The truth that must be known

1, if you have something to say, learn to communicate with each other.

The closer we get to people, the less we can talk. Many couples who love each other as always are not without contradictions and quarrels in their lives. When you find a problem, sit down and have a good talk and have a heart-to-heart talk with each other. Husband and wife, including husband and wife, are most afraid of the cold war and do not talk to each other. In fact, they would rather argue fiercely than use cold violence.

2. Understand and respect each other and their differences.

There are no two identical leaves in this world, and there are no people with identical personalities. Even people who are very close, there are things you can't understand. If you want to keep a certain freshness in your feelings, you must first learn to respect and understand each other's differences with yourself.

3. Give each other space and give yourself space.

Couples who often travel to various parties or parties are often ignored. Those who really have the potential to last forever are those who are used to being alone. They don't need to find a sense of security in the interpersonal network. In the world of two people, they also have a good time.

4. Cultivate common interests.

Two people should cultivate some common hobbies together, so that communication will be smoother. The more opportunities couples have to have fun together, the stronger their happiness and the stronger their feelings. When two people do something together, they will feel happier than when they do it alone.

5, life is dull, but also needs a sense of ritual.

Ritual sense is the secret weapon to keep emotional freshness. Every relationship will tend to be dull, and no matter how much enthusiasm and passion will fade. A sense of ceremony is to remind myself that I can learn to make the most lovely cake for you, even in an ordinary meal.

6. Make yourself a better person.

If you want to be attractive, you must constantly improve yourself. Only by constantly improving yourself can we keep as attractive as possible to him. When the other party is making progress, you should catch up. Make yourself excellent, and you can get more happiness in this relationship.

Specific measures

1. Never brush your mobile phone in front of him. If a couple brushes their mobile phones separately after work every day, their relationship will become more and more indifferent unless something happens. It is suggested to follow the drama/watch movies/play games together. If you like different programs, don't forget to chat with each other from time to time.

2, often seriously discuss each other's work troubles. Men have many responsibilities, so they are the animals that need to be understood most. If you don't want to give the "confidante" a chance to take root, you need to be the person who knows him best. Let him talk about his unhappiness and release the pressure of life. You should always be his spiritual pillar, and your feelings will be more encrypted and inseparable.

Every day, kisses and hugs. The most beautiful marriage should be a lifetime of love, and the feelings will last forever. Don't let love become a calm family relationship, don't let romantic factors fade away, even if life is full of trivial matters, don't forget kisses and hugs.

4. Even if you live under the same roof, you should send each other a WeChat or make a phone call after work. In fact, men are also eager for their wives to take the initiative to care about him or greet him. Even if you have been married for a long time, you need to express your concern appropriately.

5 always treat each other as children who have not grown up. No matter how long you are together, no matter how old you are, don't erase each other's childish side, which is precious and perhaps his parents have never seen it. The childish side is often only shown in the person who relies on and trusts the most, which shows that you are the person who can relax him the most.

6. Try to make up on the day of each quarrel and avoid overnight. Cold violence is the most hurtful way! Therefore, it is best to directly point out where the wrong party did not do well and give the wrong party an apology. Afterwards, we also need to calm down and reflect on our mistakes.

7. After getting married for a long time, don't forget to hold hands and keep the initial heart of love! Don't be too lazy to hold hands or shy to travel just because you are an old married couple. Holding hands can express the infinite yearning for a better life in the future. 10 means fastening, interlocking fingers and heart to heart, which is the best state of marriage. Being able to keep this state until the end is the most precious.

8. To express love, a woman needs the other half to express love clearly, and needs the other party to confirm their feelings with a sentence of "I love you". If there is no such expression of love for a long time, women will feel insecure. Therefore, love should be said.

9. Blow each other rainbow farts. Love is a magical emotion. Although you are just an ordinary person and can't find you in the crowd, in my eyes, you are the most special and beautiful existence. Happiness lies in mutual appreciation, so rainbow fart is indispensable.

10, make a foodie together. 20 15 an interesting new study in the United States found that eating food is not easy to cheat and is more loyal to your partner. It turns out that people who can control their appetite are more likely to give their phone numbers to strangers, while those who succumb to good food are less likely to cheat, and those who want to eat are more likely to maintain a stable relationship.

1 1. If there is any problem, fix it immediately and communicate sincerely and calmly. A reporter asked an old couple the secret of their 65-year marriage. The old woman said that when they were born, they were taught that things should be repaired and not thrown away. Communicate first and don't sulk; Say sorry first, not "but" first; Whenever there is disagreement, calm down the conversation first, instead of jumping directly to "Why do you always do this?"

12, express yourself. It's hard for the two of us who can't tell each other. Where we hide, it will become a bad feeling for each other and a fuse of war. Therefore, sincerity and frankness are the foundation and bottom line of all relationships, and they can also win the understanding and trust of their partners.

13, can enjoy each other's company while maintaining independent personality. Maintain a certain degree of independence, greed is the enemy of persistent desire. Two people give each other some space and independence, and let him or her do what he or she is good at, which helps to produce "the beauty of distance" and makes it easier to find each other's "bright spot".

14, take every special day seriously. On special anniversaries and festivals, release your appreciation, heart and love for him (her) to the fullest! Remember his (her) preferences and recent needs, and it is not difficult to choose a gift. Arrange the scene well, have a simple dinner, and show him (her) your mind with exquisite documents.

15, try some exciting projects together. Bungee jumping, roller coaster, free fall. When the body loses its gravity, the lover around you will often give you great strength and make you cherish each other more. Couples who are afraid of heights can also try some VR effect stimulation projects.

16, go to a completely strange place together. After coming to a strange place, we are left with each other and have the opportunity to unlock new skills and experiences together. Being in a strange environment can often inspire unexpected and interesting ideas and bring a different journey.