In this purely educational film, my son Ma Fei was scolded by the teacher as a "missing string" when he was a child. Because his father was unjustly imprisoned, he was always bullied by his classmates. After entering middle school, Ma Fei is still the "key care" object of the school, addicted to martial arts, with poor grades and disobedience. His mother Xinyu spent a lot of money to send him to the best local middle school, but when Ma Fei got into trouble again, both his mother and the school director thought that "the child was hopeless". The turning point came when his father Ma Haowen returned from prison. He praised his son as the cleverest child in the world and encouraged him to keep thinking and never admit defeat. In the end, Ma Fei not only successfully entered the top ten of the grade, but also became an astronaut as he wished.
Although it is called "cram school", the film does not really discuss the cram school in real life, but focuses on children's growth and family education, exam-oriented education and quality education, and the sparks that collide with each other. /kloc-the reality of 0/47 minutes makes us have to think, where do the growing troubles and educational anxiety come from? When we are eager to push our children into cram schools, what should we cram?
Why do parents and teachers have different opinions on the same child?
A few days ago, Liu Zhao just got the college admission notice. Although she was not admitted to a top university, she was very satisfied with her grades. From senior one to senior three, she experienced a process from peak to trough and then rebounded. In the three years of junior high school, she was always in the top of her grade, but when she arrived at the provincial key high school, her grades dropped rapidly, and she once ranked first in the bottom of the class. At the bottom, she was glad that she had a mother who understood her and always supported her. "Daughter, you can do it." "The countdown is good, and there is room for improvement." Looking back now, my mother's encouragement really became a powerful driving force for her bottoming out and finally pushed her to this famous university.
● Expert perspective
Lu Yongjian: Let me talk about two concepts of family education: unshirkable parental responsibility and optional family supply. The unshirkable parental responsibility refers to the responsibilities that parents should bear, including the basic economic responsibility, emotional companionship, safety protection and educational opportunities for the healthy growth of minors. The choice of family supply means that there are many choices, such as learning musical instruments, attending various cram schools, entering famous schools, attending summer camps abroad, studying abroad and so on. But whether we should choose is based on three restrictions: first, we must not hinder the performance of parents' basic duties. Second, parents' financial ability and energy limit should not be exceeded. Third, it cannot affect children's rest and entertainment time.
As for social education, what needs to be supplemented most is to strengthen the value orientation. Family education, school education and social education, among which the internal structure of social education is the most loose, and it is the easiest to lose effective value orientation and guidance. This is an extremely complicated problem, which requires the joint efforts of the whole society to effectively integrate forces and promote the solution.
● Parents' voices
Lang Mai: The "theater effect" makes people have to join the torrent of various cram schools. In China, quality education has been talked about for many years. It cannot be denied that some high-quality schools have done a good job in quality education. However, one thing is that whether they engage in quality education or not, they must do a good job in the enrollment rate, and grades are king, which is why cram schools are so popular. In fact, for children, the most important thing for tutoring is sports and morality. In terms of knowledge, as long as they really study according to the outline, it's a pity that everyone is studying beyond the outline, wants to enter a prestigious school and want to be a winner, so they can only compete fiercely.