The answer I gave him was: Of course! Sometimes whether he cheats or not is out of proportion to whether he loves you or not.

There must be some doubts when you see this, right? Why bother others when you clearly love me? If he is attracted to others, it means that he doesn't like me anymore.

It is normal to have this idea, but it is usually a couple who are still in love.

Of course, he loves you very much. Because he loves you, he chose a marriage that bound him all his life and chose to date, meet, eat and sleep with the same person every day.

At this time, aesthetic fatigue becomes the default psychological state. There is no longer love at first sight, and you are no longer beautiful in all aspects. Even if you change a new dress, he thinks it is the same style and there is nothing to see.

But does this prove that he doesn't love you? No, it's just that life has erased the passion of the past, and family ties have diluted the love of the past. My love for you is no longer a vigorous pledge of eternal love; It is no longer a concern that holds you in the palm of your hand. It has become a habit: I feel nothing when you are here, and I feel as if I have lost a part of my pillar when you are not here.

Your presence won't feel anything in his usual life, so he won't even know whether he loves you or not, so your presence won't affect his attraction to other enthusiastic and fresh people.

They will seek excitement because of all kinds of trivial things in life, refuse to come because they want to prove their charm, and can't stop the temptation because they are not focused ... All kinds of reasons will be the reasons and excuses for their derailment. They feel that it is only a temporary vent or a temporary impulse, which will not affect the original family; They will also be lucky enough to think that they can get away perfectly afterwards. On the other hand, they can have such a psychology, which shows that the status of the family is still higher than that of the third party, otherwise they will not sneak around.

However, where in the world is there such an ideal thing? The derailed cat always has all kinds of flaws waiting for the owner of the family to expose. After being exposed, you are condescending, begging for forgiveness, giving the Lord all kinds of compensation, and breaking up with a third party.

When he begged for forgiveness, that's when he found out that he still loved you. However, after a long time, this kind of love has penetrated into the blood, imperceptibly, and I mistakenly think that I don't love it. But when they really feel that they are going to lose, that kind of heartache and fear will come back to their hearts. Therefore, no matter how humble and shameless they are, they will beg the forgiveness of the Lord.

His cheating doesn't mean he doesn't love you, doesn't mean he doesn't care about this family, but he doesn't have enough determination and determination to refuse the temptation. So, don't trust him 100% just because he loves you. Sometimes there are many doubts in order to better protect their feelings.

Thanks for the platform recommendation! Answer about "Really love a person really won't cheat?" Topic: I think nothing in the world is absolute, and everything will be derailed; Because of what? First, it depends on what kind of love it is. Is it first love? Are you husband and wife? Is it a lover? There is no boundary, and everyone says (love). what is love ? There is no clear answer; (Love) will change, but it is not static. People often say: Dongshan looks at the height of the western hills, and the daughter-in-law looks at others well. How do you explain this? Second, (love) should be divided into age groups. People who have just fallen in love feel so beautiful when they are in love. If they don't see each other for a day like Sanqiu, they will get married. After seven years of itching, they lost their original selves after the tempering of life.

(love), everyone is the same; After having children, coupled with trivial matters of life, contradictions continue to arise, and the original (love) is slowly erased and diluted; Once you have the temptation of the outside world, you still can't stand it, and you will cheat. When people reach middle age, in order to survive, we should strive to make money to buy a house and a car for our children to go to school and so on. And we have lost our enthusiasm. In order to work or career, we should raise all the external environment, step into the world of mortals, and our feet will inevitably get wet. People often say: always standing by the river, you get wet shoes. That's the truth. Third, where should (love) be said? For example, the long-term separation of husband and wife means re-love, and for objective reasons, because of the physical drive, it is inevitable to cheat; For example, most of the long-term migrant workers are men and can only go home once a year. It is the most difficult to restrain your desires, and it is inevitable to be derailed by some temptations. On the contrary, women's life at home is very difficult, and maybe they will cheat; Look at the film and television actors. Singers' cheating and divorce incidents emerge one after another. Have they never really loved each other before? They can't stand the temptation, or the change of marriage concept makes (love) dirty; Therefore, without absolute loyalty, (love) is meaningful. There is not only one kind of love (sex), but also other loves in it. Moreover, there are many forms, including one-night stand, prostitution, extramarital affairs, short-term behavior and long-term behavior. Which kind of infidelity is more harmful to (true love)? Just because of people, I don't know. ...

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I shouldn't answer this question because I know I can't answer it well. The day before yesterday, I turned back to my emotions from the field of agriculture, rural areas and farmers, so I had to bite the bullet and say it.

I think that if you really love someone, I mean, if you love someone wholeheartedly, people will not cheat.

If you get married for a long time, many people will say that affection is greater than love at this time, and you are in a period of numbness in love. So what is love? Is it limited to passion? Or will the consistency of the three views make the sense of maturity stronger?

I got married very early, and I married myself the same month I graduated from college. For a long time, most people, both men and women, I think they will encounter bright and dark temptations. It's nothing, it shows that you have luster and attractive ability. As long as you know in your heart that you only love one person, one can't live without you and his family, you will know your position in all relationships. You will continue to be wonderful, continue to care for the beauty in your heart, and will not make any excuses for cheating. Don't give curiosity any chance.

Many people learn responsibility, understanding and maturity in marriage. I hope that each of us can take care of our marriage step by step in a mature and steady way, and don't let a momentary curiosity disturb a pool of leisure, which will hurt anyone. Stay away from the temptation of cheating, and you will be more radiant and radiant.

Really love a person really won't cheat?

This question is really a torture of human nature. If you really fall in love, you have to cheat. Is this love sincere? Obviously unconvincing, there is reason to suspect that this person's gene editing is wrong. We can find from all kinds of cases that people who make mistakes in gene editing can have all kinds of inhuman things, which is not only the reason of acquired education, but also the reason of human nature. We have reason to believe that gene reprogramming is the greatest science and technology in human history. I hope to get to this point, which will be the peak of science and technology and the end of mankind. Why did we show up? This is the demand of the evolution of the universe. Really falling in love, cheating, and imperfect genetic evolution. Anyone with perfect genetic evolution is a beautiful woman, the most attractive and beloved person.

It is glorious to strive to be a beautiful woman.

Really love a person really won't cheat? The answer is yes. First of all, love is selfish. Think carefully about what supports the passionate love between two people. Just each other's original freshness, intimacy, the combination of spirit and flesh. Love is actually desire. Love without desire is not love, but appreciation.

Love is very restrained to each other, and restraint will lead to demands. Once one party fails to meet the requirements and desires of the other party, then feelings will change. After a long time, the novelty will gradually fade, and the attraction to each other will not be as strong as it was at the beginning. Then once one party meets something new that makes him feel fresh, it will happen naturally, and someone will scold the beast! Beast? No, it's human nature.

Plato famously said that human nature tends to be greedy, selfish, escape from pain and pursue happiness for no reason. Michael Chen in ipartment: "The good man is me and I am Ceng Xiaoxian". The mantra of good people is deeply rooted in people's hearts. The long-distance love with his wife, from school uniform to wedding dress, was enviable, but they divorced soon after they got married, because Michael Chen cheated in marriage. Later, some people said that the two had cheated in marriage, and some people said that they had agreed to divorce. It seems that the initial oath when falling in love is just an oath.

Of course, there is no absolute thing in the world, and there is love that will not be derailed, and that is faith.

Amal Jack is an ascetic monk in India. In order to practice, he decided to raise his right hand at 1973. He kept this posture all the time, and completely broke away from the thought of "fame" in his heart. This process lasted for 40 years.

No one knows how he did it, but now his right arm has been fixed on his shoulder and he has lost consciousness, so he can't put it down again.

I have to say, Amar Jack proved how powerful faith can be, but this belief is too extreme. Honesty must promote life and even the surrounding environment. Amal Jack said that we can't judge whether our beliefs are right or wrong. After all, only believers can feel it.

There are also people who will not cheat, but this is often not based on the so-called lofty moral sense, but on fear.

Such people are not without desires, but will restrain their desires, because they will remind themselves that a temporary indulgence will cost them too much.

"True love" is not a necessary condition for not cheating, and this strong emotion of "true love" has a shelf life in essence.

Cherish it,

However, people often forget this word and always take love for granted, squander, consume and even test it.

People with this mentality will kill a relationship without cheating their partners.

Really love a person really won't cheat?

The answer is of course no.

I remember that when Shen Congwen chased Zhang Zhaohe, he wrote a love letter every day, which was a profound sermon.

But not long after the marriage, Mr. Shen Congwen cheated.

Literati are romantics. At the moment when romantic love meets daily necessities and takes root, marriage is the grave of love.

There are no absolutists in the world, and love is just a verbal promise.

Yes, if you really love someone, you won't cheat. Because of love, so reluctant! Cheating will bring you temporary madness and excitement, but the damage that comes with it is immeasurable.

Personally, I think the word "love" is noble and sacred. True love is unswerving and can stand the test of any temptation and time. Therefore, people who really love each other will not and should not cheat, otherwise, there will really be no love in this world, and what will last forever, the seas run dry and the rocks crumble, for life. At best, it's just a lie when you like or cheat each other's feelings for a while. Since we can't be consistent, it's really insulting to talk about love, don't you think?

No, true love will never cheat, and cheating is not true love.

Love a person, from the heart, from the heart, devote yourself wholeheartedly, be loyal to each other and never give up.

Love is to pay, but also to enjoy, to enjoy the happiness of loving others, to worry about the troubles of loving others, to breathe together and to share our destiny.

If you are duplicitous, you will talk sweet words and attract butterflies to do bad things behind your back. When you deceive yourself, enjoy yourself and hurt someone who loves you wholeheartedly, there is no true love.