A family without rules cannot raise excellent children. Parents' words and deeds, family atmosphere and family education will have a far-reaching impact on children's growth. If parents don't attach importance to their children's education since childhood and let them develop freely, then children will easily become silly and sweet.

Second, excessive protection.

Nowadays, parents generally overprotect their children, keep them away from the outside world and prevent them from being hit by setbacks and failures. Such children often lack the ability to think independently, can't deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, can't face setbacks and failures, and easily become stupid and sweet.

Third, parents dote on them.

Parents' doting on their children is also one of the reasons why children are silly and sweet. Parents give their children whatever they want in order to make them happy, so that children will become dependent, will not fight for what they want, and will not make plans for their future.

Fourth, pay attention to superficial kung fu.

Nowadays, parents often only pay attention to their children's superficial skills, such as academic performance and appearance, while ignoring their inner qualities. Such children often only pursue superficial things, but lack inner cultivation and quality, which also makes them easy to become stupid and sweet.

Fifth, lack of exercise.

Nowadays, children generally lack exercise and only play electronic products such as mobile phones and televisions, which makes them lazy and lack motivation. Children who lack exercise are not only in poor health, but also easy to make children stupid and sweet.

Sixth, lack of social skills.

Nowadays, children generally lack social skills, can't deal with complicated interpersonal relationships and can't communicate with others. Such a child is easy to be used, cheated, and easily become stupid and sweet.

How to prevent children from becoming stupid and sweet?

First, cultivate children's independence from childhood.

Parents should cultivate their children's independence from an early age and let them learn to think for themselves and solve problems by themselves. When a child makes a mistake, don't solve the problem instead of the child, but guide the child to solve the problem by himself.

Second, let children contact the outside world.

Parents should let their children get in touch with the outside world, let them know different cultures and concepts, and let them learn to accept different views and concepts. This can help children broaden their horizons and cultivate their independent thinking ability.

Third, pay moderate attention to the growth of children.

Parents should pay moderate attention to their children's growth, not too much protection, and not too much doting. Let children learn to fight for what they want, and let children learn to plan their future.

Fourth, pay attention to the inner quality of children.

Parents should pay attention to their children's inner qualities, not just their superficial skills. Let children learn to cultivate self-cultivation, learn to deal with complex interpersonal relationships, and let children learn to plan for their future.

Fifth, let children do more physical exercise.

Parents should let their children do more physical exercise and let them learn to persist and work hard. Physical exercise can not only improve children's physical fitness, but also cultivate their willpower and perseverance.

Sixth, cultivate children's social skills.

Parents should cultivate their children's social skills and let them learn to communicate with others. Children can participate in various social activities, learn to deal with complex interpersonal relationships and learn to plan their own future.

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A good family environment and good family education are the basis for cultivating excellent children. Parents should cultivate their children's independence from childhood, let them get in touch with the outside world, pay moderate attention to their growth, pay attention to their inner qualities, let them do more physical exercise and cultivate their social skills. This will prevent children from becoming stupid and sweet.