1. First, let children learn to be independent. When children grow up to two or three years old, they begin to have initial self-concepts, such as "give it to me", "I want it", "I will" and "I will". If children's independent activities are satisfied and supported by adults, they will begin to establish self-affirmation feelings, otherwise, they will easily retreat.

2. Secondly, adopt appropriate education methods, pay attention to the tone and way of speaking to children, listen to children carefully, and let children feel that their parents respect them. Children who are fully respected by their parents are mostly very cooperative, friendly, polite and generous, and have a strong sense of self-independence;

Finally, we should pay attention to the attitude when educating children, and the attitude of both parents should be unified.