Cui Shanhai murmured: "This kind of person is terrible!"

Zhu Shan said casually, "Yes, not only vicious but also stupid. I have lived here for over 40 years. I have acquaintances, colleagues, neighbors and villagers in the town, surrounding villages and districts. There are good people and bad people. I can feel good intentions and evil thoughts, but this extreme situation is the only example. There are few such people, but as long as they meet, they are also terrible.

There is another kind of people who are vicious, but not too stupid. They are smarter, more energetic and will do the same thing, only more hidden and elusive, just like our opponents in Shennongjia this time. Brother Cui is more difficult and valuable than the first time I killed someone. "

Ding spoke at an appropriate time: "After all, there are few such people in this world, and more are lovely people, such as our secretary Zhu. If it weren't for Secretary Zhu, I'm afraid those two innocent people would have died long ago. I'm afraid they don't know yet? "

Zhu Shan said casually, "Of course I can't tell them. I haven't told anyone before except my master and Lao Tan. "

Ding Qi went on to say, "Brother Cui, today you are Brother Zhu. You did the same thing as Brother Zhu. What do we think of Brother Zhu? You have to look at yourself. "

Cui Shanhai took a long breath and said, "Oh, I see. You are still giving me psychological counseling for a long time. "

Tan Hanchuan said with a smile: "Yes, Lao Zhu even revealed the secrets buried for many years."

At this time, Bi Xuecheng said weakly, "Zhu Shibo, I just asked what happened to that man, not what happened to him, but what you said to your master and his old man?"

Zhu Shan said casually, "I didn't tell my master that I killed someone at first, but told him that I had drunk too much at the banquet and saw some strange things. Then it happened, and I stopped it. As a result, my teacher's first sentence was-I heard that the man was dead. Did you kill him?

I remember that Master kept looking into my eyes, as if he had seen through me, and said to me-you gave him a chance, claiming that this was a chance not to kill him. On the contrary, you know very well in your heart that by doing that, you gave yourself a chance to kill him, depending on what he would choose. "

Ding Qi nodded slightly and said, "His old man really sees through it."

Zhu Shan also nodded and said with emotion, "Yes, knowing a son is like a father, and mentoring is like a father and son. His old man really saw through me. He knows me better than myself. "

Shanni murmured, "Actually, I don't need his old man's house. If I were Mr. Ding, I would see through it at a glance. What did you say Teacher Ding used to do? "

Zhuang Mengzhou glared: "Nizi, don't talk if you can't talk!"

Why do you say that? Because Zhu Shan simply wanted to kill Uncle Su, but he couldn't do it directly from his standpoint. Strictly speaking, Uncle Su is an attempted crime. Before he could break the brake pipe, Zhu Shan was idle and stopped.

Things like this, even if the police handle them, are very troublesome. It's all villagers', and things haven't really been done. I guess it's all criticism and education. But on the other hand, the existence of this kind of person and the appearance of this kind of behavior are really terrible.

Uncle Sue begged him not to tell the story, but Zhu Shan refused, claiming to make it public at the banquet. Zhu Shan idle to see the truth clearly, he is not qualified to forgive Sue uncle, also have no position to shield him. Forgiveness is also his sister's brother-in-law's business.

People like Uncle Su have not changed because of Zhu Shan's free classes. If you can get away with such a thing, you will only get worse. He can kill his heart for fear that his sister and brother-in-law will let him pay back the money, and he will also kill his heart for fear that Zhu Shan will reveal his scandal.

Publishing, letting innocent people know the truth and be on guard, is what Zhu Shan should do in his spare time. But Zhu Shanxian is also very clear that Uncle Xiaomi won't choose that. The master is right. Zhu Shan made such remarks and then turned around, just trying to kill this man! Act according to your beliefs.

But the other person, I'm afraid it's hard to handle it so neatly.

Ye Yan also whispered: "Zhu Shibo, actually I want to ask another question. When you practice Wang Qi, it seems that you haven't started or just started. Is it that bad already? What does that person want to do, can you see it in advance, even the movements and scenes? "

Zhu Shan smiled lazily. "That's a good question. I also asked master. What happened then? The master told me that my unique skill of Wang Qi has already begun. "

Ye Yan taught himself by example and asked, "Is Sir Alex Ferguson's ability to be bearish so exaggerated when he first started?"

Zhu Shan shook his head again. "No, no, no, of course not so exaggerated. Master said it was just instant telepathy. Some people are in a trance and enlightened state at the beginning of practicing occultism, as if they have met the realm of the future. This is an unspeakable feeling, just like happiness for the soul, which also shows that I have the wisdom to practice observing qi.

It was just a moment of drunkenness, but I already know that practicing gas observation can reach that level. I'm just ashamed. Until now, I still can't do it. Although I can observe people's emotions and judge many things, my Jianghu experience is definitely much more sophisticated than before. "

Meng couldn't help saying, "What happened later?"

Zhu Shan said casually, "From this day on, Master told me what it means to be a recluse. He told me that he was a recluse in the Jianghu and officially accepted me as a disciple. I asked Master if I did it right, and Master said that I did it right, and solemnly told me that no matter where I am, I must be a good person first, then a smart person, and finally an upright person. "

Meng Yuhui: "Teacher, can you elaborate?"

Zhu Shan casually pointed to Ding Qi and said, "You should ask your master. He is our teacher Ding. "

Seeing the eyes of several disciples, Ding smiled. These three questions are not easy to explain clearly. But recently he didn't have much time to give his disciples directions. Today is a rare opportunity, and everyone outside the door is so gathered together.

Ding couldn't help thinking of last year, when he had an exchange with Li Qinghua, a police officer, and talked about similar problems, but he hasn't talked with several disciples yet. It seems necessary to make up lessons now.

At that time, as a psychologist, he told the famous story of "Hindes stealing medicine". The American psychologist Kohlberg divided the moral level into three levels and six stages, and each level included two stages. (Note: See chapter 1 15 of this book for details.)

The first level is the pre-custom level, where people choose behavior through consequences, rather than moral standards and legal norms. For example, Uncle Su wanted to kill people because he didn't have to pay back the money, so he chose to kill people.

In his cognition, he can also predict other consequences of killing, so he tries his best to avoid possible punishment and chooses to destroy the brake pipe quietly. After his behavior was exposed, he attacked Zhu Shan for the same reason.

However, it should be pointed out that when people choose their actions only according to the consequences they want, the real consequences they get are often not what they want, even in a broad sense, in most cases.

The second level is a custom level. People choose behavior according to rational standards and legal norms, which includes two stages: passive compliance and active maintenance.

The third layer is the post-customization layer. Personal morality transcends social moral standards and legal norms, and can recognize the value orientation, social public interests and rights represented by these moral standards and social norms, and even know its logical source and whether it is reasonable under what circumstances.

This kind of person is very clear about what he is doing and what the value conflict in society is, so he makes a choice, which is also the only way to realize himself.

These divisions are only put forward from the perspective of developmental psychology, and Ding Qi only made a brief introduction. He also needs to explain the three sentences that Zhu Shan said from another angle: Be a good person first, then a smart person, so as to be an upright person.

How to define a good man is difficult and simple, but it is not complicated in Zhu Shan's idle story. Zhu Shan's leisure is a good man, a wise man and an upright man.

When people learn to think, they must first have the simplest understanding of kindness, have a normal heart and have empathy. Many abnormal criminals often have this deficiency in understanding.

For example, people can kill people at will, so everyone can be killed. Do people themselves want to be killed? Of course not! So don't kill people at will, and then stop and punish the random killing. This is the simplest empathy, the inevitable result of wisdom reflection, the source of moral standards and legal norms, and the core value of all moral principles.

It is also the simplest definition of a good man, an abstract standard. Everyone makes mistakes, but we can define ourselves in a certain period of time and a certain behavior according to it.

So the so-called smart person is able to see the essence, not only the essence of moral standards and legal norms, but also the essence of value conflicts contained in various behaviors, and know what others are doing, what they should do and what they can do. Smart people are also an abstract standard, because people are sometimes inevitably confused.

Zhu Shan is a good man. He killed Uncle Su because of his purest kindness, so he made a choice in the value conflict.

If Zhu Shan found this kind of thing, didn't stop it, didn't try to punish Uncle Su, it shows that he either lacks conscience or courage. Zhu Shan gave up drinking on the spot at leisure, and was not afraid to put himself in danger. It was based on his confidence in his skill and his clear judgment on Uncle Su's motivation, behavior and his situation.

But in another case, if Zhu Shan is an ordinary person who can't do kung fu, I'm afraid he is no match for a thug with pliers. What should he do? In fact, Zhu Shan can also take another approach, not stop drinking on the spot, but remind Uncle Su's sister and brother-in-law at the banquet to tell everyone about it.

The value choices of these two practices are the same, but they are adopted in different ways. If you can take a more appropriate way according to the actual situation, you are a smart person.

Forgiveness and kindness are also virtues, but people often misunderstand them. The key depends on what kind of values our actions maintain. Uncle Sue tried to get Zhu Shan's forgiveness, but Zhu Shan was not qualified to forgive him.

Only the victim is qualified to forgive the perpetrator, and is also qualified to choose not to forgive. Whether people are forgiven or not, they have to bear the consequences for their words and deeds.

In fact, Zhu Shan has given the greatest goodwill. He stopped Uncle Su's behavior, not only saved Uncle Su's sister and brother-in-law, but actually saved Uncle Su himself. Unfortunately, Uncle Su didn't realize this at all and continued to make vicious choices.

It would be unkind if Zhu Shan let Uncle Su get away with his behavior, because he made another choice in the value conflict.

Many people think they have a conscience in their hearts, but their actual behavior has made another choice. They not only failed to protect their conscience, but also excused themselves with kindness or forgiveness, which is just the opposite of true conscience. The choice made in the value conflict reflects what kind of person he or she is.

So what is an upright person? Many people also have some misunderstandings about honesty. Being outspoken is not honesty, and being opinionated is not honesty. The so-called knife mouth and tofu heart is dishonesty. There is a sentence in the Book of Changes that says very thoroughly: "Respect is straightforward, and righteousness is outside."

Integrity is not superficial honesty and frankness, but a correct mind first. It is honest and frank who can make a choice that does not violate his conscience in the value conflict. Honest people need to think more. For Zhu Shan to stop Uncle Su, he may want to do something, but he won't want to do it.

There is a saying that makes people unpredictable. In fact, from a psychological point of view, cognitive patterns and behavioral patterns can be analyzed. On this basis, at least from a statistical point of view, it can be measured and predicted. Therefore, when Shennongjia was ambushed, Ding Qi was angry but not surprised. How can it be ready if it has not been measured?

Ding didn't study hard, but talked leisurely, feeling as if he had returned to the classroom of that year. Then he asked a very interesting and old but always unavoidable question-who am I?

After someone makes some words and deeds, they often say, "I am such a person!" " "In fact, what kind of person you are is not important. What really matters is, why am I me?

When we say that Zhang San and Li Si are different, what we really mean is that under certain circumstances, Zhang San and Li Si will make different choices and will inevitably make different choices. This represents who you are and why I am me. This is the meaning of "I" and the source of the concept of existence.

If the world is the same face or the same cauldron, what is the real difference? Why should I be me? The external skill secret method of butyl cultivation has reached the peak of furnace tripod. If you want to go further, you need to practice this, because the internal speculative system of the outer secret law lies in pointing to the mind.

Ding Qi also mentioned the ten rules of outdoor doors (see chapter 127 of this book for details). The door rules were formulated by Ding Qi, unanimously recognized by all elders except the founder, representing Ding Qi's values and conforming to everyone's choices. When you see it, you will know what kind of person Ding Qi is and what kind of person he is outside the cube.

Disciples who join the Fangwaimen now should not only abide by and maintain it, but also understand why there are such rules. But for Ding Qi, he doesn't need to deliberately think about the content of the rules, which is the necessity of his words and deeds.

Ding talked for almost forty-five minutes, which happened to be the time for a class. Finally, he said, "Brother Cui just sounded the sigh of the ancients. People are animals, and animals are people. " Xiao, do you understand? "

With so many people sitting around, his last question was actually a sparrow. Xiaoxiao stood on Xian Hao's shoulder and nodded seriously. Everyone laughed.

Seeing several young apprentices nodding their heads and showing a thoughtful look, Zhuang Mengzhou smiled and said, "I understand, but I may not really understand." In this case, let me ask a little question and you children will answer it. "

Bi Xuecheng said first: "Mr. Zhuang, you ask!"

Zhuang Mengzhou: "If you are a girl and live in a girl's dormitory, there is also a female classmate in your dormitory, who is beautiful, gentle, capable and kind ..."

Bi Xuecheng: "What do you mean, just to compare with me?"

Shangni: "Xiaobi, don't interrupt. Listen to Teacher Zhuang."

Zhuang Mengzhou said unhurriedly: "If there is another boy in your school who likes this girl and is pursuing this girl, but this girl doesn't like him and has seriously rejected this boy.

One day, when you were all in the dormitory, the boy came again, standing downstairs with a handful of roses in his hand, and pointing a knife at himself, claiming that if the girl didn't accept it, he would die there on the spot ... "

Bi Xuecheng: "But I am not a girl, and I have never encountered such a thing."

Ding Qi: "Suppose you are, suppose you meet!" "

Zhuang Mengzhou: "The problem is very simple. You are standing next to that girl. That girl is very flustered. How would you persuade her, or what would you do? " Teacher Ding said so much just now. If you really understand, then give an answer. "