Nowadays, children are much more arrogant, because most of them are only children, and the second child policy came, but they gave birth late. Therefore, cultivating children to bear hardships and stand hard work is a manifestation of being responsible for their children, and it is also for their own dependence when they are old, rather than taking care of their children when they are old. In ancient China, there was also a saying that "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude", because "since God has given talents, let them find jobs!" Some children have things they like. Everyone is happy when they do what they like, but we should encourage children to like positive things, which are harmful to their physical and mental health and resolutely stop them. For example, some children like sports, building blocks and puzzles, which are all very good. Parents should let their children play with their favorite things and adjust their nervous mood after the troublesome learning tasks are completed. Ancient family education was very strict with the cultivation of children's study and living habits. The so-called "father is son" means that children should respect and obey their parents. In today's money worship era, I think that as long as I have money, I have everything, or my parents are busy making money every day and neglect to study with their children, but I don't know that I don't work hard when I am young, and I am sad when I am old. Cultivate children to read from their favorite books, such as fairy tales, picture books and story books. Never read books that are difficult to understand, such as philosophy, and Tang poetry and Song poetry are also difficult to understand, but it does not affect children's ability to recite as well. In addition, children can also play with reading software tools. For example, a jint speed reading memory tool is installed on the computer for children to play with. There are many Schulte watches and memory pictures in it. Training games are fun and interesting, and can also improve attention. Children will like to learn to read and remember in play, and unconsciously have a strong interest in reading.