Classroom teaching is a good method of systematic learning and training. The organic combination of etiquette education and ideological and moral cultivation can not only enrich the ideological and moral connotation of college students, but also teach them to be like elephants. In fact, people who have received good etiquette education or etiquette behavior training are completely different from those who lack training, whether it is internal quality or external behavior. Taiwan Province National Union University has specially formulated the main points of etiquette education and implemented etiquette education for all freshmen. At present, etiquette education in most colleges and universities in China is still blank and on the edge of moral education: on the one hand, most moral education workers do not pay enough attention to etiquette education, and etiquette education is in the blind area of moral education; On the other hand, the courses offered by Chinese universities emphasize professional theory and technology, but basically do not involve communication etiquette, nor do they carry out corresponding etiquette education. As a result, etiquette education is generally vacant, and some students even think that going to college has nothing to do with etiquette, so learning some professional knowledge is enough. Therefore, to strengthen etiquette education, we must first introduce etiquette education into the classroom.
(B) change the concept of education, strengthen teacher training
To strengthen etiquette education, we should not only introduce etiquette education into the classroom and bring it into the teaching plan, but also improve the moral education system in colleges and universities and strengthen teacher training from the perspective of changing educational concepts. The key point is to build a team of teachers who can adapt to modern etiquette teaching and research. College teachers not only impart knowledge, but also their personality strength and exemplary role will exert a subtle influence on students. This requires teachers to pay attention to their words and deeds in teaching activities and daily life, pay attention to and constantly improve their etiquette literacy, and constantly infiltrate etiquette education, so as to facilitate the combination of theory and practice and improve the level of etiquette teaching and research. Etiquette is not a new topic, but etiquette education in colleges and universities needs people to explore and think urgently. Colleges and universities should also hold various forms of etiquette lectures for college students and carry out various forms of etiquette activities, including the cultivation of international etiquette.
(C) to create a good campus atmosphere
To strengthen etiquette education, we must give full play to the advantages of college students' self-education, self-cultivation and self-improvement, carry out colorful campus etiquette activities, create a good campus atmosphere, encourage students to actively participate in various etiquette activities and social public activities inside and outside the school, continuously accumulate communication experience, and display etiquette charm and college students' elegant demeanor. For example, carry out "reciprocity" activities, formulate self-cultivation plans, and play the self-discipline role of etiquette; Mobilize all teachers and students to find uncivilized phenomena on campus, carry out debates, speeches, sketch performances and other activities, carry forward the wind of civilization and courtesy, and let the flowers of etiquette bloom everywhere; You can also introduce anecdotes of celebrities' self-cultivation through media tools such as radio, television and bulletin boards to promote the civilized construction of the school.
(4) Give full play to the advantages of network and carry out etiquette education practice.
Etiquette is rich in content and connotation. The richness, immediacy and openness of network information make network etiquette education better conform to the times and make small classes closely connected with the world. Etiquette cultivation education under the network environment is helpful to get close to students and society and stimulate students' interest in learning. Colleges and universities can establish and improve the homepage of campus network, encourage moral educators to establish personal webpages, make vivid and intuitive moral education software for etiquette teaching, and conduct ideological and moral education and etiquette education online by means of "online" chat, debate and consultation, so that students can gain a happy experience and improve their personality in the learning process. Of course, it is far from enough to improve college students' etiquette literacy only by the strength of the school, but also by the strong cooperation of the family and society. Only when schools, families and society cooperate and support each other can college students' etiquette education achieve good results.