Simply put, the problem of learning mentality is actually the problem of children's self-control ability. Children with strong self-control ability can distinguish between study and play; Children with weak self-control only put comfort and pleasure first.
Fun is the nature of every child. Compared with boring study, fun is really fatal to children. So how to improve children's self-control? Xima suggested that parents and children make a reasonable study plan together.
Although my daughter is only six years old, she knows exactly what she should accomplish in one day. She has long known that I can only have fun if I finish the task with good quality and quantity. However, if you are careless in your study, you will be criticized and punished. If you extend your study time, your play time will be shortened.
If you don't have a correct learning attitude, you will suffer a big loss! It is difficult to cultivate children's three abilities without getting high marks.
The cultivation of self-control ability is to let children know that learning is my own business and my responsibility and obligation. I want to take overcoming a difficult problem as enjoyment, and I want to learn to understand happiness in my study. Children's self-control ability has improved, and their learning attitude will naturally be correct.
(2) Cultivate children's adaptability.
Some time ago, students from all over the country returned to school. One of the primary school students was too conscious when interviewed by reporters, which led to the video fire-
The reporter asked him what he did at home every day, and he replied to do his homework. The reporter asked again, do you like doing homework, or are your parents forcing you to do it? He told reporters that his parents asked him to do his homework, but he didn't resist because he tasted the sweetness of not resisting. First of all, if you don't do your homework, you will be criticized, blamed and punished by your parents. In the end, you will only be obedient. Secondly, my parents asked me to do my homework, so I did it, so that I could get praise not only from my parents, but also from my parents, and the whole family was harmonious.
This is adaptability. If you know that resistance is ineffective, why risk being beaten to resist? Since we know that we have to do our homework in the end, it is better to finish it early and play early, so that parents can't pick out any reasons to beat and scold themselves.
The change of mentality is an extremely important part. You should know that the study of any subject is a process of continuous accumulation. As long as you can adapt to the teacher's teaching methods and your original study plan, you will find that high marks will become a natural thing.
If you don't have a correct attitude towards learning, you will suffer a big loss! It is difficult to cultivate children's three abilities without getting high marks.
(3) Cultivate children's tenacity.
Last night, I saw a fan post an essay "I could have given up" written by his son. In the article, the child wrote like this-"I feel depressed because of my unsatisfactory study." About to enter the sprint stage, the results are disappointing, and then drop. I have reflected and regretted it, but it can't be redeemed. In the face of teachers' questioning, parents' questioning and even friends' ridicule, my heart hurts, and no one can understand me and rely on me. Finally, I couldn't help it. I told my mother that I wanted to take the exam and didn't want to study, so I slammed the door and left. "
With a low mood, the child ran out in the stormy afternoon and saw the lotus still standing between the lotus leaves despite the stormy weather, which made him wake up instantly. He described it like this:
"The rain gradually stopped and my mood gradually calmed down. I want to turn around and find that red-violet still stands between the lotus leaves after the rain, without losing the slightest charm, and the tender petals are more delicate. They didn't give up. Even in the defense, they struggled, they refused to accept, refused to accept their own lives ... I suddenly understood something. This is when the dark clouds are gone, and so are the dark clouds in my heart. I can do what even plants can do! "
High scores cannot be achieved overnight. In this process, we will experience the happiness of learning progress and the pain of learning retrogression. Be tenacious, enjoy the happiness of learning progress, and bear the pressure of learning retrogression. Don't be discouraged, don't complain, step by step, there will always be a fulfilling day!