During the summer vacation, I met a parent. She said that their children were isolated by the teacher in the second grade and said that they would kick them out of class in front of the whole class. She repeatedly asked the children to stand outside the classroom and couldn't hear the class. So I missed a lot of classes and got poor grades. I want to make amends.
I looked at the child hiding behind her, timid.
At that time, my reaction was that this teacher was too scum, which also deserved to be a teacher. I asked the child if he was too naughty, and my mother said that the child was indeed a little naughty.
Later, the child studied in my class: I found that the child had ADHD and couldn't calm down at all. He can't concentrate, either picking up something or getting ready to touch something and pick it up again. Forget it, he also influenced other students, holding this and chatting with that.
So I want to say:
1. It is wrong for the teacher to isolate the child. But for parents, the teacher is just one of the dozens of teachers in the child, but the child has only one second grade. So focus on the children.
With all due respect, children must have shortcomings. We need to find this shortcoming and try our best to help him correct it. Otherwise, even if he changes classes and schools, the problem still exists.
By the way, it's already so stiff, find out the reason of the child as soon as possible, and then help the child transfer to another school, otherwise it will be troublesome to leave a shadow on the child's heart.
It depends on what your child looks like. My cousin's child, a first-grade bear, accidentally broke his arm, hung up the splint, and fought with someone with the other hand because he was crowded in line. As soon as the teacher called, his mother called Shan Xiang: My son is like this. How does he fight? My son is a good boy. What can the teacher say? Pull the child who was beaten over and show her his face. I won't talk about it. Meeting such children and parents can only keep other children away from him.
This kind of thing is not without, it exists in real life, and my friend has experienced it. His children are girls in Grade Two, and their academic performance is at the bottom. The teacher used various methods, but there was no improvement. Later, I simply gave up the child, the whole class isolated the girl, and the teacher gave up. After we finished talking, he looked very helpless and at a loss. I suggest that he go to the grade group teacher and have a good talk with the teacher. Don't look for the class teacher. He listened to my words and went to the children's grade group teacher. After communicating with this teacher, things got better. The child's head teacher was transferred from school to another class and changed to a new head teacher. The new head teacher is very professional. In less than a semester, the children's learning has improved a lot, their personality has improved, and their relationship with their classmates has eased. Later, my friend asked me why I went to the grade group teacher at that time. I said, only good teachers, no bad students. Teachers teach and educate people, not suppress students. The grade group teachers have rich working experience and are also the class teachers of each class. If they don't have some skills, they can't be teachers in the grade group. I said, if the grade group teacher can't control it, you can transfer. It doesn't matter if you don't go to such a school My friend's child has changed obviously after changing the head teacher. Later, I learned that the head teacher had to pay 11 thousand yuan a year to sell English remedial classes to children. The child didn't come home and told his parents that he was afraid. Later, I met this child and asked him. Several students in the class paid the tuition for this extra-curricular tutoring. She said there were only four people. Later, I heard that the head teacher was expelled from the school for transferring to another class. I feel that the management of the school is still very strict, especially thanks to the grade group teacher, who is a good teacher!
Husband is an off-campus makeup teacher, and a student came. My husband gave him more than 500 to 100 students a semester, so I heard that several other children in their class also came, and the class income was less. In class, it was clearly stated that others were not allowed to make up lessons, but they all went to him, and the parents of the students could not agree. The teacher directly told all the students in the class to leave that student alone. Later, my parents called my husband, and my husband said he would go back to Banren to make up for it. Later, my parents gave Ban Ren 2,000 yuan, but he didn't go, and he still made up for it here, so that the teacher wouldn't make a fool of himself. I don't touch teachers in the dark. I met two good teachers in high school that I will never forget, but when I grow up, I have all kinds of birds. If you meet your own children, think of something else.
Transfer! Which school will harm your children? I encountered this problem when I was a child. Because the family is poor, the mother has no education and loves to scold the children. The head teacher is from my street. She knows my family situation and finds classmates to bully me every day. I hate her guts and want to kill this teacher. Decades later, I still hate her guts.
I think you should talk to your teacher. Tell the teacher what you think heart to heart, and I'm sure the teacher will understand.
I remember when my son was in junior high school, he often came back to complain about teachers and classmates. I have been educating him like this, and the teacher is willing to take care of you, which shows that you may become a good student. If the teacher doesn't want to talk to you, you must be a Liu Adou and can't help.
However, things are not that simple. My son is approaching the senior high school entrance examination in the third spring. When he was dressing, I accidentally found a red mark on his left arm, so I asked him, what happened to your arm? He replied, "ask Mr. XXX." I felt it was not good to ask the teacher rashly, so I stayed up until my son came home from school. He told me it was because a classmate in the class couldn't answer the question. The math teacher was furious and went to him. Seeing him sitting there crooked (my son was fat when he was a child, and his seat was small, and he often wriggled around), he hit him with a pointer.
Knowing what happened, the next day, after my son went to school, I called the teacher and expressed my meaning euphemistically. I said: My children have been educated with sticks since childhood, and now they are facing the senior high school entrance examination. The pressure on children is too great. I don't ask him how he did in the exam now, I just want him to be happy. I think mental health is more important than anything else. The teacher didn't say anything at that time. This matter has just passed.
Later, my son's math scores in the senior high school entrance examination came out, almost full marks. Everyone is happy for him. He told me excitedly that their math teacher was very kind to him before the middle school entrance examination. I think maybe it was after I called that the teacher realized that his behavior was a bit rude, so he paid more attention to my son than usual. My son, on the other hand, may be in a good mood to play so well.
Therefore, you need to untie the bell and tie the bell. What's the problem? You must find the source. I'm sure the teacher will understand your pains.
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In any case, it is wrong for the teacher to do so. But in order to treat it differently, there are several suggestions:
1. objectively analyze the reasons for this kind of thing, and pay attention to being objective.
2. If the teacher is intentional, then the teacher is scum. Collect relevant documents, call the Education Bureau directly to complain, and remove this scum from the teaching staff.
3. If it is a child's problem, sit down and talk with the child and the teacher to see how to get rid of the child's shortcomings. At the same time, I also put forward a clear request to the teacher, thinking that his practice is not conducive to the growth of children, asking him to help children integrate into the team.
Children are your future, so you must solve this problem. The healthy growth of children is more important than anything else!
Honey, you must take action on your own.
1. Find the teacher, ask the child politely, and then tell him about the child, let him explain and record it for him. I suggest you make a draft in advance. Be sure to tell the teacher's name and the whole process of his explanation accurately in the recording.
According to my experience, the teacher will never admit it. It's okay. You take the children and take the recording to the dean and the principal step by step. Remember, under normal circumstances, the principal can deal with the teacher privately without calling him, but if the school is poor, the teacher is likely to be called to confront him. The leadership attitude is generally good, and I will definitely apologize to you.
If you ask for a shift or the situation continues to deteriorate, then change schools. Teachers are influential. If you change classes and are suppressed by other teachers, then change schools!
Be sure to stand up for your child, otherwise you are likely to be depressed. If you don't love your child and stand up for him, your child can't help it. Don't be angry, persuade the children to go to school as usual, and the mother will definitely solve this teacher.
It's too much for the teacher to ask the whole class to isolate your child. What should you do? First of all, you should find out why the teacher wants the whole class to isolate your child, and why it is getting worse. Although the teacher's behavior violates a teacher's professional ethics and the basic laws of education, it may cause serious psychological harm to your children and leave a long-lasting shadow. But as parents, we should also analyze the root causes of this situation comprehensively, calmly and dialectically. Rational and calm, pay attention to methods and skills, and use laws and regulations to solve related problems.
If your child is too stubborn or has moral problems, or often makes trouble in class, it will affect the teaching order of the class, affect the normal progress of students' study and class, cause personal attacks or injuries to other students, seriously threaten the personal safety and psychological health of other students, and threaten the maintenance and progress of the normal teaching order. You should criticize, educate and enlighten your children. Because if your child becomes a black sheep, a street rat, and everyone cries out, it shows that there are serious problems in your family education, because parents are the first teachers of children, and the family environment is the most important external environment for children's growth, which directly affects the establishment and formation of children's correct outlook on life and world outlook. You should deeply reflect on yourself and help children get out of serious wrong ideas.
On the other hand, children's performance in school is another problem, which violates the constraints of relevant school policies and regulations. Teachers can completely correct through criticism and education, that is, they can refuse to change through repeated education, or they can be dealt with according to law through relevant school rules and regulations, or they can be warned or expelled. It is absolutely not allowed to cause harm to children's personality and psychology. You can report to the local education administrative department. You can also reflect to the school leaders and seek ways and means to deal with it properly. You must immediately and resolutely correct the teacher's wrong practices, let the children return to the classroom, return to the classroom, return to classmates, resolutely repent, correct bad habits, establish a correct outlook on life and values, establish a positive and healthy mentality, actively participate in their own learning, and become a good teenager with excellent academic performance.
First, find your own reasons. It is very likely that there are some problems in communication between myself and the teacher. These problems are not necessarily caused by any communication, but may always accumulate in the continuous communication that cannot be "timely" or "in line with the requirements". At this time, we should seize the opportunity, find the right relationship, and then regain the trust of the teacher, thus re-establishing the possibility of smooth communication.
Secondly, the reason for finding children. It is very likely that the child's real performance in class is different from what he told his parents, and the child will understate it. This place must not completely listen to the children's descriptions, because every description has a tendency, so it is still necessary to get information from the school and learn more from other parents or children's classmates or other classroom teachers, so that both can be heard!
Finally, parents should not be too nervous, deal with it coldly first and listen to the teacher's arrangement. Because students' learning state and performance are always staged, it is possible to change after one stage. At this time, we must keep an eye on the time and push the change to develop in a good direction.