Family education has always been a worry for parents. Many parents can't grasp the strength of rewards and punishments. Too many rewards are afraid that children will be complacent and stagnate. If they are punished too much, they are afraid that their children will rebel. It's really hard to grasp. It is reported that a parent in Taiyuan rewarded his daughter with 30 seconds of unlimited shopping. This incident has also caused discussion among many netizens. Most of them think this is the right way of education, while a few think it is not conducive to the growth of children, and may develop the habit of spending money lavishly. Bian Xiao believes that this kind of reward behavior belongs to the correct educational method for three specific reasons: First, it can encourage children to continue their efforts; Second, children's nature can be brought into play; Third, no bad habits will be formed.

First of all, children can be encouraged to continue their efforts.

Rewards are the best way to encourage children to continue their efforts. The parents decided to reward their children in this way because they got good grades in the exam. This kind of reward will make children feel valued. They can buy so many things they want as long as they get a good grade in the exam, and they will continue to work hard in the future, thus forming a good cycle.

Second, children's nature can be brought into play.

Is it because you don't know what to reward when you need to reward your child, and you are afraid that your child won't like it, so the meaning of reward is gone? The advantage of this method for parents to reward their children is that they can give full play to their nature. Only when the children know what they like best is the best reward, and it doesn't cost much.

Third, I won't form any bad habits.

Many parents doubt whether this kind of reward will form the habit of children spending money without concept. In fact, there is absolutely no need to worry about this. Good values need to be guided by parents, not changed by a reward. As long as parents establish a good image, children will not be bad.

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