Sister, my daughter was slapped by her classmates!

This is the first sentence that my famous sister said to me when I stepped into the cleaning shop!

At this point she talked to me about her daughter!

Her daughter, 13 years old, is a typical China girl. Her family is good, gentle and clever! Not only that, but also the academic performance is among the best, envy others! She is a very simple girl and never stirs up trouble!

If you talk to her and play with her, she will think that your classmates' affection for her is true, without accident or use! Only believe!

In the same kind of people, they are all looking for their own maverick side, that bright spot! And her daughter is in this hot water environment!

Many people may not like others being better than themselves, or are unwilling to admit others' Excellence!

So they will choose extreme ways to show their unshakable status!

For example, they will organize small groups to ridicule, slander and create rumors, which will not make you feel better!

She probably described it like this:

My daughter came home on Sunday and said to her mother, Mom, I want to discuss something with you. I want to invite a friend of mine to our house to play, and she really wants to come to our house to play.

Is it okay?

Mother thought: It is very common for daughters to make friends and have normal friends. There is nothing wrong with it!

Mom said: yes, go and pick her up together!

Of course my daughter is very happy!

Because her daughter's friend is not in the city, the mother and daughter drive for half an hour to wait at the door of her friend's community!

Mom is also very excited. It is the only way for a daughter to make friends by herself, and it is also a good opportunity to understand the development of her children!

Mom didn't expect the child's friend to be the opposite of her daughter!

After getting on the bus, the girl did not say a word. I didn't speak as well as you for the first time. I lit a cigarette as soon as I got on the bus, which is undoubtedly the escalation of resentment of Yan Min's mother towards her daughter and friends!

When I got home, my mother didn't treat her children's friends slowly because of her inner unhappiness, but also personally cooked their favorite sumptuous meals for the two children!

After the play, I personally sent my daughter's friend home safely! You thought it was over, but it wasn't!

The next day, the girl's mother received a phone call!

It's the family of my daughter's friend. The other party questioned the girl's mother: Why is her child paying for the meal? The girl's mother was deceived at that time!

Thinking: What do you want to buy? Where can I pay the bill? What happened? But I may have realized something! At that time, she didn't directly expose her lies, but she knew in her heart that the girl had lied!

After hanging up the phone, my mother told her daughter never to be friends with such people again!

Because my daughter mentioned 100 yuan again, because a friend's family gave the child 100 yuan, and she must have used it in other places, worried about the parents' investigation, so she said it was used to invite friends and their mothers to dinner! It led to the misunderstanding between parents!

My sister said that my daughter is too simple, and all her energy is devoted to her studies, which will definitely be lacking in other places.

Too little contact with things outside, it is easy to be deceived and hurt! She also constantly blames herself for not educating and guiding her children's life and behavior and not being a good mother!

Full of unknown addresses, stay away from liars.

After telling a lie, you need to move on to the next one. People who love to lie will eventually reap the consequences and harm others and themselves. Such people can only watch from a distance! Otherwise, if you are near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico, you may become such a person!

Stay away from those who always hold you back and give you a way out!

A true friend will tell you that if you work hard, you will see the light. People who feel sorry for themselves and complain about others every day, who always treat things with a negative attitude, will affect your peace of mind sooner or later! Making friends with positive energy can make life longer!

Don't trust people who break their promises.

A promise is hard to take back, and if there is no basic trust between people, don't talk about friendship and friends!

People who like to make small moves and get into trouble.

Also note that if you are not careful, you may go astray! Some grumpy and overbearing children are the leaders of bullying!

In my opinion, this sister really should give her children a good lesson. The world is cold and the people are sinister!

It is such a girl who still hasn't escaped the bullying of her classmates!

Indeed, school bullying is like a nightmare for children. Sometimes they wake up, and sometimes they wake up like in a nightmare! This dark force is likely to accompany them all their lives! So that they can't redeem themselves and get rid of the pain!

A female star who was once fed chalk dust when she was a student: Sandra! I once mentioned that terrible past in the program because of my inferiority complex!

She calmly said that her classmates put dishcloth water and chalk dust mop water into the drink for her to drink!

It was an indelible dark time!

Shen was chased by m-girls when he was in middle school, asking for money to slap in the face! She said it was the most painful place!

Isn't the world strange sometimes? Always breaking the rules!

The word "fox" commonly used in Shan Hai Jing or myths and legends is often used to describe some confused women and can be put on the list of swearing!

However, the word "fox" is used on a middle school girl, but it still comes from the mouth of the teacher. The so-called teacher's role model is just a hollow reputation!

Because of her, all the boys in the class left home! All the sins are because of its beautiful face! Girls' looks are subjected to verbal violence and rejection, which can be said to be a critical attack on a middle school girl!

Sometimes verbal violence is actually more horrible than physical violence!

First of all, we have to talk about the influence of family education!

Some children are often scolded, abused and disliked by their parents in the family, lacking their parents' love, care and attention. Children in families with high quarrel rates are more likely to bully others! If they dare not rebel against their families, they will point the finger at others!

Especially now, too many urban and rural children have become left-behind children, and the responsibility of education and parenting has become the responsibility of the older generation. Most of them don't understand education and guidance, but who wants to practice hard for nine winters if they are satisfied with three meals?

They don't want their children to suffer any setbacks and hardships, let alone educate them to distinguish right from wrong and spoil them in every way, adding fuel to the fire! Even encourage children to bully others with great fanfare. Applause!

The social environment will also have a certain impact on the growth of children!

As we all know, children's imitation ability is the strongest, especially junior high school students, who are in their youth, unstable in all aspects and easily influenced by society! Learn some bad habits in society, such as fighting!

The emergence of school bullying is sometimes not only a problem of students, but also a problem of some teachers themselves.

For example, using verbal violence, for example, seeing some bullying phenomena, not stopping and educating them! This is undoubtedly helping others!

The cultivation of students!

Some children are not literate enough and like to get happiness by bullying others. Some people are even afraid of being bullied, so they start first and join the bully team!

It is necessary to educate children to have a sense of responsibility and not to bully others at will!

If you face bullying, don't bear everything alone, which will only make bullying vicious circle! Dare to say no to bullying!

Remember the girl with short hair who was bullied and insulted by her classmates when they met? She had no choice but to say nothing. Passers-by drew swords to help drive the bully away. The bullied child is not always so lucky, and there will be noble people to help her!

So tell children to seek help in the face of bullying and try their best to solve the problem through the power of schools, parents and society! Tell the bully to retreat!

Bullies themselves have problems in their hearts, if you can try to find relevant personnel to give them psychological education and guidance!

Some children's world is not as beautiful and simple as we think! What they need is psychological redemption!

Although Chen Nian is a character in the film, bullying behaviors such as being slapped in the face and being photographed nude have really happened in reality.

Tell children what bullying is and what kind of responsibility and punishment they have to face!

Many children don't understand the law now. For example, they can have a baby and throw it into the toilet at will, but she doesn't know it's a crime of abandonment!

It's natural to bully others. I'm not an adult and I don't have to take responsibility!

They always think they will do evil with impunity!

Tell children that even if they are not adults and do things that violate human feelings and laws, they still need to bear certain responsibilities! No one can escape!

It's like they used dirty words and said something crazy after hurting someone: I didn't bully her, I didn't hit her! They don't know how to care, understand and empathize! If children can learn to understand and grow up slowly, I believe bullying will also decrease!

As parents, let children get more contact with positive energy things and people! Get in touch with the bright world! Be a guide for children's life and study! Use patience and love to influence children's hearts!