It is normal for children to fight, but it is more troublesome to solve. Children are their own treasures, and there is no room for any injustice. Some parents worry about other people's children when they see their children being beaten. As a result, other people's parents couldn't sit still and got up, so the fight between the two children developed into an adult's beating and cursing, which hurt the harmony, set a bad example for the children and affected their correct outlook on life. Some parents think it's better to do one more thing. Their children are suffering from the war. Remember the lesson in the future and don't play with them. This virtually deprives children of the ability to deal with communication problems and is afraid of socializing. There is also a kind of parents, regardless of whether the child is right or wrong, who beat the child first, or teach the child a lesson, thinking that the child is incompetent, shameful or has caused him trouble. This kind of parents are grumpy and cowardly, and their children often dare not say anything when they are angry outside, gradually forming a mentality of cowardice and inferiority. None of these methods is suitable. What is really useful is this method, showing children the correct method and giving them the way to deal with this problem.

A few days ago, I went to the kindergarten to pick up my children from school and saw them crying. The teacher also quickly apologized, saying that because the child had recently rehearsed dancing, he didn't take good care of the child and was injured, and his arm was squeezed purple by other children. I was a little angry when I saw the injury, but I was embarrassed to say anything when I saw the teacher's sincere appearance. So I asked the child, and he didn't say anything, just complaining about him. No choice but to find a teacher and ask the child who hurt him to apologize to his face. The teacher agreed, but he didn't want to come back from school today. The child felt very excited and said that he had apologized to him and would not bully him in the future.

I said, baby, what if someone hits you? He said, then I'll ask the teacher to apologize to me. What if he still hits you after apologizing? Then I will tell the teacher. I said, it's right to tell the teacher, but what if the teacher is not here? Think about it, son I don't know. I told him that if someone hits you, you should warn him first and stop hitting you. If you have, you're welcome. If you don't listen to the warning, you will have to beat him severely. But the child said, I can't beat it. Then tell the teacher quickly. The child expressed understanding and went to play happily.

When a child is beaten, first of all, the child must do psychological work after being beaten. Don't let your children see you angry and flustered. He will think that he has brought you trouble, made you angry and incompetent, and won't tell you the reason. Try to ask the reason of the matter calmly and truly understand the child's feelings. Then after asking the reason, if it is the fault of the other child, it is to ask the other person to apologize to the child in person. Why are you apologizing like this? Because only in this way can children know right from wrong. If he is hurt, he should apologize to me and give the child a sense of security. Even if he is injured, it can be solved in time. Children will know how to deal with this situation in the future. Finally, we should educate him in this respect. If a child infringes on him, he must bravely say no and tell his teachers and parents in time. After these three steps, children are basically bullied outside, and even if they are bullied, they will be dealt with correctly. ?