1: wonderful speech by parents of PTA Dear leaders, teachers, parents and classmates, good afternoon!
Today, in the name of "excellent parents of students", I attended the commendation meeting for ideological and moral construction of minors in my hometown, and I felt very honored and proud to speak on behalf of parents of students. First of all, I would like to thank the school teachers for trusting me and giving me such a good opportunity to communicate with you here.
I have three meanings:
First, the responsibility of parents.
Parents are the children's first teachers and teachers' duty-bound assistants. Family is the second classroom for children and the extension of school education. Some of our parents don't know enough about this problem and always think that sending their children to school will be all right. This understanding is very wrong. Here I will talk about my thoughts on children's growth education.
First, pay attention to children's "health"
"Health" here refers not only to physical health, but more importantly to children's mental health. We should standardize our behavior and habits, enhance our patriotic feelings, and cultivate a national spirit of peace, diligence, courage and self-improvement. Improve children's ideological and moral quality, scientific and cultural quality and health quality.
In today's information age, it is neither feasible nor necessary to ban children from surfing the Internet. I think we should adopt the principle of "combining blocking with dredging". The so-called "blocking" means: prohibiting them from surfing the Internet in Internet cafes. It is forbidden to browse unhealthy websites full of pornography and violence; "Sparse" refers to the correct guidance, so that after they finish their homework, they can surf the Internet when time permits and help them choose some useful websites, thus unconsciously expanding their children's knowledge. Of course, it is also allowed to play computer games and relax on weekends and winter and summer vacations.
Second, create a good family learning environment for children.
When children do their homework, we try to avoid watching TV, playing computer, playing games and playing mahjong. We can look at children's lessons or help them with their lessons, which will be beneficial to communication with children. Never do anything that affects children's study. Giving children a quiet, meticulous and harmonious learning environment is necessary for their growth.
Third, treat children as friends, understand more, praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less. The distance between people is terrible, even between parents and children. I think: if we can find the right time to communicate with our children, get to know each other, put ourselves in their shoes and give them more care, then this kind of effort will definitely pay off. As a child, everyone wants to be the best, but it is impossible to be the first every time. We "don't ask for regrets, but ask for a clear conscience." We don't ask children to do great things, but we ask them to do every little thing in a down-to-earth way. You don't care about the result, but you must pay attention to the process. When a child fails in the exam, we should help him analyze the reasons and find the gap, so that he won't make similar mistakes in future exam homework, and our goal will be achieved.
Being a man is the foundation of a child. To make a child a man, teach him to be a man first. This is the most important task of family education. As parents, it is not enough to know the responsibility of educating children. More important is the educational method. Parents should communicate and discuss with parents and teachers more. Maybe my parents will say, I don't have so much time to do these things. Actually, it is not. As long as you are a conscientious person, you will have time. I think that in education, teachers are teachers, and their methods will definitely be more than ours. They will be fine. Everyone has the feeling that students listen to their teachers at school, but they don't necessarily listen to their parents when they go home. I think the problem should be the method of education. Of course, the educational environment in which children live should also have a certain relationship. Not long ago, I read an article in "Family Education in China", which contains such a passage, which I think is worth learning and thinking about. This passage is like this:
If a child lives with criticism for a long time, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives in hostility for a long time, he learns to be aggressive.
If a child lives in fear for a long time, he learns to be timid.
If a child lives with encouragement for a long time, he learns to be confident.
If a child lives in a popular environment for a long time, he will learn to love others.
If a child lives in safety for a long time, he learns to trust the people around him.
If a child lives in friendship for a long time, he will feel what a wonderful world he lives in. Imagine that our children can live in an atmosphere full of civilization, harmony, praise and friendship from an early age. They will certainly become optimistic people who are affectionate, righteous, cooperative and good at getting along with others. His life will be full of love, happiness and success.
I think this passage tells us that the educational environment in which a child lives will change his personality and development direction to a certain extent, and even determine his life.
Second, the understanding of teachers.
Parents, I think we should thank all teachers for their hard work and selfless dedication to our children and pay tribute to them. Because their work is very great and special, do you know what "teaching people" means? My understanding is that teachers should not only teach students well, impart cultural and scientific knowledge, so that their students have rich cultural knowledge, but also educate students to learn to be human, learn to be human, learn to do things, cultivate students' good ideological and moral character and noble moral sentiments, and make students have a healthy personality. At the same time, I always care about the safety of students, and I am carefully afraid that students will be hurt even a little.
So I think in the process of education, even if teachers and students sometimes make some mistakes to varying degrees, we don't have to haggle over every ounce. We should be more understanding and less complaining and blaming, because they also hate iron and don't produce steel, and they are also thinking of our children, just as no doctor will deliberately put his patients to death, and no teacher will deliberately teach his students badly or even badly.
Parents and friends, long live understanding!
Third, hope for students.
All the students attending today's commendation meeting, whether you are middle school students or primary school students, as parents' representatives, I say to you in the name of parents: children, you live in such a good environment today, so you should cherish it. Only by studying hard and being a good person can you make a difference when you grow up, and you will be worthy of your parents who raised you and the teachers who diligently nurtured you. Only in this way can you become a responsible, ambitious and capable person. Here, I hope all the students who have been commended will make persistent efforts, guard against arrogance and rashness, carry forward their achievements and create greater glories. At the same time, I hope that students can learn from the "excellent students" who are commended and rewarded today, learn from their noble ideology and good behavior habits, follow their example, learn from each other's strong points, and constantly improve themselves. Let all primary and middle school students in Zuo Jie create a brand-new self and welcome the brilliant 20xx!
Finally, I wish all the leaders, teachers, parents, friends and all the students who came to the commendation meeting a happy New Year! Everything is fine in the new year!
Thank you!
Article 2: Parents will give wonderful speeches. Hello, teachers. I am the parent of Wang Song, Class Two, Grade Six, Central Primary School.
Family is the cradle of children's growth, parents are their first teachers and lifelong teachers. Parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. It is the common wish of all parents in the world to cultivate their children into a person who is physically and mentally healthy, has an independent personality and is useful to society. I also hope that my children will be safe, happy and happy all their lives. As parents, we have the obligation to cultivate him into a person with sound personality, excellent quality and the ability to create happiness.
We can't give children unrealistic pressure. Every parent has a good wish, that is, hope that their children can become a success, but not all children can be satisfied because of individual differences. Too high expectations will make children feel that no matter how hard they try, they can't meet their parents' requirements, or even give up their efforts, lose confidence in their studies and become distrustful of themselves. Therefore, whether a child can have as many advantages as other children, as long as the child works hard, we must give recognition. In the process of educating children, I have some superficial understandings:
First, actively cooperate with school education and attach importance to the combination of family education and school education. As a parent, I resolutely obey all the arrangements of the school, usually pay attention to communicate with the teacher in time, and cooperate with the teacher to urge the children to complete the homework and learning tasks assigned by the school. At the same time, I can also actively cooperate with the head teacher to complete some class family education work, such as speaking actively at the parent-teacher meeting and communicating with teachers and other parents. I was elected as a member of the parents' committee last semester.
Second, we should communicate with children more, make friends with children, and keep abreast of their ideological trends. Want to know what children think every day? What did you do? How are you feeling? We should communicate with them more. How to communicate with children unimpeded is a matter of great concern to every family and every parent, because we often find that children will take the initiative to speak when they are happy, but when they encounter unhappy things, they will look unhappy. After all, children are still young and have no ability to understand and solve problems alone. They will be very confused when they encounter something and don't know what to do. If parents don't pay attention to their children's emotions in time, they are likely to ignore the past when their children need guidance and help. Too many times like this, it is easy for children to feel that they are not valued, resulting in loneliness and powerlessness and starting to close themselves. At home, I respect my children's feelings, treat them as close friends, and talk with them casually and naturally in an equal manner, just like talking with friends. It is easy to achieve the purpose of communicating with children. When they encounter troubles, they will take the initiative to tell me and ask for help. To advocate appreciation education now is to be good at discovering one's own bright spots. Instead of letting children become dejected and discouraged in endless criticism, it is better to find their progress, applaud them and make them confident in themselves!
Third, pay attention to the development of children's good habits. Everyone wants their children to do well in school, which is understandable, but I think it is more important to cultivate their good study habits and behavior habits, especially in the basic stage of primary school.
The first is to pay attention to children's habit of attending classes. Children, especially boys, are lively and active by nature, and their attention is not easy to concentrate. Parents and teachers need to cooperate and cultivate together. I often tell him, in fact, there is no secret to good academic performance, that is, to seize the 40 minutes of class and listen carefully, and finish the homework assigned by the teacher on time after returning home. As long as there are no unanswered questions, it means that you have mastered today's classroom knowledge. The easiest way to get children to pay attention is to ask them what they learned in class today. What is the most interesting thing? Answered several questions. If the child can't answer anything, it must be something wrong with him in class. In order to help children develop the good habit of attending classes, let them talk about which lesson of Chinese studies and what they are interested in after class. Where is mathematics easy, where is it difficult, and what is there that you don't understand? Over time, it has promoted the habit of children's listening attentively.
The second is to pay attention to children's reading habits. Someone once said: "The way to make children smart is not to make up lessons, not to increase homework, but to read and read again." I have paid attention to cultivating children's reading habits since I was a child. From exquisite children's paintings to popular science books for children, from interesting fairy tales to historical stories, there are books he reads everywhere. Sometimes I ask him to tell me the contents of the book. He can often tell me a long paragraph of the original text, which often surprises me how the child's memory is so good. In fact, this is because he is interested and focused. Because of his good reading habits, he has a wide range of knowledge, which lays a good foundation for cultivating children's self-study ability and prepares for more complicated and difficult learning in the future. The formation of good habits is a difficult process, so we should persevere. Especially when children develop some bad habits, parents must be firm and persistent in correcting them.
A hard work, a harvest, hard training of parents, in exchange for the healthy and happy growth of children! My child is an outgoing, lively, kind and intelligent child, who will be 13 years old this year. There is still a long way to go for family education in the future, and he will also face his own adolescence, rebellious period and so on. In today's complex environment, the responsibility of family education will be more arduous. But I am confident that I can work with the school to educate my children into a noble, talented and useful person to society!
thank you
Part III: Wonderful speeches by parents of parents, teachers, students and students;
Hello everyone!
Teacher, thank you for giving me this opportunity to speak. First of all, I want to thank the school leaders and teachers. The school management is in place and the teachers are of high quality. I am very relieved that my child was sent here.
I just want to take this opportunity to express my feelings and take them out of your chest! My parents' children, like mine, came into this world in a muddled and flawless way. From the beginning of dumb learning, we have repeatedly educated our children at school: what is good, what is bad, what should be done and what not to be done, and so on. However, in today's society, the gap between ideal and reality is too big, and children's young minds are often at a loss in the face of this gap. She will ask me, which is also my biggest headache. Many of the children's questions are very clear when I answer her, right is right! Wrong is wrong! Good is good! Bad is bad! But these problems are often discussed by the whole people in our adult TV programs, and then analyzed and discussed by experts!
The society is complex, and schools and classes are better. I think parents should educate their children like me, and their children have similar knowledge of the surrounding environment. However, I was wrong. The gap between ideal and reality is everywhere. Here is a small example:
I often tell my children that classmates should help each other. The child replied: Yes, I lent them pencils when my classmates asked me to take them. I said: good! Not long after, I found that the child consumed a lot of pencils. So I asked again: How do you use a pencil so fast? The child replied: many students borrowed it and didn't return it. Ask them to give it back to me. I realize that the problem is more serious, and I'm going to say directly: tell the teacher! But the words came to my mouth and I swallowed them. Will telling the teacher this kind of question give people the impression that they like to report? Saying that you don't borrow anything will cause confusion for children, which is not acceptable. It's really troublesome to say that some borrow and some don't borrow. Look at the innocent eyes of children.
Finally, I decided to give the children a loan between us adults. I prepared a notebook for my child and told him: If anyone borrows a pencil from you in the future, you should ask him to write down in the notebook: Who borrowed the pencil and the date. Put a check in the back when you return the pencil. The child accepted his life gladly. Next, I will tell my children that if someone borrows a pencil and doesn't return it, you don't have to borrow it. And I'm going to tell my children how to judge which ones are really forgotten and can be borrowed, and which ones are not in the habit of bringing pencils at all and can not be borrowed. Really tired!
I brought my notebook today. According to the records in the notebook, there have been about 40 cases of borrowing pencils in the past month, and nearly ten pencils have not been returned so far! And some have borrowed pencils for three or four days in a row, and some have not returned them!
I paid attention to the parents of the children in the record. Basically, they all came today, dressed well, and some of them came by car. I don't want to take back these pencils. Indeed, it is too cheap for them to buy a bowl of noodles, but they truly reflect the complicated relationship between children now, and they have become adult and socialized! My poor child, who can't read all the words, has to face such a complicated life. Faced with this loan relationship, I can't comment on how parents educate their children. I just hope you can take time out of your busy schedule to check your child's school tools and help him prepare well. Let our children study and play together in an equal and harmonious environment!
Thank you parents, thank you school leaders! Thank you teacher!
Article 4: wonderful speeches by parents of PTA Dear teachers and parents of students,
Hello everyone! Our children have been living and studying on campus for nearly a semester. In every student, we can find their progress, which is inseparable from the hard education and conscientious work of teachers. I am not an expert in educating children, but I am honored to get the support of teachers and everyone, because there are still many excellent students in my class. I'm just here to discuss on behalf of most parents how to cooperate with schools and teachers to do a good job in family education.
Parents must follow the laws of education and children's physical and mental development, and persuade them on the basis of their children's existing, step by step. First of all, we must master the child's learning process and know whether he has learned and how much. Every night, I will review what the teacher taught me that day with her, and it will be more difficult to strengthen and consolidate. Because children generally have a characteristic, they remember quickly and forget quickly. Only by letting them read and practice more can they keep it in mind. Chinese and English must be recited every day. For Chinese and English pronunciation, I always listen to the recording first, try to pronounce it accurately, and then read it with him until the book club.
It is also important for children to use what they have learned flexibly. Today, with the rapid development of society, scores can no longer fully represent anything. According to newspaper reports, compared with foreign students, Chinese students' book knowledge is much better, but their creativity is far less than theirs. This is to study hard and not use what you have learned flexibly. Every day, I convert the written knowledge taught by the teacher into a type, give him a comprehensive paper, let him think and answer questions by himself, and give appropriate help when necessary. I have benefited a lot from this method.
To teach children to be human, we must first cultivate their honest character of being honest with others and doing things in a down-to-earth manner. Parents are a mirror of their children. Parents, as their children's first teachers, have an inestimable influence on their children's education. Everything we say and do has a great influence. At home, I often tell her that you should try your best to help students in trouble, help teachers do what they can, be polite to others, unite with classmates and be a good student. In learning, I gave him expectations and some spiritual comfort, telling him, "I don't want to be the first, just try my best." Don't give him too much psychological pressure. At home, I put aside the identity of a mother, make good friends with him and listen to his heart. Because only by understanding children's thoughts can you know what they are thinking, so that we can guide them correctly.
Every child of ours is clever. They have their own potential, advantages and disadvantages. Every parent should fully understand their children and guide them according to their habits. Wang Di also has a big shortcoming: carelessness. I didn't notice this before. After I finished my homework, I quickly helped him to check and cultivate his dependent thinking, including doing papers. He has no habit of checking and always makes some low-level mistakes more or less. Recognizing this, I changed my method and let him check for himself. When he found the mistake, he corrected it in time and gradually saw some effects. In study and life, affirm his advantages, find and correct his shortcomings, and let him develop in an all-round way.
In short, children's progress is inseparable from the hard education of teachers and the active cooperation of parents. I hope that our children, under the education and leadership of all the teachers, will strive to become good students with all-round development in the big family of the Second Experimental Primary School.
Thank you teacher! Thank you parents!