Most of us cannot pass on our careers to the next generation. Can do this, only the family business, or circle inheritance, such as lawyers. Most people can only pass on their educational ideas to the next generation.
I have always believed that no matter how successful my career is, it is only one aspect of life. The self-worth of life is reflected in your career and family. Paying attention to and attaching importance to education plays an extremely important role in every family. So I will pay special attention to children's education. But most people agree that academic qualifications are very important, but they are concerned about how many classes their children have enrolled in and how their grades compare with others. Parents have no principles and methods, no persistence and progress. Most people are still giants in thought and dwarfs in action, and they are forced to put down the shopkeeper.
We should firmly believe that education is a matter for adults, not children.
I think the most important thing in children's education is determination.
We often say that standing at the age of 30, here is standing and making two answers. One is to make a career, which is actually a vision of your own survival, and the other is to make a determination and lifelong ambition. Here, I think determination may be more reasonable than career.
Determination, often cited are several examples.
The first is Mao Zedong's determination: My children are determined to go to the countryside and never come back until they learn to be famous. At this time, Mao Zedong's determination is still relatively naive, with the aim of jumping out of the agricultural gate and making a name for himself; In fact, Mao Zedong's ambition has been constantly adjusted in the follow-up, that is, anti-imperialism and anti-feudalism.
The second is Zhou Enlai's determination to study for the rise of China. This is simple and clear, with a grand goal: the rise of China, and the means to achieve the goal is clear: reading. His means in adolescence is reading, and he has been practicing his lofty goals all his life.
There is another one, Zeng Guofan. Zeng Guofan said that there are three major events in life. The first is ambition, the second is knowledge, and the third is perseverance. Among them, he thinks the most important thing is determination. Without lofty aspirations, life will have no backbone and go with the flow. In fact, Zeng Guofan's determination was quite tortuous, and he gave up halfway many times. Finally, it is obvious that if he is not a saint, he will be an animal; Mo Wen harvests, but requires cultivation. As a result, the follow-up life continued to develop and became the pillar of the late Qing Dynasty and a model for the younger generation.
There are two important reasons to make up your mind in life. The first is that with a goal, life will not waver and time will not be wasted. The second is that in the process of achieving the goal, we will not haggle over every ounce, we will not be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and we will not waste energy. If you are ambitious from an early age, you will have a big pattern.
These people are all great men, and they should set an example for the present people.
Many people, when they live to be parents, don't have a clear vision and a clear understanding of their lives. If they expect to educate their children in this way and make them excellent talents, it is tantamount to dreaming.
Education, first of all, lies in setting an example. Parents and friends must first have their own clear goals in life.
Then we'll talk about the children's ambitions.
Every child will show different interests and talents when he was a child, which needs the close attention of parents and friends. Moreover, children's interests often change, which may lead to countless ambitions. In the process of continuous growth, children's ambitions will be constantly updated and upgraded. Therefore, it is necessary for parents and friends to help their children make clear their most desired aspirations, and then help them make the most suitable plan in time and realize it layer by layer.
For example, children like rockets very much. You can guide them to make rockets, or launch rockets, or be astronauts. What conditions do we need if we want to be astronauts? To achieve this condition, you need to prepare your body and learn how to prepare.
In a word, you should know that ambition is changeable. When children seek their own life path, what we need to do is to help them define their goals, cultivate their self-motivation to achieve their goals, appreciate their efforts and progress in achieving their goals, tolerate his mistakes in some things, constantly give him strength through some inspirational stories and trust him unconditionally.
In the process of this plan, you will encounter constant setbacks and failures. Let's not say "it's too difficult for us to learn" or "it's too late for us to write". This discouragement will seriously affect children's self-discipline. Sticking to small things will form the habit of children's persistence.
What matters is not whether he can realize his ambition at such a young age, but whether he has cultivated the courage and ability to realize his ambition in the process of realizing his present ambition. In the future, if he has a perfect world outlook, outlook on life and values, he will set up his own ambition and live a successful life.