The biggest lesson that my predecessor brought me is that you really can't be too anxious to find someone, especially the older ones. You must find someone you like very much to start a relationship. Family, education, economic level, even personality, talent and hobbies are all part of life and need to be carefully understood.

See the essence of life clearly, don't struggle, don't be soft-hearted, if it is broken, it will be broken. True and beautiful love is when two free souls collide, and diamond cut diamond becomes a better self, not when he finds himself lonely. Without deep soul communication, it is meaningless to eat, drink, and have company, but two lonely souls seek comfort, which I don't want.

If a person breaks up easily, don't keep it more than once, but firmly believe that the other person is going to break up. Also, always stay away from people who know how to flirt from the beginning, from those who are ambiguous and obviously sophistry, and don't doubt those who will tell you that their feelings are scum and afraid of hurting you.

People who constantly need you to prove how to love each other should break up early, or they will be exhausted. Finally, when breaking up, don't tell others about your ex, don't embellish it with personal attacks, don't explode, break up cleanly and decently, don't want to be friends, and alienate each other and friends by the way.