2. Family education is the root and foundation of human growth, and family education is "Bacon education".
3. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children may become "problem children" at school.
4. No matter how successful the parents are, if their children fail in education, they will fail all their lives.
For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. ..... The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be. (Mihura Yu Zhan)
6. The hand that pushes the cradle also promotes the development of the country. The fate of the people is in the hands of their mothers rather than those in power.
7. Poverty is an important educational resource, and the children of the poor are in charge early. If parents are in a state of making a living, it is best for children to experience the hardships and bitterness of their parents' labor.
8. Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the more conducive it is to children's growth. Parents, on the other hand, need to provide their children with the most basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.
9. Abundance is another more advanced educational resource. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." (Mihura Yu Zhan) However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without more advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth. China's folk experience is: "Rich for three generations."
10. In order to provide a suitable environment for the growth of children, it is worthwhile for husband and wife to tolerate each other. "A good marriage only brings you happiness, and a bad marriage can make you a philosopher." (Socratic)
Children's sense of security comes from family. In this place, "wind energy can enter, rain can enter, and the king can't enter." (Pete) "For Adam, heaven is his home; However, for Adam's descendants, home is their paradise. " (Voltaire)
12. Don't be a knowledgeable parent. Some people have a doctorate, but they may not be able to read. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.
13. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.
14. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself." (Wu Jiaxiang)
15. If a child cries, his parents will pick him up soon. Then, children will take advantage of this feature of their parents, constantly pestering their parents and making more demands on them. Therefore, parents should not rush to pick up their children when they are crying. Parents had better let themselves have something to do and let their children watch them do things quickly.
16. No matter how responsible parents are, it is impossible to solve all the problems of their children. Some problems can't be solved by parents and can only be solved by time.
17. The relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school; If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.
18. Parents' responsibility is to provide their children with two "heritages": one is congenital inheritance and the other is acquired inheritance. Educators can be optimistic about education, but don't be so optimistic that they don't consider heredity. Don't hate iron for not turning into steel. Iron has its uses, and so does steel. Don't think that the ugly duckling turned into a white swan is the result of the ugly duckling's hard study. The real reason is that the ugly duckling's mother gave birth to a goose egg instead of a duck egg. (This view comes from teacher Zhang Wenzhi's lecture)
19. Parents don't need to do much, just provide and maintain a good family environment for their children. To be a good parent is to be a family environmentalist. Sometimes, when a child is ill, it is not the child but the parents who need to take medicine.