1, parents should correct their mentality and accept that it is normal for children to like and worship the opposite sex when they reach puberty. Everyone has experienced this period, and everyone has their own appreciation and love for the opposite sex, but they are afraid to be brave. This is just a pursuit. Today, our own children are in puppy love. Looking at it from another angle, how good our children are! How confident! Why do you have to put a hat on your child?
Our parents try not to scold their children, not to mention that they are wrong. You shouldn't fall in love with this child at this age. We need to communicate with children, understand their current situation, listen to their voices and let them know their parents. Right next to us. Secondly, we should guide children, such as children! Your parents didn't object to puppy love at your age, but they didn't support it either. Parents ask what kind of person you want to be when you grow up. What kind of life do you want? If you want to live a good life, you must have better knowledge support and concentrate on your studies now.
3. School is a place for learning and rules. We can't cross the line. Some intimate behaviors can't be done at school, nor can they affect other students, let alone violate the regulations. You two should inspire each other, learn from each other, make progress together and work together for the future life you want. Also, you should restrain yourself, be responsible for your actions and choices, and be a responsible person.
4. When we know that the child is "puppy love", we need to make rules with the child: for example, girls should not be too exposed and should conform to the identity of students; They can't talk about sex in public; Go home on time; Keep the mobile phone fully charged and keep the signal open at any time; If you encounter an accident, try to ask for help and so on. Let children know that their parents love them and will respect their choices, but this does not mean letting go.
5. Help children to establish a correct concept of love. Tell your child: "Love others first, then love yourself. Only by enriching your heart and having an independent personality will the other person like you more and like you full of positive energy. " Hurt each other, don't have sex and so on. Not having sex is our parents' bottom line and our children's protection for themselves, which must be done.
? 6. Conduct timely education on sexual morality and knowledge. Tell her the destructive harm of abortion and birth control pills to the body, as well as the ways, ways and harm of AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases, so that children can understand the responsibility and consequences of premarital sex and use safety protection measures correctly.
16 years old, in adolescence, with strong rebellious psychology. If it is too strict to prohibit children from falling in love, the above behavior will become concealment, and children will only secretly date. At this age, the more abstinence, the more longing, the more I want to go against my parents.