Author: Qiao Yu time: April 2007-15 Click: 3.
"Moss flowers are as small as rice, but they also bloom like peonies." When I first read this poem by Yuan Mei, I was deeply moved. Moss is so weak that it is neither humble nor gorgeous. We still have to learn from the peony, decorate the spring seriously and open up the dignity of life optimistically!
This reminds people of Peking University student Liu Mohan, a poor student in Wuji County, Hebei Province. With the money from work-study programs and other people's support, she founded a student aid fund named after herself, and has so far supported 37 relatively poor college students. Some people may say that a poor student's fund is just a drop in the bucket, but its value lies in encouraging people to remain spiritually rich in poverty, repay society with gratitude, and make life more dignified.
Compared with Liu Mohan, the practices of some poor students are chilling. In order to adapt to the environment quickly, some students get rid of the label of "poor students" and blindly compare and waste. CCTV once reported that Tang Xiao, the champion of the college entrance examination in a county in Sichuan, relied on social donations to study, and the university squandered all the donations in four years, and still owes the tuition for the fourth year. On the eve of graduation, I cheated a kind donor of thousands of dollars.
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When we talk about or pay attention to poor college students today, we pay more attention to their material aspects and ignore their mental and psychological problems. At present, the system of "award, loan, assistance, supplement and reduction" in colleges and universities in China has been basically established, which has solved the living difficulties of poor students well. While helping to alleviate the economic pressure, it is also time to pay attention to the mental poverty of poor students.
Compared with other students, poor students are more likely to have psychological characteristics such as sensitivity, anxiety, inferiority and depression, especially freshmen who have just entered the university. The psychological problems caused by poverty are more prominent, which are mainly manifested in two aspects: one is self-isolation, unwilling to communicate with classmates and teachers, and the other is indulging in the virtual world and relying on online games to kill youth. A survey shows that there are more than 2.8 million poor students in public full-time colleges and universities in China, accounting for about 20% of the total number of college students. The whole society should pay common attention to the mental and psychological problems of some poor students, especially colleges and universities, which are the concrete implementers of poverty alleviation, should take spiritual encouragement measures to correctly guide poor students to overcome difficulties. In a sense, spiritual encouragement is more important.
Poverty can produce a virtuous circle or a vicious circle. If a poor student is grateful, actively participates in public welfare activities, and feels happy while helping others, he will be more willing to help others, and will also infect the students around him, thus forming a virtuous circle. On the other hand, students receive less education and edification, and poor students think that I am poor and should receive grants. This is the society's compensation for me, which leads to the idea of waiting, relying, wanting and even self-indulgence.
Poverty is not the fault of poor students, and there is no need for poor students to feel inferior because of poverty. Poor students may lack the courage to stand in the center of life stage for a while, but they should not lack spiritual self-esteem. They should be as optimistic, confident and enterprising as Moss. Without spiritual self-esteem, life can only be a swamp.
Poverty is not a reason for sinking, but a rare wealth. Can stimulate the potential of struggle. Throughout history, there is hardly a successful person who has not experienced such an experience. A poor student put it well: "We can't choose our family, but we can choose our life!" " "