Ming Lan's mother, as a concubine, has neither the nobility of the powerful nor the decency of the favored Lin Xiaoniang. It was freezing in the cold, and the housekeeper Lin Xiaoniang deliberately made things difficult and detained the food and charcoal fire in their room. All kinds of begging, only give them charcoal that is not easy to burn, not only can the temperature not rise, but also make everyone cough and cry. Mother tried her best not to tell her father these things, but she still stubbornly sought justice from her father. As a result, Fluttershy, the closest maid, was driven out of the house; The female ambassador whose room is stuffed into the other hospital knows everything that happens; The delicious flowing water made the fetus in the mother's womb too big and finally died in childbirth.
One corpse and two lives, mother taught Ming Lan a lesson with blood, and she realized that it was so costly to do something against her will. So, after that, she was careful not to allow herself to make a wrong step. Even if she was bullied by her two sisters, she just gave in again and again, not fighting for it and not going out. Because she knows that some things may be just a small mistake for others. As soon as the parents cover it up, they will pass. For her, a small mistake corresponds to losing the game. Therefore, after her mother died, Ming Lan was no longer as prominent as before.
At school, she was always punished for copying books because her handwriting was not good enough. Zhuang pedant asked to write the word "forever", and if he wrote well, he would not be punished for copying books. But Ming Lan said, "That student should copy this book!" . In fact, where did the clever Ming Lan come from to write badly? It's just that he once stood up to get justice for his father, and the result is still vivid. This is learning from one's own personal experience. When you are unable to protect yourself, you should know how to hide others, otherwise you will lose miserably. Understand what the mistake is, and then try not to make it again. This is where Ming Lan is smarter than the average girl. Besides his own experience, Ming Lan will learn from other people's behaviors. The most classic time was when grandma invited Mammy Kong to your home to tutor three girls. Moran tried her best to attract Kong's mother's attention, stole the limelight from her sisters and occupied everyone's class time.
This caused Rulan great dissatisfaction, and the two quarreled endlessly in class and finally got into a big fight. Three people were punished, although Ming Lan didn't make a mistake. After being beaten, the two sisters cried and complained, but after being beaten, they learned the management of mother Kong. First of all, small things go away, and big things turn into big things. At first, Moran and Rulan were tit for tat everywhere, but they were all small things. Even if Confucius knew that they had made a mistake, he was not in a hurry to attack, but let them secretly compete. When the fire broke out, she stood up, stood up for justice and caught the mistake, hell to pay.
Second, promote small things. If you want to hit someone's daughter, my parents will definitely feel distressed and will try not to hit them. Even if they do, they will be unhappy. How did Mammy Kong do it? She told Sheng Kui that although this is a trivial matter, no matter how to teach it, it will only make the family house restless, ruin the family atmosphere, affect the daughter of Sheng Jia to marry a good family, and also affect the career path of Sheng Jia men. Speaking of this, even if parents feel distressed again, they will feel that they should fight, and they should also thank Ms. Kong for her teaching. After all, the daughter's punishment is nothing compared with Sheng Jia's reputation. Why did Lan answer all the stories that Kong's mother taught them? Her housekeeper can see from behind.
After Ming Lan mastered the rights of the housekeeper, he had an independent yard, and the big lady and Lin Xiaoniang rushed to cram people into the yard. The people of Cyprus are not kind, but they are planting eyeliner. Ming Lan know eyeliner must be removed, but the big lady and Lin Xiaoniang can't offend. At this point, she perfectly copied the method used by Confucius. First, make a mountain out of a molehill. She accepted all the people with a smile and pampered them in every way. Even if the female ambassadors around her couldn't stand it, everyone said that she was soft-tempered, and she still let them make mistakes until they were lawless. Chloe, sent by Lin Xiaoniang, refused to do anything at Ming Lan College. She often hooked up with Chang Feng, leaving Ming Lan alone, so they were bolder. Ginkgo biloba, a girl sent by the first lady, has always worshipped Changbai, and every time she sees Changbai, she will come forward to cater to it. Knowing that Ming Lan would never punish her.
Ming Lan has been pushing them, making them more and more insolent, and finally they don't even shy away from meeting privately, becoming blatant. Roughly speaking, she played a prank twice and was caught by Lin Xiaoniang and the first lady. So things got bigger. You see, this trick is a complete replica of Confucius. Don't care about small things, let things ferment, because the more serious things are, the easier it is to deal with. Including Ming Lan later married, her mother-in-law came to her yard, and she also used the same method. This incident has made a big deal, which is related to the future of the two brothers. This is something that the big lady and Lin Xiaoniang can't tolerate. My son's future is more important than spying on Ming Lan. So, before Ming Lan moved, the big lady was anxious to be a bad guy and send all these people out.
This trick is also learned from mother Kong, and the little things are brought up to let everyone know the meaning behind them. It doesn't take much effort to get things done. People who have the ability to learn can always see the advantages of others everywhere, see the intelligence of others, and then use it for themselves. When Moran and Rulan were sitting in the school, Ming Lan not only studied books, but also learned other people's behaviors. This is the reason why Ming Lan has finally become stronger and stronger. She is too good at learning, constantly summing up answers from her own experience, summing up answers from other people's beautiful things, and then learning to use them. Life is full of learning.