Reflections on the Education of Love
The topic "Education of Love" made me think. With this in mind, I trudged with an Italian primary school student to find an unknown answer.
The Education of Love tells the story of a little boy named Amrico's growth in the form of a diary, and records what he saw and heard in school, family and society in a year. The lines between the lines are full of sincere love for the motherland, parents, teachers and friends, and have touching power. The children in the article show more shining virtues, which is exactly what the novel praises. The novel records the education and enlightenment of the elders to their children. Attached to the diary are the painstaking teaching articles they wrote in the name of the second person. This novel has accompanied generations of children to grow up in the long years. It can be said that this book will never be out of date. It molds people with love, guides us to keep an enterprising, kind and sincere heart, loves the motherland, loves the people and sympathizes with all the misfortunes and sufferings of the people. As soon as this book was published, it was valued and welcomed by the educational circles. It can be said that it transcends any kind of pedagogy or introduction to pedagogy. Of course, Mr. Xia's admiration is one reason, and there is another more important reason. At that time, many teachers demanded to break the shackles of feudalism, and this novel created a model for them to follow-of course, it actually embodied the ideals of petty-bourgeois intellectuals.
Love, like air, is always ignored by us every day because it is invisible. In fact, its meaning has been integrated into life. Just like the love of parents, we just put a new book that children love to read on the shelf. When we cough, the pills are in front of us. We don't forget to see the children before going to bed, which is the deep love we need to embrace with open arms. When we are in trouble, no one supports us, but our parents are still with us. Don't forget to tell you at night: go to bed early. After reading the story of Amway, I realized that all parents in the world love their children deeply. Amway bought a diary that they read and wrote with their parents, and now many students still hang small locks on it. The simplest things are also the most easily overlooked, just like the deep love between parents and children in this broad love, many people can't feel it.
If love is a journey, some people may disagree. But love is an endless and pleasant journey. Just like life, if you treat life as a prison sentence, people will do heavy work in order to get out of prison one day. Then such a life will inevitably make people feel very painful and tired. On the contrary, if you regard life as a trip, it will be very relaxed, and every day will be enriched by understanding and learning new things. So, you just want to go on, and even be enthusiastic, no matter how long it will last. At this point, this feeling has been sublimated into a kind of love, a kind of love for life. I read Education of Love and entered Amway.
If love is a rushing blood and a jumping soul, then I think it is a noble love for the country. It sounds like a slogan, but as a person with conscience, this kind of love should be firmly implanted in our hearts. When reading the touching scene of the Italian people blowing off their legs and soaking their homes for their country, I can't help thinking that our motherland is also soaked with the blood of Chinese sons and daughters. This is also for our country. I can also abandon everything and fight together. I am deeply impressed by this supreme state of love. I don't need to throw my head for my motherland, but our motherland still needs a lot of things. Love is great because it is not only for individuals, but also for the dignity and emotion of the whole nation.
In a blink of an eye, we have left the era of education for love for a long time, but "love", as a way of education, should never be far away from us, especially those workers on the education front. We should love each of our students wholeheartedly, care about their growth, rejoice in their progress, nourish children's young hearts with the spring of love, and let them grow up freely and healthily.
In the education of love, love is compared to many things, which is true and not just these. I don't think there is a clear answer to "what is love", but I have finished thinking about love-love is a vast, infinite and great force, which is indispensable in education.
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Reflections on the Education of Love
I accidentally got the book "Education of Love". Because it became my own book, I was not in a hurry to read it. Instead, I put it aside and let it go up in smoke. Until one day I opened it, I felt I had to finish reading it.
This book is based on the diary kept by a little boy Amrico in ten months of a school year, which constitutes the main content of this work. It seems that what attracts me is not how high its literary value is, but the almost perfect love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends and the love of hometown reflected in the ordinary and delicate brushwork ... This loving novel contains that kind of profound and rich emotional power.
what is love ? Just like air, it is around us every day, but it is often overlooked because it is invisible. But we can't live without it, and its meaning has been integrated into our lives. Facing our education, love should be the source of educational strength and the foundation of educational success. When Mr. Xia Gaizun translated Education of Love, he said: "Education without emotion and love is like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond. Without love, there is no education." In the education of love, love is compared to many things, which is true, not just these. I don't think there is a clear answer to "what is love", but I know that "love" is infinite. Friendly conversations between classmates, teachers' encouragement to students, and parents' meticulous care for their children.
Through Amway's description, I learned what kind of teacher love makes students feel the warmest and regards students as teachers of their loved ones. When Amway's husband said, "I have no other relatives in this world except you, and I have no lovely people except you!" You are my sons, I love you, please be happy with me! I don't want to punish any of you, please show your sincerity! Please make your class a family and give me comfort and honor! " All the students were persuaded by teacher Wang's words. Although I can't be so honest with this gentleman, I wonder if I treat all students equally. Two students made mistakes at the same time. Sometimes, I will judge by intuition, and then criticize the poor student mercilessly in my heart. I don't know that the wronged students are crying secretly. Maybe in their eyes, I am not a good teacher anymore. Tolerance and forbearance. "As long as you have the courage to admit your mistakes, I will never blame you", which is another inspiration from Amway gentlemen. Whether we praise or criticize students, our purpose is to educate students. As long as the goal is achieved, why should we care if the students are punished?
Parents often drag their disobedient children and generously say to the teacher, "If he (she) is disobedient, you can fight hard." With the development of 2 1 century, I can only understand this as a white lie. Teachers are not fit to act as perpetrators of violence. Facing a group of students with different qualities, what we need is enough energy to fight a protracted war. I'm afraid that a long talk between teachers and students will be a long talk for some students. Therefore, it is more effective to establish a road of "love, will and constancy" between teachers and students. The book inspired me to be a gentle and strict teacher and to be strict with our students in a loving language.
Love is a feeling, a belief and a pursuit, but ... it is impossible to describe the definition of love in accurate language, but I know that those who love and give love must have a full life without regrets. Similarly, our love for students should not be condescending and approachable, but heartfelt love, which is both meticulous and involuntary. Students will treat us not only as teachers, but also as friends, brothers and parents. Without emotion, all education is impossible. Of course, emotion cannot replace education, but education must be full of emotion. In a word, love education is a good medicine to treat mental trauma and the key to open students' hearts. Loved people know how to love. Love gives people strength, warmth and beautiful hearts and emotions. Let children have love in their hearts, and many problems are possible.
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This summer vacation, I finally finished reading this thick love education. My first feeling after reading it is love. Based on the diary of a little boy, Amrico, this book reveals the relationship between school and family, between teachers and students, and between parents and siblings in daily life.
After reading this book in one breath, although I didn't shed tears, I have already admitted that it is a book that washes my soul. It seems that what attracts me is not how high its literary value is, but the almost perfect love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends and the love of the country reflected in the ordinary and delicate brushwork ... This novel full of love is really great.
The notes of Enrico, a third-grade primary school student, for one academic year constitute the main content of this work, interspersed with a beautiful and true "monthly story" that the teacher tells the students every month. A pupil's world is vividly presented to us. Through ordinary and subtle things, the author describes the love between teachers and students, the love between father and son, and the friendship between friends, showing the kindness and purity of human nature and eulogizing the love for the motherland. Love social spirit. The whole work does not deliberately pay attention to rhetoric and structure, and the language is extremely concise and fluent. However, because it is full of the writer's deep concern for the people struggling in the middle and lower classes of society, it warmly praises the innocent hearts of ordinary people, because it is full of broad humanitarian spirit and warm human beauty, and the works see truth in the details and contain sublimity in the ordinary; After reading the whole book, the emotional waves that have been stirring for a long time are hard to calm down. Perhaps it can be said that the author opened people's hearts with the key of love.
When reading this book, we can think about some things slowly, so that we can deeply understand the education of love. Love is an eternal topic and the most basic emotion of human beings, and in education, love is the soul and life of education. Education of love for children is the key and basic requirement of education. Love needs education, and education also needs love.
As the leader of the teacher-student relationship, teachers need to "intentionally" discover, discover and create "sentient" situations, infect and cultivate students' hearts with more rational love than parents and brothers, develop students' moral feelings, and form perfect personality and noble sentiments.
One day after school, I said "goodbye" to a student who seldom talked to the teacher. He blushed. Since then, he even bypassed several classmates to say hello to me.
On a student's birthday, I sent a card with an encouraging word on it. For his mother, what I sent became his motto.
There is no teacher who is deeply loved by students who has not succeeded with his tenacious perseverance and patient efforts. Faced with students with uneven quality, it is impossible to transform a good student without preparation for a protracted war, confidence in never giving up, and practice under the guidance of theory. We often talk with students enthusiastically and spend more time ignoring them. We always want students to get excellent grades and make continuous progress, but we know nothing about their psychology and their pain. Establishing a good and harmonious new relationship between teachers and students has become the need of the times and the necessity of educational development. The education of "love, will and constancy" is an important way to achieve this goal.
Only those who are loved know how to love others. Love gives people strength, warmth, beautiful heart and emotion. Let children have love in their hearts, and many problems may be solved in the warm current of love. This is the inspiration from The Education of Love.
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Reflections on the Education of Love
Tagore once said, "Love is an eternal beacon. It watched the storm, but was indifferent. Love is a full life, just like a full glass of wine. " The Education of Love was published in the 1980s. You can say that I am about the same age. Today, when I hold it in my hand and savor it carefully, I am deeply moved by countless stories in the book.
This is a short book and a masterpiece. Translation and introduction of Italian literature in China. The education of love actually consists of two parts, namely, the education of love and the education of continuous love. The former was translated by Mr. Gaizun according to the Japanese translation, and the latter was written by Amicus's friend, also based on San Pu's translation, which is an appropriate supplement to the former.
Mr. Xia said, "I only got the Japanese translation of this book four years ago. I remember reading for three days and nights with tears. Even later, when I was translating or reading casually, I felt deeply stimulated and my eyes were moist. "
When reading Education of Love, I am always moved by the ordinary deeds of ordinary people in the book. Stories related to children, such as the children sweeping the smoke window, the squad leader, the poor, vanity, gratitude, jealousy, quarrel and farewell, praise the innocent feelings that children should have, and at the same time, the book also shows the innocent feelings from family and school.
In our primary and secondary education, the word "education of love" is easier said than done! In the overall understanding of education, school education, as a complete educational process, has never been and cannot be aimed at children. It first considers the existence of various contradictions in the real society and the development of society itself, and it is a question of what kind of people children grow up from generation to generation. At this point, education is not only free, but also compulsory. Once the form of collective teaching is established, the so-called "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" can only be a goal that needs continuous efforts.
Love, like air, is full of life and people's hearts, and its meaning has been integrated into life. Love is great because it is not only for individuals, but also for the dignity and emotion of the whole nation. The book "Education of Love" describes a group of young people who are full of energy, actively demanding progress and as bright as the sun. Their situation is different. Some families are poor, some are disabled and some are bathed in happiness. Each of them is different from birth to personality, but they all have one thing in common-their love for Italy and their sincere feelings for their relatives and friends. What can't be ignored here is the short story of "spiritual speech" that the teacher reads to these teenagers every month. These short stories not only edify the characters in the book, but also shock me by the strong feelings reflected in them, which can't help but make me think about the education work of the head teacher. In fact, we can also squeeze out a fixed time to let children listen to these "love stories" more, feel and experience love, and learn to give love. I think, in the face of our education, love should be the source of educational strength and the foundation of educational success. Mr Xia Gaizun once said in his translation of The Education of Love: "An education without emotion and love is like a pond without water. Without water, there is no pond, without love, there is no education. " Love is an endless journey. It will be easy to watch while walking along the way. Every day will be enriched by understanding and learning new things. So, I want to go on and even devote myself to it, no matter how long it will last. At this point, this feeling has been sublimated into a kind of love, a kind of love for life. After reading The Education of Love, I walked into Enrico's life and witnessed how they studied, lived and fell in love. In the process of moving, I found that love contains the pursuit of life.
Love is a feeling, a belief and a pursuit, but ... it is impossible to describe the definition of love in accurate language, but I know that if someone loves you and gives your love, life will be full without regrets.
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Reflections on the Education of Love
The Education of Love was translated and introduced by Mr. Xia Gaizun in the 1920s. It has always been regarded as a famous children's book. Deeply loved by the education sector and the general public.
This is a short book and a masterpiece. Apart from Dante's famous Divine Comedy, the translation and introduction of Italian literature in China is not as good as the benefits brought by this little book to countless people.
I read this book when I was a freshman. The child's actions and thoughts made a newly enlightened teenager feel like a flame was burning in his chest. The stories in those books made me think of it as a great book and show off the chapters in it to many students.
The education of love actually consists of two parts, namely, the education of love and the education of continuous love. The former was translated by Mr. Gaizun according to the Japanese translation, and the latter was written by Amicus's friend, also based on San Pu's translation, which is an appropriate supplement to the former.
Where is this supplement reflected? Reflected in their differences and the continuity of psychological progress. The Education of Love is Enrique's psychological account as a primary school student. The protagonist is Enrique and his parents, and the sequel is his middle school account. The protagonist is his uncle Bai Qi. As the translator said, we can see that Amicus's Love Education is emotional education and soft education, while the sequel is written by will education, hard education and love education, which contains a lot of sadness, while the sequel contains more excitement.
Xia Feng's words are louder than anything:
"I only got the Japanese translation of this book four years ago. I remember crying for three days and nights to see it. Later, when I was translating or reading casually, I was deeply stimulated and my eyes were wet. These are not tears of sadness, but tears of shame and gratitude. In addition to human qualifications, my family has long been the father of two sons and two daughters, and I have been a teacher in the field of education for more than ten years. The attitude of being a father and a teacher on weekdays, after reading this book, it seems that an ugly woman met a beautiful woman, embarrassed, ashamed and crying. The love between parents and children, the affection between teachers and students, the friendship between friends, the affection of hometown and the sympathy of society described in the book are all close to the ideal world. Although it is an illusion, it makes people feel the feelings of the ideal world and think that the world should be so good. So I am grateful for the tears.
This book is generally regarded as a famous children's book, but I think it should be not only a children's book, but also an ordinary book. In particular, it should be introduced to parents and teachers who have a direct relationship with their children, so that everyone can shed some tears of shame or gratitude. "
However, this work can make people "shed some tears of shame or gratitude", but it cannot be widely read as a children's book for a long time. This is a pity.
In our primary and secondary education, the word "education of love" is easier said than done! In the overall understanding of education, school education, as a complete educational process, has never been and cannot be aimed at children. It first considers the existence of various contradictions in the real society and the development of society itself, and it is a question of what kind of people children grow up from generation to generation. At this point, education is not only free, but also compulsory. Once the form of collective teaching is established, the so-called "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" can only be a goal that needs continuous efforts.
From this perspective, "love education" also needs an adult standard education. After all, we can't live in the children's world like children, and children are growing up and won't stay on the standards of children forever. That's why when we saw Enrique enter middle school, we didn't have any surprise, but felt natural.
Having said that, I am reminded of the story about children's patriotism in the book. At that time, I often thought of "The Last Lesson" written by French writer Dodd, and felt that there was a striking similarity in spirit. In the process of historical progress, nationalism and patriotism have been closely linked, which is beyond Maruko's explanation. Amazing changes are taking place in this country.
This is also the reason why I wrote the book "Education of Love". This book has influenced many people, but it is very calm now. Not only because of my short teaching experience, but also because of the poor children and deeply hurt innocent hearts I saw in the interview.
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First, integrate into the "education of love"
Speaking of "education of love"-when I was at school, I saw you standing on the bookshelf of the school; After work, I saw you on the bookshelf of the unit; When I went to the bookstore, I saw you on the bookshelf of the bookstore ... I don't know how many times I was indifferent, and I can't tell you how many times I passed you by. Today, I can only say regret. What would my heart be like if I walked into your world the first time I saw you? If/kloc-caught you 0/2 years ago, I wouldn't be so confused after I joined the work. If I don't miss you in the future, my steps will be less bumpy and tortuous ... I don't want to say anything except regret ... Fortunately, I caught you today, and accidental luck made me catch you deeply and truly, bringing luck, happiness and happiness. ...
I say by accident because I have no intention to read this book carefully, just because the first volume of Grade Three Chinese published by Beijing Normal University has a paragraph "patriotic teenagers are in Italy". When I was studying the text, I just recommended to the students that "students can find this book to read after class" and didn't take it to heart. Fortunately, I passed Xinhua Bookstore one day, walked into Xinhua Bookstore, and came across this book again. At that time, I just looked through it at random ... What really attracted me to go in was a letter from Amrico's father to his son. In the letter, the father told his son seriously why and how to respect his mother. I have read many books on this subject and also read Fu Lei's letter, but this simple letter makes me feel reunited after a long separation, and I want to read it to my students. Because they are about the same age as Amrico, sometimes they are much more serious about their parents than Amrico. Some even quarrel with their parents at a young age, some are dissatisfied with their parents' remarks and even look down on their mothers. Some even let their mothers hold them up and tremble with cold in the cold wind in late autumn, but the son said to his mother, "It's freezing!" " ..... I bought different versions of "Education of Love" to reward several students who love reading, read this letter in class, called individual students to my office to read it to him alone, and then communicated with him ... Later, I contacted my parents, and his mother personally told me about the changes of the children. At first, I thought this book was to educate children to have love, to learn to love their parents and others ... Continue reading, I found this idea too superficial, because I felt from Amrico's parents' practice that the root of all children's problems is because sometimes we adults don't know who is the first to lack true love and need to be educated in love. Some parents openly tell their teachers about their children's shortcomings in front of their children, even in front of their children or guests ... At that time, I really felt how weak and helpless children are sometimes, and how unfair some practices are to them ... or when parents questioned their children, "How many times have I said it, how did you forget to bring it?" What did I tell you? Why can't you write well? I'm not asking you to check it carefully. Why did you make a mistake? Why can't you write well? How many times have I told you? Why don't you remember? Why don't you use your brain? ..... "In the words of the child himself in his diary," My head is about to explode. "Have we adults calmly asked ourselves" Why do children have these problems? "Where is the root cause? Children in grade three have shortcomings, and it is normal to encounter difficulties in learning. We adults have given this young source of spiritual strength and patient help, and children are inferior to others. Is it because he doesn't want to? He can't do it. Apart from the normal differences between people, are there any adult roots? Let's take the signature of a parent as an example. Some parents read a child's immature composition, carefully analyzed the reasons with their children, helped them correct their shortcomings, encouraged their children to work hard, and signed a full number of works. Parents pay more attention, but what do children get? Gaining strength, methods, new goals, successful experience from failure, and really delicate love from parents ... can be described as endless benefits. However, some parents only wrote two words "read". "This is a man who cherishes ink like gold;" Critics are "writing too little", "not serious", "unimaginable", "poor imagination" and "unable to write". There are also "read more, write more", "use more brains" and "imagine more", which can also be regarded as a corrector. Let's compare it calmly. How big is the gap brought by this signing? I'm afraid there will be more in other aspects, so love for children, what is true love, how to love, and when children need your true love most ... There are many puzzles in love education, from which we can get more enlightenment. Therefore, I feel that more contents in this book need to be read to every parent, so I ask every parent and child in our class to read Education of Love together and accept the baptism of love together. Mom, dad and children have to write reviews.