"After reading so many parenting articles, I still don't know what to do if I encounter problems?"

"The method mentioned in the book is quite effective. Why doesn't it work if you come to my child? "

"Children are anxious when they have problems, so they should take care of it, fearing that it will have an impact on children's psychology; What should I do if I develop a bad habit anyway? "

Although parents study parenting knowledge hard, read books and listen to lectures like them, and don't forget to join various mothers, they are often troubled by various problems.

What causes us to be confused and entangled on the road of parenting?

In fact, the book "Parenting Choice" has given the answer-

They tend to absorb fragmented knowledge, treat the headache and the foot pain, and only pay attention to the change of children's behavior or a certain point, while ignoring the overall development of children.

Apply the method of authority, regardless of the uniqueness of your child.

Some viewpoints and methods may be wrong in themselves, and they will fall into misunderstanding without discrimination and thinking.

If you don't understand the law of children's development and children show "problems" in the eyes of adults, they will be anxious and ask what to do everywhere.