The two should coexist. In different situations, there should be different ways to deal with it. Even more often, tenderness is more useful. After all, most people are both soft and hard, so education should be both soft and hard, and find the right method.

Now children have more and more problems. Every parent is a first-time parent. Parents and children should be regarded as a process of learning from each other and making progress together. In education, don't impose your thoughts on children, but also understand that children are growing up, and you can't put your height on them because they don't match at all.

First, moderate education methods Moderation in education does not mean weakness or cajoling, but reasoning and gradual progress. Parents should be patient with their children's education, calm down and talk to their children when encountering difficult problems, and gradually understand and guide their children's correct values. A gentle attitude will certainly make it easier for children to accept it, but it can't be indulged indefinitely, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable.

Therefore, gentleness is measured. When children really make major mistakes in education, they also need some severe measures to let them know that although parents are gentle and reasonable, they are not infinite love.

Second, strict education methods Every child will experience adolescence and will have a rebellious period, so it is necessary to distinguish the seriousness of the situation. For example, children always watch mobile phones when they go home, but they can't learn. Usually sitting in the living room watching mobile phones. When you see a child like this, you will yell at him for studying, but this kind of education is wrong. Don't let your children do things you haven't done yourself. You can accompany your child to study or finish his homework while he is studying, at least you don't have to watch the phone call names.

Being strict with teachers has both advantages and disadvantages. When it's time to educate your children seriously, don't be gentle, for fear that your children will go astray, and you will really regret it.

Moderate and strict education is the most advanced. Every family's educational problems are different, so parents need to slowly explore the educational methods suitable for their families.

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