First, when we were young, we all had a particularly annoying person, that is, the "other people's children" that parents often said. Although I hated being compared with others by my parents when I was a child, many people still compare their children with others when they grow up to be parents. As a result, they became more angry and felt that other people's children were fine and their own children were nothing. Comparing with others will make children become unconfident, depressed and even give up on themselves, which is very harmful. Mothers must try to avoid this kind of behavior. Although it is difficult to do this, for the healthy growth of children, you should fully trust them, find out their advantages, believe that your child is unique and believe that he is no worse than other children!
Second, keep your word. Some parents promise their children something, but they never do it. They think it doesn't matter that their children are young and ignorant. As we all know, your behavior has been affecting children. If you don't keep your word, how can children learn the excellent quality of honesty from you? For example, in order to coax children to finish their homework seriously, parents promise to take their children to the playground on weekends. As a result, at the weekend, parents were delayed because of such and such things, or simply didn't take it seriously and didn't mention it. The children are very disappointed! If you break your word to your child only once or twice, your child may still expect you, but if you break your word more often, your child will no longer trust you, which will not only break your authority as a parent, but also lead to the alienation of parent-child relationship.
Third, be good at listening. Some parents are always impatient when their children talk to themselves. They often say "Go play and leave me alone" or "Go to your mother" or "Ask your father". They would rather spend a lot of time playing mobile phones than listening to them with their children. This will not only hurt your child's heart, but also dispel his desire to talk to you. Once the child closes his heart to you and is no longer willing to communicate with you, he will regret it. Therefore, when the child is talking to you, don't play with the mobile phone while listening, perfunctory. No matter what you are doing, please stop, look into the child's eyes carefully, listen patiently and enjoy the wonderful time of parent-child communication.