First, children often make mistakes. Children are inexperienced, lack self-discipline and self-control ability, and lack the ability to distinguish right from wrong. It is common for children to make mistakes in their daily lives. They are not good at analyzing and summarizing their own mistakes, finding out the reasons why they often make mistakes, and they don't know how to consciously correct them. This leads to the phenomenon that children often make mistakes.
Second, the reasons why children often make mistakes.
1, no experience, lack of social experience, easy to make mistakes.
I lack the ability to distinguish right from wrong. In the face of what I have done, sometimes I don't know if I am wrong.
3, lack of self-discipline and self-control ability, can not stand the temptation of others to make mistakes.
4. Disobeying parents' education and thinking that parents' discipline is a kind of restraint and control for themselves.
5, in a rebellious period, go its own way and don't listen to anyone's discipline.
Third, making mistakes is a common way to discipline children.
In the face of the mistakes made by children, in the process of disciplining children, if children do not obey their parents' discipline, many parents choose to beat and scold to educate their children after provoking their parents' discipline. For example:
1. Parents beat their children's buttocks, palms and faces with their hands, thus achieving the purpose of education and venting their discipline.
2. Threaten children verbally and urge them to correct.
3, or snoring and verbal threats to reprimand the child.
Fourth, the influence and harm of beating and scolding children.
As parents, we must realize this ideologically. Beating and scolding children is harmful to them. Then, what impact and harm will beating and scolding children bring to children?
1, beating and scolding children often hurts their self-esteem, leads to their inferiority complex, and is more likely to lead to their depression, which is not conducive to their healthy growth.
2, hitting the child If the parents hit too hard, it is easy to hurt the child's body, psychologically more likely to hurt the parents, because the child is the heart of the parents.
3. Beating and scolding children is easy to cause dissatisfaction among children, and children are more likely to confront their parents. Although seemingly obedient to their parents, they are opposed to their parents at heart.
4. The influence of beating and scolding children on their harmonious family relations has caused the gap between parents and children, which is not conducive to communication.
It is wrong to beat and scold children.
In the face of the mistakes made by children, there are various ways and means of education, but they choose to beat and scold children. In my opinion, it is wrong and undesirable for parents to beat and scold their children in the process of educating them. The reason why it is wrong can be known from the analysis of the influence and harm brought by beating and scolding children. It is wrong to beat and scold children.