1. Respect children: Parents should not always stare at their children's weaknesses, and should not compare their own shortcomings with the strengths of other children. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

2, don't start with learning: communicate with children, parents should not always enter the topic with academic performance, this will only make children feel pressure and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.

3. Stabilize emotions: It is definitely irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to children's more resistance. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. When you calm down, you can communicate with your children.

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Children will show a strong sense of disobedience at a certain stage, which is the first rebellious period of people. The second rebellious period appeared at the age of 7-8. The third rebellious period appears in 13- 18, which is what people call adolescence.

Parents also came from the rebellious period, but not as obvious as children now, so in the face of children's inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.