"Love enables children to observe the characteristics of their environment keenly and enthusiastically, which is very important for adults because they lack the vitality of children."
I believe there are no parents who don't love their children. This love even gives parents unlimited strength and gives their children the best in the world.
Such as early education.
Every parent is eager for their children to win at the starting line, because for parents, "their children should have the best start in life, receive a good basic education, fully tap their potential and grow into a person who is beneficial to society."
However, many parents questioned, "What can you learn by spending money on early childhood classes? Children aged 0-3 are still too young to attend early education classes, right? "
Mr. Xiaoqi, a well-known expert in early childhood education and a blogger of Weibo certified children's education, mentioned in his new book "Teacher Xiaoqi's Parenting Theory"-five lessons of children's pain points that "early childhood education is not to let children learn knowledge prematurely, but in the true sense, early childhood education mainly includes three things: developing children's potential, establishing a good parent-child relationship and cultivating children's independent personality."
After reading this book, I think this is not only the key to early education, but also "to make children's personality develop soundly and establish a good parent-child relationship with children", even for the growth of children aged 0-6.
As parents, we must know our children before we can teach them.
In the book, based on the theory of modern developmental psychology, combined with her years of work and teaching experience in the front line of early education, Teacher Xiaoqi answered in detail the 1 10 parenting problems that parents of children aged 0-6 are most concerned about in five key modules of early education: parent-child communication, social skills, living habits, early science education and artistic experience.
When answering questions, the book has a clear framework, compact theoretical logic and powerful methods. It is a highly readable reference book for parenting guidance.
No matter what age parents are, they can get scientific and effective parenting ideas from reading this book, and help their children cultivate independent, confident, willing to learn, healthy and happy literacy and habits through companionship, practice and revision in daily life.
Feel, understand and respond positively to children's needs, and establish a safe attachment relationship with children. A psychologist named colvin TriWatson, who was trained in brain science earlier, is a world-famous baby researcher. He believes that parents' appropriate response is very important for the formation of baby happiness. "
In his "facial stillness" experiment, a mother laughed and amused with her child at first, and occasionally touched her child's fleshy face with her fingers. Later, however, when the child tried to communicate with his mother by pouting and "eyah", the mother was asked to look at the child with a straight face.
At this point, the child first showed a strong desire to communicate, then protested angrily, then became restless, tried to "struggle" to sit up and grab his mother's hand, and finally gave up the attempt to communicate.