1, set an example. Throughout the growth of childhood, children are good at imitation. Although children will imitate teachers and classmates when they enter primary school, parents are the most important imitators. Children will imitate how parents deal with problems and emotions, how parents get along with others and how parents talk.

2. Cultivate children's good living habits. When educating children, I think it is very important to cultivate children's good living habits, such as eating, drinking, dressing and washing. Children should be allowed to eat and brush their teeth on time. Even if there are no adults at home or on holiday, children should follow their past habits, which is of great benefit to their future.

3. Build self-confidence for children. Parents should know how to appreciate their children, find their bright spots, and help them build up confidence in overcoming difficulties. When children need help, parents should master a certain degree of help and never replace them. They should leave room for their children to succeed through their own efforts, so that children can experience the joy of success and establish self-confidence.

4. Allow children to fail. Allowing him to do things means allowing him to fail, which is a very important link in the whole education process. Who hasn't experienced failure or done something wrong? Only when children have actually experienced it will they be more impressed and be able to cope with the next question with ease.

5. Respect children's wishes. The personality of the fourth grade children has been formed. Due to the formation of the child's personality, the child is already a completely independent person. He has his own views and attitudes on the problem and his own independent thinking. What he wants and doesn't want to do should be decided by the child himself, not forced by his parents.

6. Formulate a reward and punishment system. Children should be punished for making mistakes, but they should get more rewards for doing well. This can greatly improve children's self-confidence and enthusiasm. Parents should reward their children with some practical prizes, such as big plush toys, so that their children will be proud and have more confidence in doing things.