After finding the teacher, the other party said that your daughter was in love with many boys at school, so she gave a "poor". Hearing this, Father Ma was very angry. He knows his daughter's habits very well. He didn't think Mayli would do such a thing.
Father Ma went straight to school to ask why. Father Ma said, "Teacher. Please write down the names of all your boys. Do you want me to ask around one by one and see who they are? " It's probably the first time for the teacher to meet such a serious parent. He faltered for a long time and didn't specify who it was, but he still said that he would judge Ma Yili as "poor". Ma Yili's father was angry and said loudly, I know my own daughter. She would never do that, I know.
Trusting her daughter's father so much, the teacher can't help wondering if his work is not meticulous and objective enough. The appearance of his father calmed Ma Yili's grievances. The teacher didn't believe her. Forget it. It is enough for my father to believe in himself.
I had a close friend when I was in high school. We often play together and feel like sisters. Later, one of my classmates lost her money and she went back to the classroom. The teacher asked her if she had seen it, but she saidno. After school, she told her father about it, and her father said, if it is you, take it out quickly. I quickly said that it must not be her. I play with her every day. It can't be her.
After graduating from high school, she resolutely chose a distant university. Parents will be more confident when they trust their children. Parents are wondering, how can children have courage? I have always felt that the greatest love parents can give their children is to teach them to believe that you are good and worthwhile. Believe in yourself, you can rely on yourself, don't you think?
If parents don't trust their children, what impact will it have on adolescent children? 1. Lack of self-confidence: Parents often take care of their children's lives, but they don't believe that their children can do things independently and doubt their self-care ability. Over time, children will agree with their parents' ideas and think that they are incompetent, which will lead to self-doubt and even inferiority, leading to lack of self-confidence. Once a child puts this label on himself, he may never really build self-confidence in his life.
A relative's child was taken care of by his parents and grandparents since childhood. As a result, he could not take care of himself after he went to college, so his parents had to rent a house next to the university to accompany him to take care of his daily life. When children become adults, they not only can't take care of themselves, but also have no self-confidence. The mantra is "I can't do it" and "I can't do it".
2, causing rebellious adolescence is the second rebellious period of life, children feel that they have grown up, and parents' discipline and requirements will show instinctive rebellious psychology. At this sensitive stage of adolescence, parents need to pay more attention to their words, deeds and attitudes when educating their children. If parents don't trust their children and demand and restrict them excessively, their children's rebellious mentality will be stronger. Even adolescence will be prolonged, which is the so-called "post-adolescence", leading to psychological conflicts and even affecting mental health.