0 1. The main factor that affects children's grades is not school, but family.
02. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children may become "problem children" at school.
03. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.
04. Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the more conducive it is to children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.
05. Abundance is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.
06. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.
Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.
08. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself."
09. If the child is crying and the parents quickly pick up the child, then the child will take advantage of this characteristic of the parents and constantly pester the parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.
10. The relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school. "
Education is to cultivate people's mental outlook. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their mental outlook, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be polluted, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, and make people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high.
12. Educated parents are Voltaire. "I don't agree with your opinion, but I will defend your right to speak to the death." They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and cursing. As a result of killing chickens for monkeys, monkeys also learned to kill chickens. "
13. Let children become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause will have a good start; Without reason, no feat will have a good ending. "
14. Let your children become educated people. Education begins with punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public and not getting angry easily.
15. Be kind. If your child is kind, please don't laugh at his weakness. People who like to take advantage of small things often suffer big losses because they are rejected by others. He who is willing to suffer a small loss will take a big advantage in the future, because he is liked by people. "
16. Physical vitality can bring spiritual vitality. A healthy person has a sunny personality. People in poor health are hesitant, evasive and hesitant.
17. Don't think that 1 a child aged 6 is just the age of growth. If parents let their children spend time with grandparents 1 until they are 6 years old, and parents take their children back to primary school when they are 6 years old, then the children will either become silent dumb or lawless troublemakers in primary school.
18. Always do three things with children: one is to have dinner with children, the other is to ask children to repair toys, furniture or clothes, and occasionally ask children to help solve work difficulties. The third is to tell stories to children and invite them to tell stories themselves. "
19. If there is no special difficulty, parents had better go home to have dinner with their children every day. The common values of the family are established in the process of eating around a table.
20. Tell children stories and invite them to tell their own stories, so that children can establish reading and writing habits from listening to stories, learn to read independently as soon as possible, and develop the habit of lifelong reading as soon as possible. "As long as people are still studying, they will not completely degenerate. People who are completely degraded will not learn. " Parents who never tell stories to their children are irresponsible parents.
2 1. Children's growth has three critical periods: the first is about 3 years old, the second is about 9 years old, and the third is about 13 years old. Missed the critical period of growth, and the future troubles are endless. "
22. Not "standing at thirty", but "standing at three". At the age of three, children must establish the courage and habit of self-reliance. You must do what you can and do what you should.
23. If your child likes Frost's poem when he is 13 years old, it is normal that "two roads branch in the forest, and I choose the one with few people". Don't worry, he may choose the one with more people in the future.
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