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It is important to get in and out of social emotional intelligence. How do parents cultivate children with high emotional intelligence?
The cultivation of emotional intelligence is by no means something we can get through books or oral education. Children can only feel all kinds of knowledge and content in the process of contact with others. If EQ can't be used in practice, it will become an armchair strategist and a useless thing.

Therefore, if you want to cultivate your child's EQ, you must first let your child have the opportunity to contact others, and you must always tell him to respect himself and others in the process of contact. The basis of emotional intelligence is respect, and respect others while respecting yourself. At this time, the communication with others will be humble and stable. The other side will also show interest in us, and the exchanges and activities between the two sides will be more effective.

In addition, it is very important to cultivate children's emotional intelligence, and we can also pay for it, that is, let children be polite. Politeness is an important achievement of family education. If a child is impolite when interacting with others, he will remember that his emotional intelligence is extremely low and others will not have much communication with him, so he will often avoid it.

Secondly, children should learn to speak. Speaking is a matter that requires special skills. This is the art of language. When we teach children to speak, we should let them know how to speak, don't talk too much, don't talk too much. You'd better think twice about this sentence. Don't roll this sentence out without thinking, it will easily damage the relationship between two people.

Learning to be independent is also a very important aspect. If a child has no independent ability, then his so-called emotional intelligence can't be started. Only when he is independent will others respect him, admire him and think he is a great man. Otherwise, if he is only a vassal of his parents, all his actions are conditioned reflex instilled by his parents in his subconscious, which is meaningless.