Beibei is a three-year-old girl who will go to kindergarten in September. On this day, she played with her neighbor's brother Xiaoming all afternoon.
Taking a bath at night, Beibei touched her leg and asked, "Mom, why does Xiaoming have a penis here and I don't?"
As usual, my mother patiently replied, "Because Xiao Ming is a boy and you are a girl. He has a penis and you have a small garden. "
"Why are boys and girls different?"
"Because boys want to be fathers and girls want to be mothers and have children in the future, how can it be the same?"
"Oh, I see." Beibei is very happy.
When Beibei's mother dressed her, she met another problem. "It is best to be a boy. Xiaoming always urinates standing up. I have to get down. I also want to pee standing up. "
Mom thought for a moment, smiled and said, "Beibei, you can try to pee standing up now. Let's see. "
Beibei stood up and peed in her crotch underwear. As a result, her underwear and legs were wet. Beibei giggled. "I'll never pee standing up again. I'll get my pants wet. It's terrible." Take off your clothes and wash your body.
Before going to bed every day, my mother tells a story to Beibei, and then tells the matters needing attention in kindergarten:
Listen to the teacher, pay attention to safety, don't leave the group, don't go with people other than the teacher at school, and so on.
"Beibei should also remember that parents are not around, you can't make others dress with your hands or other things, and teachers can't touch these places." Mother's hand touched Beibei's chest, vagina, buttocks and anus in turn. "In case these things happen, tell your parents as soon as you come back."
"If these places are uncomfortable, please tell your parents in time and we will take you to see a doctor."
"Why can't others touch here?"
"Because we have hidden treasures in our bodies, these places are secret passages to the treasures. Do you think you can let others touch your secret casually? "
"Oh, of course not! If anyone touches it, I will come back and ask my father to hit him. " Beibei suddenly realized.
"By the way, you must tell us something. Remember: Mom and Dad will always be your best friends. "
"Remember, good night, Mom!"
02. Question for children around six years old: Where am I from?
"Mom, where am I from?" Beibei asked.
"You grew up in your mother's belly and were born!" Mom said.
"I am so old, how can I be in your belly?"
Mom then bought some pictures from Baidu to show Beibei.
"This is your mother's womb, and you have lived in your mother's belly for ten months."
"ah? Am I that young? " Beibei looked at her mother's stomach and asked curiously.
"Yes, at first you were very young, like a small seed, sprouting in the womb."
"Mom's belly will get bigger and bigger, because you grow very fast. Wait for you to grow up after ten months, and then your mother gave birth to you ... "
"Mom, where did you give birth to me?"
"Look here, you walk from this secret passage to your mother's garden, and then you come out." Mom pointed to the photo and showed it to Beibei.
"Oh, Mom, what do I eat in your stomach?" Beibei asked again.
"This is called the umbilical cord. When it is in your mother's belly, it connects you with your mother, and your nutrition is given to you by your mother through the umbilical cord. When you were born, the doctor cut the umbilical cord and you had a navel. "
Beibei looked at the photo, uncovered her clothes and looked at her navel.
"Mom, it's amazing. You are great. "
"Yes, my mother is great. When you were in her belly, mom talked to you every day, read to you and played music for you. " Dad said, "You are very naughty. You've been moving in your mother's stomach. My mother can work hard and can't sleep well. "
"I'm sorry, mom, I will be obedient and be a good boy ..."