? Poor family? On this topic, many netizens commented below that most parents will tell their children that their families are poor from time to time in the process of educating their children. This kind of parents usually complain to their children that they lived a luxurious life before they had children, but since they had children, they have become frugal and spent all their money on their children, so they need to let their children live a frugal life.
In fact, my parents taught me this way, which led me to be almost 30 years old. I am still a very frugal person in my daily life, and even there will be excessive frugality.
Although my family condition is either rich or expensive, it may be better than the average family, but my parents have been telling me since I was a child that my family is poor and not rich at all. Even when I went out to play with my classmates in high school, I only gave me 30 yuan, and I felt that 30 yuan was so much money that I couldn't spend it.
Although we know that our parents love us, we always remind our families that this kind of education is poor, which really makes many children feel that their parents' love for them is suffocating.
Let children realize their dreams that they can't. There are also many parents who have many dreams when they are young, but after a certain age, they have to face the choices of real life. Coupled with the lack of personal ability, their dreams when they were young could not be realized. When children grow up, parents often rekindle their hopes for their dreams, but the realization of this dream depends not on themselves, but on themselves.
But children are also independent people and have their own dreams. Therefore, this will also cause many children to have many contradictions in the process of getting along with their parents, knowing that their parents are good for themselves, but many children also need to choose their own lives, which will also make them feel suffocated.