Children don't do well in the exam, so we should carry out appropriate education according to the actual situation. If you have worked hard, not only don't criticize, but also encourage. If you don't do well in the exam because of fun, you should criticize it properly and let your children study hard. For the ups and downs of normal grades, encourage children to calm down.

First, it is normal for children to work hard and their grades fluctuate. We must acknowledge their efforts.

Even in the hottest summer, there will be cool moments, just like children's grades. Even if you study hard, your grades will drop sometimes. These are normal fluctuations. Tell children not to be too anxious, not to care too much about the normal fluctuation of grades, and to sink down and study hard. This is the most important thing. We must affirm children's efforts, encourage them to continue to study hard, and don't be disturbed by fluctuations in their grades. As long as you study hard, the fluctuation of your grades is not important.

Second, children should be reminded in time and criticized appropriately because of their playful performance fluctuations.

Sometimes the fluctuation of grades is normal, sometimes it is not. For example, children can't concentrate when studying, indulge in playing online games and watching TV dramas. This is an abnormal phenomenon. Remind the child's behavior in time to prevent the child from continuing to indulge. Don't encourage at this time, because fun is everyone's. As parents, we should strictly restrain our children in this respect, and we should not let them waste their youth because they are playful.

Third, children's performance fluctuates due to feelings and other reasons, so it is necessary to promptly guide them.

Sometimes, children's grades fluctuate, not because of incorrect attitudes, but because of some fluctuations caused by objective conditions. At this time, we should guide ourselves appropriately. For example, it is not the child's fault that children are not focused on their studies because of family disharmony, or that they are delayed in their studies because of the seeds of love. They should be properly guided.

The above is Bian Xiao's view on how to encourage children to rise and fall, hoping to help everyone.